Posted On: February 13, 2020
Many years ago, I became good friends (and still am) with an older male friend. He was very tolerate of my childish ways and I couldn’t comprehend the depth and width of his heart and patience until I met his wife. She admitted to me in that one meeting that she has obsessive compulsive tendencies. […]
Posted On: February 13, 2020
Recalling from years ago… my marriage was on the rocks. Psychic: “… You have to leave him or you will lose everything including everything you worked so hard for (aka my practice). In the end… he will still be unfaithful to you… you will lose your mind… leave him. You have to leave him by […]
Posted On: January 2, 2020
Many years ago, a client who overcame Vaginismus (inability to have vaginal penetration) came back with her husband to thank me for my work with them and complete our last session. She said this and I would never forgot it: Her: “Martha.. it wasn’t what you taught us that mattered… Honestly, we could have learned […]
Posted On: December 29, 2019
In present time, I would look at the beautiful orchids in my office and feel sad knowing they will die one day soon. Why do they have to die? Do they know they are going to die? If they knew, would they bother to bloom so brightly and as radiantly as they do? One might […]
Posted On: August 19, 2019
“Just as the title suggests, Martha’s workshop has all the knowledge we should have had growing up. Don’t worry if you were not comfortable with talking about sex. I could distribute condoms to sex works for my volunteering work, but I was also shy to even buy condoms in the supermarket for my own! After […]
Posted On: June 18, 2019
These are some books I’ve come across over the years that have come highly recommended and I wanted to share this list with you. Do note that some of them are from a religious angle – I would say “take what is useful and let go of what is not” if you do not identify […]
Posted On: April 1, 2019
Fest of Love Singapore ran for the first time in Singapore Feb 14 – 24 over ten days. During this time, we had a book launch, conference (Feb 16 and 17) and 40 workshops offered over 10 days. These are some snaps from the Fest of Love conference Feb 16 and 17. There is also […]
Posted On: February 6, 2019
What is love? We ask some of the presenters from Festival of Love. Do check out what they are offering for Fest of Love and see you at the Fest of Love! Festival of Love is organised by Eros Coaching. This Festival is the brainchild of Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee […]
Posted On: September 3, 2018
In collaboration with The Busy Woman Project – a lifestyle brand and community empowering women in Asia & the people around them to lead their best lives through being well mentally, physically and emotionally. No time for sex? Too tired to have sex? You probably know the importance of sex dates for our well-being and […]
Posted On: August 26, 2018
Several years ago, I signed up for Childbirth, Breastfeeding, as well as Post-partum doula training with Childbirth Training, but for personal reasons, I didn’t begin my training. My work supporters of many years and now friends, Linda van Laer (ex doula and counselor now) and Angelyn Seet-Loh (seasoned childbirth educator and birth doula) gently urged […]
Posted On: July 30, 2018
I gave three presentations in two conferences over three days this past weekend Fri 27 – Sun 29 July 2018 in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. They are: “Sex at 50” (Symposium 5) and “Dealing with Female Sexuality” (Plenary 12) at Malaysian International Scientific Congress of Obstetrics and Gynaecology (MISCOG 2018), Obstetrical and Gynaecological Society of Malaysia […]
Posted On: June 23, 2018
Last Friday, I was waiting for a bus when I saw an older man with two kids sending off a woman at the bus stop. He seemed like the granddad. What drew me to them was how the two little girls were waving furiously as the woman boarded her bus (which was also my bus) […]
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