Posted On: March 29, 2022
For years now, if I can help it, I no longer run single gender events i.e. women or male, but instead make sure to state my events welcome people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. This has resulted in less signs-ups to be honest, so uncomfortable are some people in being in the presence […]
Posted On: March 22, 2022
Years ago when I was attending sex therapy training in Florida, my teacher would introduce me to everybody as “Dr Lee”. I would be embarrassed because it wasn’t true. I wasn’t qualified yet, and quite some way from being a Dr of anything. In the academic world we’re in, I thought my teacher should know […]
Posted On: March 21, 2022
I’m teaching a three-week Counseling Skills for Couples. I’m so passionate about teaching counseling skills and been waiting to run for a long time because I truly believe it is a life skill each of us should have. Many years ago (close to 20 years ago), my counseling teacher explained real listening wasn’t just about […]
Posted On: March 21, 2022
Apps – love them or hate them, they are here to stay, and they can certainly make our lives better. Here are some for you to check out relating to mindfulness, meditation, and mental health. I have not tried all these apps, and have no vested interest nor affiliation to declare. 1. Aura: Meditation & […]
Posted On: March 15, 2022
One of my longest friend from polytechnic has a tendency to over explain. Because I cherish the friendship, we have kept in touch over the years despite how different we are. Over time, I notice how drained of energy and how I can’t wait to get away from her each time we meet. Even though […]
Posted On: March 8, 2022
Many years ago, my friend who is an avid dog lover refused to see a life coach I recommended because of the way the coach treated her dog. I couldn’t see anything amiss with her dog but my friend explained: from the eyes, fur, and energy of the dog. The dog was confined in a […]
Posted On: March 1, 2022
Years ago, I was attending a free-form movement class regularly and got to know a person whom I knew was a popular NLP coach in Singapore. Whenever we spoke, he would make it a point to reach out and touch me somewhere along my shoulder to arm without warning and definitely without asking. I knew […]
Posted On: February 22, 2022
Years ago, somebody I was sleeping with would go Dutch with me every single time even if it was some small amount like AU$5. I felt embarrassed that he would make the cashier go through all that trouble for AU$5. I couldn’t for the life of me understand why he would sleep with me but […]
Posted On: February 21, 2022
These are some just-for-fun and educational (I hope!) decks around the Lunar New Year – one on red sexual toys; one on self-care during this stressful period, and the last on why wear Red. Haha! Hope you like it! 1. Red Vibes for Chinese New Year Start your year with some fun new toys! Check out […]
Posted On: February 20, 2022
I was on the Not Again Podcast hosted by comedian Gary Tan. The below is in his own words 🙂 Synopsis: We have a saucy one this week. Dr Martha Lee, Singapore first Sexologist approached me and we talked about the idea of sex. Talking about it seems to be as difficult and important having […]
Posted On: February 18, 2022
It’s out! The Balut Kiki Episode 46: Kiki with a Sexologist with Dr Martha Lee Thank you for having me, The Balut Kiki Project! Discussed in this episode: What a sexologist actually does Common sexual problems people come to me for How to spice up sexual relationships AND MORE… You can listen to the full […]
Posted On: February 6, 2022
I did housesitting during the last two weeks of 2021. I was inspired to do something special for myself as the year was winding down. I had previously gone on a self-declared prolonged sex date in May 2016, and did another one at the end of Dec 2017. Why not go on a prolonged sex […]
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