Posted On: April 28, 2020
Do you know about the Orgasm Gap? Did you know May is Masturbation Month in the United States? Every May, I do something with regards to debunking myths around masturbation. Subscribe to my free online series Masturbation Month here www.eroscoaching.com/masturbation-month. For this post, I’m sharing some statistics I have gathered about the Orgasm Gap! […]
Posted On: April 1, 2020
It’s actually been 9 years since I separated from my second ex-husband. All through these years, I’ve been hesitant and afraid of the question: “How can you call yourself a relationship/ sexuality coach/ counselor when you yourself have two ‘failed’ marriages?” It was precisely my fear of such a question that made me hang on […]
Posted On: March 31, 2020
In partnership with Horny.sg The Coronavirus pandemic has forced the countries around the world to lockdown and call for physical distancing and home quarantine. Staying at home and social distancing is not just advisable but highly recommended. As much as we all love to go about our lives and business, our health must be at the […]
Posted On: March 15, 2020
Sexual energy is often referred to as lifeforce energy. Hence this is my definition of Sexuality: Your relationship with your lifeforce energy (the innate energy that resides inside you). You can born with strong energy (nature) and/ or cultivate it (nurture) e.g. exercise/ food. Regardless whether you have strong/ weak energy (vitality), you can learn […]
Posted On: January 8, 2020
Your sexuality is an innate part of who we are. So many people suffer from lack of or misinformation about sex and sexuality though, and as a result suffer in silence and often for long periods of time – not knowing where to go to seek support and who to trust. My non-coaches friends share […]
Posted On: January 2, 2020
Many years ago, a client who overcame Vaginismus (inability to have vaginal penetration) came back with her husband to thank me for my work with them and complete our last session. She said this and I would never forgot it: Her: “Martha.. it wasn’t what you taught us that mattered… Honestly, we could have learned […]
Posted On: December 29, 2019
In present time, I would look at the beautiful orchids in my office and feel sad knowing they will die one day soon. Why do they have to die? Do they know they are going to die? If they knew, would they bother to bloom so brightly and as radiantly as they do? One might […]
Posted On: December 23, 2019
I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal) 110 in 2016, (Didn’t reach goal) 80 in 2017, (Didn’t reach goal) […]
Posted On: November 21, 2019
Why I do what I do is a weekly series where AsiaOne showcases uncommon professions and what it takes to go down that career path. In their final episode, they feature me (Dr Martha Tara Lee, a clinical sexologist and relationship counsellor). Having a desire at a young age to understand sex and how it […]
Posted On: October 29, 2019
I have been practising as a Clinical Sexologist and Sexuality Educator since 2009 – long before it was fashionable, or sexy, or money-making to talk about sex and sexuality in Singapore, or for that matter in Asia as an Asian. Many people ask me why I do what I do. I am passionate about supporting […]
Posted On: October 10, 2019
“Do you know what the word ’empowered’ means?” I used to volunteer in the only women advocacy group in Singapore, and this question was one of the first questions one of the ex-Presidents and my one-time mentor asked me. I didn’t know. I felt I should have. I certainly heard it many times. So cool […]
Posted On: September 9, 2019
Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) are a range of developmental disorders characterised by difficulties in socialisation and communication, and restricted or repetitive pattern of behaviours and interest. I’ve pulled together some books I’ve been told supports parents/ caregivers and educators working with individuals with ASD. The below reviews are extracted from online (not written by me). […]
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