Horrible First Date – What not to do + what to do instead

Horrible First Date – What not to do + what to do instead

Posted On: November 22, 2022

Many years ago, I went on a coffee date and sent a text to my date when he was nowhere to be seen. He replied: “On the way.” I asked how long – as “on the way” could mean many things and yet didn’t get a reply. So I ended up waiting more than an […]

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Empathy for Others

Empathy for Others

Posted On: November 15, 2022

The other day, my friend and I talked about the increased aches and pains we experience as we get older… and how even walking a few bus-stops can be a challenge. We laughed as we talked about the people we’ve witnessed who would take the bus only to alight at the next stop. One stop. […]

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What is Your Santuary?

What is Your Santuary?

Posted On: November 8, 2022

I have increased my practice of meditating and walking on the treadmill from the original half hour at the start of this year, to one hour to 1.5hour at a time lately. I used to call my walking meditations: “Walk as if my life depended on it. I suffered from two serious bout of depression […]

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It’s Dr… by the way

It’s Dr… by the way

Posted On: November 1, 2022

Friend Luke Elijah Lim: “I noticed you don’t call yourself Dr in your videos. You should always say Dr Martha Lee.” Me: “You’re right. The other day, I was at a social event and I introduced myself as Martha, and my colleague Dr Rica Cruz next to me glared at me and said, “It’s Dr […]

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Cord Cutting Ceremony – Release with Love, Take Back Your Power

Cord Cutting Ceremony – Release with Love, Take Back Your Power

Posted On: October 23, 2022

Transform your life with our online Cord Cutting course! Learn the spiritual practice of Cord Cutting to help you reclaim your energy, take back control of your life, and establish healthy boundaries. This workshop will teach you how to use Cord Cutting as a powerful technique to help you transform your life. Once you learn […]

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The Art of Thrusting

The Art of Thrusting

Posted On: October 23, 2022

Are you looking to become a better lover? Join Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee in this one-hour virtual workshop, The Art of Thrusting, to learn the fundamentals of thrusting, and how to use different techniques in a creative and experimental manner. From faster and harder to slower and deeper, you will […]

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What is Evolution?

What is Evolution?

Posted On: October 18, 2022

I’ve been taking biology class because I never did take them. I was in the Arts stream and feel I could do some private catching up class. In one class, this dialogue happened: Teacher: “What is evolution?” Me: “Evolution is when we evolve to something better.” Teacher: “Not exactly.” Me: “I know! It is when […]

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Dating Red Flag You Should Know About!

Dating Red Flag You Should Know About!

Posted On: October 11, 2022

Some years ago, I started text chatting and video chatting with somebody I matched with on a dating app. On the second video chat, I realised that he had a tendency to continuously turn any conversation back to himself – all about me, me, me. He was also distracted, multitasking, disregarding my time without any  […]

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Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples

Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples

Posted On: October 9, 2022

Are you looking to gain the same skills and insights as professional counselors? Counselling is the art of using talk therapy to heal people, and guiding people to overcome their problems. Indeed, you don’t have to be a counselor or want to be one to apply counseling skills in your personal and professional life. This three-session […]

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On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

Posted On: October 5, 2022

I delivered a presentation on “How to give mind-blowing sex” for the Walnut Warriors prostate cancer support group members of Singapore Cancer Society on Sat 10 Sept 2022. I was super relaxed because I’ve addressed the group several times and they are all so wonderful and receptive towards me. The Chairperson of Walnut Warriors shared […]

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Playlist on Better Sex

Playlist on Better Sex

Posted On: October 4, 2022

I’ve been contributed expert content towards SheThePeople TV for the past year. These are some curated videos for your easy reference based on previous videos I did for SheThePeople TV. 8 July 2022: How to speak up while having sex? | Answers Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist Communicating during sex is just a good way to tell […]

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What Helps with Addictions

What Helps with Addictions

Posted On: September 20, 2022

I have been taking supervision sessions with an addictions specialist as this is an area I want more knowledge around. We discussed the following that can help clients with addictions: 1. CBT Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of psychotherapeutic treatment that helps people learn how to identify and change destructive or disturbing thought […]

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