Posted On: July 6, 2022
I’m recalling a time when I used to attend a professional group gathering monthly. We were having pre-event food and were actually having a good chat when a new person joined us. He immediately asked, “How are things?” It wasn’t what he said. It was how he said it. None of us wanted to be […]
Posted On: July 1, 2022
My dad and I have a system when we travel on public transport. When I take public transport with my dad, I would try to get onboard quickly to “chop” (get) a seat for him. He would be slower and his eyes would then scan the bus or train for me. I would gesture for […]
Posted On: June 30, 2022
Recently the Singapore government did a call out for public opinions around LGBT. I shared the link on my social media platforms once I determined it was legit. The next day, Oogachaga and Pink Dot shared it too. Within a day, I believe, the government received 30,000 responses and closed the survey on 23 March […]
Posted On: June 29, 2022
Life is a series of ok and not ok. I had running nose and sore throat intermittently yesterday. Covid test negative. I felt hives attack coming and took an antihistamine. I didn’t sleep well through the night as I experienced hot flushes. This morning I was so tired, it took me four attempts before I […]
Posted On: June 22, 2022
I used to get upset with my mom when I saw her giving up her seat on public transport. The irony would strike me: an elderly and unwell person giving up her seat to an even more elderly person. What would not be obvious to outsiders was that my mom was battling stage four breast […]
Posted On: June 21, 2022
“Just wanted to reach out and say thank you for your help.. My husband and I came for one of your counseling sessions last year to figure out why we were having difficulty with sexual intercourse. We finally got there after practicing as you suggested! And great timing too as we just got married. Probably […]
Posted On: June 15, 2022
My mom used to go “fard” when she got mad. It took me a while… fard? Fart? Did she mean to swear as in fuck? I never corrected her. Instead of being alarmed or scared, I couldn’t take her seriously. I used to always laugh inside whenever she went “fard”! My mom’s first language isn’t […]
Posted On: June 8, 2022
Woke up for second time at 4:15am for a 5:30am zoom client only for it to be cancelled again this morning. Client agreed to pay for it though. What they won’t know is that I only had two or three interrupted hours of sleep due to drinking too much tea, as well the loud CNY […]
Posted On: May 31, 2022
“Dr. Martha has been incredibly helpful to us both and I would recommend her to anyone in a heartbeat! Very grateful to have found and met her because she has been nothing but caring and patient with very useful advice. She came across as extremely experienced, knowledgeable and most importantly, passionate about her role. Always felt we […]
Posted On: May 18, 2022
Years ago, I had a fellow sex educator friend visit me in Singapore. She bought a whole bunch of things, wanted to lighten her suitcase and tried to offload stuff by gifting me her vibrator. I didn’t want it and she came up with the idea of gifting it to my mom all on her […]
Posted On: May 10, 2022
Years ago, I attended an event where the speaker was apparently famous for talking about successful marriages. I remember being impressed and queued to get my purchased copy of his book autographed. Later when he was on stage, I was shocked when I heard him say he was qualified to talk about marriage because he’s […]
Posted On: May 8, 2022
I’ve been contributed expert content towards SheThePeople TV for the past year. These are some curated videos for your easy reference based on previous videos I did for SheThePeople TV. 4 March 2022: What are orgasms? How to have them? | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee Orgasms look like a mystery to many and might be little hard […]
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