Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Posted On: April 5, 2021

I’ve pulled together a resource list for you – media portrayals of non-monogamy i.e. movies/ TV series. I believe that the lack of non-monogamy portrayals makes people assume that the monogamous relationship model is the only one that exists. For a long time, the non-monogamy model is actually the one that is commonplace. When I […]

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Milestones for 2021

Milestones for 2021

Posted On: March 30, 2021

This is a list of events/ articles/ media interviews which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. This is a bit of […]

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Anal Sex – The Necessary Hygiene, and Safety

Anal Sex – The Necessary Hygiene, and Safety

Posted On: March 23, 2021

This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. Anal sex is a type of sexual expression that though not openly discussed is a sexual activity that still great number of people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity have tried it or are curious about. In this article let’s talk about anal sex: what to […]

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Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Posted On: September 1, 2020

I was observing three older Chinese men talking at a cafe because they were SO loud. It is pretty typical growing up and in Singapore actually but I decided to take some time to observe since I do like people watching. I observed: They were talking to one another at the top of their voices. […]

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Sexuality and My Teenage Children with Autism

Sexuality and My Teenage Children with Autism

Posted On: August 31, 2020

A feature by Channel NewsAsia. I appear briefly in this feature highlighting the importance of sexuality education for children with special needs. I’ve been doing volunteer work for people with cancer and disabilities for a long time, but especially so in the last two years because of advocates who support this need within the organisations. […]

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What’s it like to be a Clinical Sexologist?

What’s it like to be a Clinical Sexologist?

Posted On: August 31, 2020

This was a podcast interview I did for SPH Radio and released on 25 June 2020. Description Rhianne Lovell-Boland finds out what it’s like to be a Clinical Sexologist with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist, Eros Coaching. They discuss what a sexologist actually does, the stigma she faces due to misconceptions of her role, […]

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Webinar: Less Fighting, More Loving

Webinar: Less Fighting, More Loving

Posted On: May 14, 2020

While it may seem like the world has hit the ‘Pause’ button, this time of confusions and uncertainty, is also an opportunity to re-examine what and who are truly important in our lives.   Lets face it, relationships can be difficult and sometimes while it may seem impossible, with a little guidance, you will find […]

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Pay-what-you-can: Love Colouring Book

Pay-what-you-can: Love Colouring Book

Posted On: May 13, 2020

Get this Love Colouring Book and make dazzling designs to share your love! Pay what you can below! About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in […]

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Stay Home Bingo

Stay Home Bingo

Posted On: May 13, 2020

This is a fun activity sheet that you and your partner can go through with keep yourself occupied, and connected during these times. Let us know how things go? Want more? Download our epic list of 69 activities for couples here! About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck […]

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My Imperfectly Perfect Marriages

My Imperfectly Perfect Marriages

Posted On: April 1, 2020

It’s actually been 9 years since I separated from my second ex-husband. All through these years, I’ve been hesitant and afraid of the question: “How can you call yourself a relationship/ sexuality coach/ counselor when you yourself have two ‘failed’ marriages?” It was precisely my fear of such a question that made me hang on […]

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Sexuality – The Last Frontier of Being an Expressed Adult?

Sexuality – The Last Frontier of Being an Expressed Adult?

Posted On: March 15, 2020

Sexual energy is often referred to as lifeforce energy. Hence this is my definition of Sexuality: Your relationship with your lifeforce energy (the innate energy that resides inside you). You can born with strong energy (nature) and/ or cultivate it (nurture) e.g. exercise/ food. Regardless whether you have strong/ weak energy (vitality), you can learn […]

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Booklist – Dealing with Affairs in Marriage

Booklist – Dealing with Affairs in Marriage

Posted On: March 7, 2020

Contrary to what people might believe, many couples actually stay together after an affair. These are some books on dealing an emotional and/ or physical affair in a marriage. 1.) After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful, 2nd Edition “Dr. Spring possesses a remarkable combination of clarity, […]

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