Posted On: September 13, 2022
Introduction: Sexuality Education (SEd) was introduced to schools in Singapore in 2000, and is “taught in the context of mainstream national values”. Following the announcement of the repeal of Section 377A, the Ministry of Education (MOE) has reaffirmed that Singapore’s “education policies and curriculum will remain anchored in Singapore’s prevailing family values and social norms, […]
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Posted On: September 12, 2022
Fighting fair means expressing one’s disagreement or anger to another person constructively. There are healthy ways to have and resolve conflict. Yet in her couple work as a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, Dr Martha Tara Lee has met many couples who repeat the same fights for years, unable to resolve the issues, and the […]
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Posted On: September 6, 2022
Your throat chakra doesn’t have to stay blocked in the bedroom as it did for me years ago. I wanted to but couldn’t speak up! If variety is the spice of life, then we can expand our sexual skills progressively. We can grow ourselves sexually and develop more confidence if we just try. By difficulty […]
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Posted On: August 31, 2022
Growing up, I used to watch drama serials where a married woman would suddenly have a different hairdo the day after their wedding. Several times, I asked my mom why and she said, “That’s because she’s married.” Often the characters in these dramas would become worse off (not just from the new hairstyle but personality). […]
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Posted On: August 24, 2022
Ruined orgasms have been gaining popularity in recent years as a form of BDSM play that can provide an intense and pleasurable experience for both partners. Ruined orgasms involve the partner who is receiving stimulation being brought to the brink of orgasm, only to be denied the pleasure of climaxing. This can be done through […]
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Posted On: August 17, 2022
Today I hired a 2nd year medical student to give me a biology lesson. He started to educate me on the male and female sexual anatomy until I corrected him. “I think you misread my intention. I didn’t want you to teach me sexual anatomy. I wanted to show you how I teach it and […]
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Posted On: August 15, 2022
I finally finished reading this book “Break the Grip of Past Lovers” by Jumana Sophia a few days ago and have recommended it to no less than three people, and passing on my copy to one. This book has been calling out to me to be read for a long time so much so even […]
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Posted On: August 10, 2022
I work with a lot of people who identify as woman who say they have low or no sex drive. There are many factors that is linked to that: stress, anxiety, childbirth, relationship dynamics, sexual attitude, lack of sexuality education, mental health, physical health condition etc. Recently I was speaking at a sexuality workshop. At […]
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Posted On: August 3, 2022
Yesterday I decided on a whim to use the wet wipe in my hand to clean my keyboard with my laptop still on. Not long after, I realised half my keyboard wasn’t working as it should. I was given troubleshooting advice which failed. I scolded myself for giving away my one external keyboard thinking I […]
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Posted On: July 27, 2022
When I’ve been in utterly miserable situations like putting myself in downright nasty and pathetic hostels and going into self-pity, I’ve found myself thinking to myself: “If my parents could see me now, it would break their hearts.” A part of me instinctively knew to preserve myself, because I’m someone who has experienced love, what […]
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Posted On: July 20, 2022
One of the biggest and most common complaints mom made when she was alive was that we didn’t bring her out to eat enough. Unlike her, food wasn’t and has never been a big deal for me. However since this was obviously important to her, I made it a point to take her out for […]
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Posted On: July 13, 2022
I had a mother who used to keep saying that she became a nobody when she retired. I saw how this belief reduced her to behaving like a nobody whose power and sense of self seem to be robbed from her even though she had to be so much more than her job. She was […]
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