Posted On: May 18, 2022
Years ago, I had a fellow sex educator friend visit me in Singapore. She bought a whole bunch of things, wanted to lighten her suitcase and tried to offload stuff by gifting me her vibrator. I didn’t want it and she came up with the idea of gifting it to my mom all on her […]
Posted On: May 10, 2022
Years ago, I attended an event where the speaker was apparently famous for talking about successful marriages. I remember being impressed and queued to get my purchased copy of his book autographed. Later when he was on stage, I was shocked when I heard him say he was qualified to talk about marriage because he’s […]
Posted On: May 3, 2022
Years ago, when my office was at Purvis Street, a popular restaurant opened downstairs and a line would form infront of the only entrance up to my office blocking it every night. I started having clients walk right past the entrance not being unable to find my unit number, resulting in me spending more wasted […]
Posted On: April 26, 2022
Love yourself because you’re the most important person in your life. If you don’t believe you’re the most important person in your life, live as if you’re the most important person in your life until you believe you’re the most important person in your life. Thriving only comes from a place of wellness. Each and […]
Posted On: April 19, 2022
I believe in giving people three chances. First time, I state my boundaries. Second time, maybe you didn’t hear me the first time. Third time, it’s quite enough. But as I got older, I realise one more chance is sometimes one too many. People who continue to push boundaries simply don’t respect – now or […]
Posted On: April 12, 2022
Years ago, I asked to speak to my boss and asked a promotion. He gave me invaluable input: “In order to promote you to manager, you need to already do what a manager does.” It really hit home. I was waiting for opportunities to grow. I was keeping to my lot. I was working to […]
Posted On: April 5, 2022
Years ago, I was attending a free-form movement class regularly and got to know a person whom I knew was a popular NLP coach in Singapore. Since I knew little about NLP, I was curious about his work. After one session, I found myself walking with him and his followers to the MRT station and […]
Posted On: March 22, 2022
Years ago when I was attending sex therapy training in Florida, my teacher would introduce me to everybody as “Dr Lee”. I would be embarrassed because it wasn’t true. I wasn’t qualified yet, and quite some way from being a Dr of anything. In the academic world we’re in, I thought my teacher should know […]
Posted On: March 21, 2022
I’m teaching a three-week Counseling Skills for Couples. I’m so passionate about teaching counseling skills and been waiting to run for a long time because I truly believe it is a life skill each of us should have. Many years ago (close to 20 years ago), my counseling teacher explained real listening wasn’t just about […]
Posted On: March 21, 2022
Apps – love them or hate them, they are here to stay, and they can certainly make our lives better. Here are some for you to check out relating to mindfulness, meditation, and mental health. I have not tried all these apps, and have no vested interest nor affiliation to declare. 1. Aura: Meditation & […]
Posted On: March 15, 2022
One of my longest friend from polytechnic has a tendency to over explain. Because I cherish the friendship, we have kept in touch over the years despite how different we are. Over time, I notice how drained of energy and how I can’t wait to get away from her each time we meet. Even though […]
Posted On: March 8, 2022
Many years ago, my friend who is an avid dog lover refused to see a life coach I recommended because of the way the coach treated her dog. I couldn’t see anything amiss with her dog but my friend explained: from the eyes, fur, and energy of the dog. The dog was confined in a […]
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