Posted On: March 1, 2022
Years ago, I was attending a free-form movement class regularly and got to know a person whom I knew was a popular NLP coach in Singapore. Whenever we spoke, he would make it a point to reach out and touch me somewhere along my shoulder to arm without warning and definitely without asking. I knew […]
Posted On: November 2, 2021
Resharing this 5min podcast I did last year in 2020. It’s on making sure you don’t go into burn-out and what to do if you are affected by everything that is happening right now. Be safe out there! #selflove #joy #healing #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #depression #covidstress #stress #selfcare #burnout #mentalresilience While you’re here, perhaps subscribe to […]
Posted On: March 15, 2021
I was on the podcast Men, Sex, Pleasure by Cam Fraser. Hope you give it a listen! 🙂 About the podcast The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven’t been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male […]
Posted On: December 26, 2020
I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal) 110 in 2016, (Didn’t reach goal) 80 in 2017, (Didn’t reach goal) […]
Posted On: December 19, 2020
This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date What JANUARY […]
Posted On: October 27, 2020
On grieving… my mom passed away 27 Oct in 2018 and I thought I’d write some of what I felt as a person going through grieving. I recognise it can be different for different people and I am in no way dismissing the experiences of others, just wanting to share what is mine in the […]
Posted On: October 20, 2020
Written in October 2019. Posting this as the 2nd year death anniversary of my mom comes up: I first started pet-sitting to overcome my fear of dogs and cats years ago. Last year, I had several dogsitting assignments (free or with honorarium) which all involved house-sitting as well – in fact more gigs than ever […]
Posted On: October 14, 2020
Everyday I wake up grateful for my life, everything I have going and everything I have. Increasingly my daily thoughts go to my dad for the unconditional and infinite love and support I have received and continue to receive from him. He has done more thankless, mundane, and menial things for me than anybody in […]
Posted On: October 1, 2020
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month in the United States. Was chatting with my girl friend about the abuse from my ex partners… “I’m glad I wasn’t physically abused. And maybe it didn’t happen because I was clear that was something I would never put up with…” Actually there was once my ex husband threw […]
Posted On: September 1, 2020
I was observing three older Chinese men talking at a cafe because they were SO loud. It is pretty typical growing up and in Singapore actually but I decided to take some time to observe since I do like people watching. I observed: They were talking to one another at the top of their voices. […]
Posted On: August 1, 2020
When I was probably 5 or 6, I asked my mom what life had in stored for me. She explained to me the education system in Singapore – primary school (6 years), secondary school (4 years), junior college (2 years), university (2 – 3 years). I asked what was beyond university and she said that […]
Posted On: June 10, 2020
There was some lapse/ delay on my mobile while at the office today. I was scrolling through my Facebook feeds… and I came upon a FB post by a ‘friend’. For some reason, I couldn’t see their profile picture but I could see the name. I read the post and was impressed by the depth […]
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