Posted On: July 16, 2023
I hesitated to share this personal story but I’ve been encouraged to do so. I’m doing so at risk of being judged by putting myself out there (again) because it is too important a story not to share. I agreed to hook up with somebody flying into Singapore for work. I had a rash due […]
Posted On: July 1, 2023
Financial compatibility is an essential part of any romantic relationship, and especially a marriage. It’s important to understand how you and your partner view money, how you manage it, and how you make decisions about it. Knowing if you are financially compatible can help you both avoid potential conflicts and build a strong foundation for […]
Posted On: June 21, 2023
Many years ago before I began my training to be a Sexologist, I was on a movie date with my Australian boyfriend. We were riding on a downward escalator when two men who looked like a couple came towards us on the side of the upriding escalator. I nudged my date to get his attention […]
Posted On: June 14, 2023
I’m glad and relieved! During the National Day Rally on 21st August 2022, Singapore’s Prime Minister announced that the government will repeal Section 377A! Homosexuality has been a long-standing issue, and this historic news is a huge win for the LGBTQ+ community. Many years ago when Pink Dot Singapore was in its first few years, […]
Posted On: June 7, 2023
I’m glad and relieved! During the National Day Rally on 21st August 2022, Singapore’s Prime Minister announced that the government will repeal Section 377A! Homosexuality has been a long-standing issue, and this historic news is a huge win for the LGBTQ+ community. There was an argument that LGBT people are anti-family. This is too distressing […]
Posted On: June 1, 2023
June is Pride Month. LGBTQIA+ is an inclusive term which stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex and asexual. While each letter in LGBTQIA+ stands for a specific group of people, the term encompasses the entire spectrum of gender fluidity and sexual identities. A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know June is […]
Posted On: May 1, 2023
While masturbation means different things to different people, it is one of the most misunderstood subjects in the world, as it is enshrined in mystery and secrecy because of the simple reason we speak so little about it. Masturbation may evoke massive levels of guilt and shame, as many of us were told from when […]
Posted On: April 15, 2023
When it comes to ensuring a relationship remains successful long-term, the importance of good sex should never be underestimated. Benefits of a good sex life range from everything such as deepening your connection and intimacy, to lowering blood pressure and even improving your self-esteem. But finding new ways to ignite excitement and fun in the […]
Posted On: April 8, 2023
I recently read Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman and I was pleasantly surprised. This book is an absolute must-read for any sexologist. It offers a comprehensive look at how to reduce stress and anxiety around sex, while also providing practical advice on how to make sex more enjoyable. The book starts off by discussing […]
Posted On: April 4, 2023
Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares everything you need to know about Vulva Self-Examination. What is a Vulvar Self-Exam? A vaginal self-examination is a way for a woman to look at her vulva and vagina. Everything You Need to Know About Vulva Self-Examination What is Vulvar Self-Exam? A […]
Posted On: March 29, 2023
Recently, I had a guy say this to me: “Men are taught to repress their emotions…” Now, I’ve heard and read this many times but this time, I chose to ask: “How were you taught to repress your emotions?” He shared: “I was 5 when I expressed my upset in front of my dad and […]
Posted On: March 22, 2023
I’ve had a urinary tract infection (UTI) twice in the last one month – each time just a bit after 24 hours of penile-vaginal penetrative sex. The first incident occurred at 3:30 a.m., and the second at 12:30 a.m. when I felt this urgent urge to pee 3 times in 5 minutes. Each time, I […]
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