Posted On: November 3, 2020
In this blog post, I am listing some places prostate cancer survivors or those battling prostate cancer can go to for support. 1. Established in 1964, Singapore Cancer Society is a self-funded voluntary welfare organisation which is dedicated to minimising the impact of cancer in Singapore through the provision of cancer treatment subsidies, financial and […]
Posted On: June 1, 2020
Have you ever thought of talking dirty? Have you had your partner ask you to do erotic talk with them? Perhaps you really like to learn how to do this so as to keep the romance and passion going in your long-distance relationship. Actually “dirty talk” is not difficult, these are my tips: sounds, words, […]
Posted On: May 10, 2020
I did this for myself before I became a Sexologist 11 years ago and this helped me “grow” myself sexually. I’ve been teaching this and decided to share this with you. Make a list (can be mental) of all the things you ever wanted to do sexually but haven’t. Choose what is the easiest and […]
Posted On: January 8, 2020
Your sexuality is an innate part of who we are. So many people suffer from lack of or misinformation about sex and sexuality though, and as a result suffer in silence and often for long periods of time – not knowing where to go to seek support and who to trust. My non-coaches friends share […]
Posted On: December 23, 2019
I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal) 110 in 2016, (Didn’t reach goal) 80 in 2017, (Didn’t reach goal) […]
Posted On: November 24, 2019
Today, somebody complimented me on my eyes. It reminded me of my mom who repeatedly told me that I have almond-shaped eyes, and a melon-shaped face whenever I asked her anything about my looks. It wasn’t never expressed as a compliment, but as a fact. Younger me: “Mom, be honest with me… am I beautiful?” […]
Posted On: October 13, 2019
There is the archetype of the Maiden, Mother, and Crone in Triple Goddess. More here In my own words Maiden – Prime of her youth Mother – Prime of her fertility Crone – Prime of her wisdom Behavioral Maiden – Young, fun, open, learning, beautiful (Shadow side: Wilful, childish, spoilt, manipulative) Mother – Mature, nurturing, […]
Posted On: October 10, 2019
“Do you know what the word ’empowered’ means?” I used to volunteer in the only women advocacy group in Singapore, and this question was one of the first questions one of the ex-Presidents and my one-time mentor asked me. I didn’t know. I felt I should have. I certainly heard it many times. So cool […]
Posted On: August 10, 2019
We like to think we are always responsible for our bodies and sexual health and take the necessary precautions e.g. protected sex – but being humans, we might not always do the “right thing”. Or we may have been the unfortunate recipient of rape/ assault/ “stealthing” – a despicable sexual act where a person with […]
Posted On: February 27, 2019
Testimonial that came in from a lady who has been attending my workshops in her desire to understand more about sex and sexuality, and to be able to consummate her marriage: “My husband and I passed the basic stage of having sex with your help! You gave me the assurance and confidence that sex […]
Posted On: December 9, 2018
I am writing this to correct the ongoing misinformation that coconut oil is safe as a vaginal lubricant. Apparently some people, especially bodyworkers ,swear by it because they don’t have any issues with using coconut oil as an internal lubricant, and because none of their clients haven’t had issued – but of course it doesn’t […]
Posted On: August 19, 2018
This is a five-part weekly series of Sextech founders by Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. This is part 5 of 5. 1) What do you do? I co-founded MysteryVibe with three friends, Stephanie, Rob and Shanshan. We wanted to make pleasure a mainstream topic, be the catalyst for starting conversations […]
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