I dreamed of my mom…

I dreamed of my mom…

Posted On: October 4, 2020

Two Saturday nights ago (12 September 2020), I dreamed of my mom – the first time since she passed away almost 3 years ago now. In the dream, she was in her 30s and having some kind of white mask (like facial mask) on. I stirred and freaked out in my sleep (enough to know […]

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Abuse is Abuse

Abuse is Abuse

Posted On: October 1, 2020

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month in the United States. Was chatting with my girl friend about the abuse from my ex partners… “I’m glad I wasn’t physically abused. And maybe it didn’t happen because I was clear that was something I would never put up with…” Actually there was once my ex husband threw […]

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Q&A with Yahoo Taiwan

Q&A with Yahoo Taiwan

Posted On: September 17, 2020

This was an interview in Mandarin I did with Yahoo Taiwan. My Mandarin isn’t great and I struggled with it, but I do hope this interview to some of you out there. 【QA直播】童老師與你面對面! 關於性,你還有什麼問題? ft.新加坡性治療師 Dr.Martha Lee View the interview here. About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck […]

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Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Posted On: September 1, 2020

I was observing three older Chinese men talking at a cafe because they were SO loud. It is pretty typical growing up and in Singapore actually but I decided to take some time to observe since I do like people watching. I observed: They were talking to one another at the top of their voices. […]

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Student Health Forum: Let’s Talk About Sex Ed

Student Health Forum: Let’s Talk About Sex Ed

Posted On: August 31, 2020

I was a panelist on Let’s Talk about Sex for Real, Student Health Forum organised by Asian Medical Students’ Association (AMSA) of the International Medical University (IMU) of Malaysia (AMSA IMU) on July 18, 2020. This is the recording.   About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by […]

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Sexuality and My Teenage Children with Autism

Sexuality and My Teenage Children with Autism

Posted On: August 31, 2020

A feature by Channel NewsAsia. I appear briefly in this feature highlighting the importance of sexuality education for children with special needs. I’ve been doing volunteer work for people with cancer and disabilities for a long time, but especially so in the last two years because of advocates who support this need within the organisations. […]

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What’s it like to be a Clinical Sexologist?

What’s it like to be a Clinical Sexologist?

Posted On: August 31, 2020

This was a podcast interview I did for SPH Radio and released on 25 June 2020. Description Rhianne Lovell-Boland finds out what it’s like to be a Clinical Sexologist with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist, Eros Coaching. They discuss what a sexologist actually does, the stigma she faces due to misconceptions of her role, […]

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Project WYAT- Ep 153: Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist

Project WYAT- Ep 153: Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist

Posted On: August 31, 2020

I answer some questions about my work as a Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist for Project Wyat here.   About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference […]

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Sexologist Answers for Cleo Singapore

Sexologist Answers for Cleo Singapore

Posted On: August 31, 2020

Am sharing this interview I did for Cleo Singapore. This video answers some commonly asked questions around sex and sexuality. Hope you find it useful!   About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee […]

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Lifelong Learning is Possible

Lifelong Learning is Possible

Posted On: August 1, 2020

When I was probably 5 or 6, I asked my mom what life had in stored for me. She explained to me the education system in Singapore – primary school (6 years), secondary school (4 years), junior college (2 years), university (2 – 3 years). I asked what was beyond university and she said that […]

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Evolution is a Choice

Evolution is a Choice

Posted On: June 10, 2020

There was some lapse/ delay on my mobile while at the office today. I was scrolling through my Facebook feeds… and I came upon a FB post by a ‘friend’. For some reason, I couldn’t see their profile picture but I could see the name. I read the post and was impressed by the depth […]

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What to do when you hear homophobic comments…

What to do when you hear homophobic comments…

Posted On: June 3, 2020

On 17 July 2019, I responded to a Facebook group about how to deal with homophobic comments. Even though I’m a sexuality educator, I have done nothing when I’ve heard people “attack” GLBTQ people e.g. at a workshop where participants were having a conversation amongst themselves and anti-gay. Reasons: They didn’t include me in the […]

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