Milestones for 2020

Milestones for 2020

Posted On: December 19, 2020

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date    What JANUARY […]

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Media @ IUIGA Instagram Live

Media @ IUIGA Instagram Live

Posted On: December 19, 2020

I was interviewed about sexuality on Instagram Live with IUIGA. Check out some snaps here!   About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on […]

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1st Sugar & Spice: August 1 – 15, 2020

1st Sugar & Spice: August 1 – 15, 2020

Posted On: November 29, 2020

This is just a blog post to document the program of the first Sugar & Spice which ran Aug 1 – 15, 2020. 260 people registered to the festival. The program for the second Sugar & Spice (Nov 17 – 24, 2020) and third Sugar & Spice (Mar 23 – 27, 2021) can be found […]

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2nd Sugar & Spice: November 17 – 24, 2020

2nd Sugar & Spice: November 17 – 24, 2020

Posted On: November 29, 2020

  This is just a blog post to document the program of the second Sugar & Spice which ran Nov 17 – 24, 2020. The program for the first Sugar & Spice (Aug 1 – 15, 2020) can be found here. The third Sugar & Spice program (Mar 23 – 27, 2021) can be found […]

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On Feet fetish and Masturbation @ Just So We’re Clear

On Feet fetish and Masturbation @ Just So We’re Clear

Posted On: November 5, 2020

I’ve been invited to podcast Just So We’re Clear twice and these are the episodes I appeared in 1) feet fetish, and 2) masturbation.   1) Feet Fetish It’s official! We’re back! Season TWO you guys… And we’re diving straight in on a topic we KNOW you’re curious about too. Sexual. Fetishes. Come on. You […]

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5 Places to Get Support for Prostate Cancer Survivors

Posted On: November 3, 2020

In this blog post, I am listing some places prostate cancer survivors or those battling prostate cancer can go to for support. 1. Established in 1964, Singapore Cancer Society is a self-funded voluntary welfare organisation which is dedicated to minimising the impact of cancer in Singapore through the provision of cancer treatment subsidies, financial and […]

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Help us publicise 2nd Sugar & Spice Virtual Festival, Nov  17 – 24!

Help us publicise 2nd Sugar & Spice Virtual Festival, Nov 17 – 24!

Posted On: November 2, 2020

I recently concluded the first Love Abilities festival (Oct 15 – 19) as well – a virtual sexuality and disability festival www.loveabilities.org which saw 665 people sign up for the 5 day festival. 1,050 people attended the 29 sessions facilitated by 50 presenters live. It was considered successful with only positive feedback from participants.I am passing […]

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Journey of a Grieving Person

Journey of a Grieving Person

Posted On: October 27, 2020

On grieving… my mom passed away 27 Oct in 2018 and I thought I’d write some of what I felt as a person going through grieving. I recognise it can be different for different people and I am in no way dismissing the experiences of others, just wanting to share what is mine in the […]

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Do You have Space for Yourself?

Do You have Space for Yourself?

Posted On: October 20, 2020

Written in October 2019. Posting this as the 2nd year death anniversary of my mom comes up: I first started pet-sitting to overcome my fear of dogs and cats years ago. Last year, I had several dogsitting assignments (free or with honorarium) which all involved house-sitting as well – in fact more gigs than ever […]

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Parenting my Dad

Parenting my Dad

Posted On: October 14, 2020

Everyday I wake up grateful for my life, everything I have going and everything I have. Increasingly my daily thoughts go to my dad for the unconditional and infinite love and support I have received and continue to receive from him. He has done more thankless, mundane, and menial things for me than anybody in […]

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