🚨 Viewer Warning: This show contains explicit language, and addresses sensitive themes such as sexuality, suicide, and cancer. 🚨

Interactive / Intimate / Vulnerable

Synopsis:

Let’s talk about sex! Curious about the secrets to mind-blowing pleasure or the common stumbling blocks in the bedroom?

Meet Dr. Martha Tara Lee, the infamous sexologist and relationship whisperer from Singapore. Join her on a wild ride as she spills the beans on her own awkward first encounters, uncovers her mom’s vibrator, and encourages everyone to explore their sexuality despite living in a conservative Asian society.

In this intimate comedy show, Dr. Martha opens up about her most tantalizing tales and offers up sage advice to spice up your love life. Whether you’re seeking answers to burning questions or craving a dose of sexual enlightenment, Martha’s got you covered.

“Orgasmic AF” is not just a show—it’s a celebration of sexual liberation and empowerment. Laugh along with Martha, soak up her wisdom, and leave feeling empowered to embrace your sexuality shamelessly. Get ready to laugh, learn, and liberate your desires with “Orgasmic AF: Confessions of a Sexologist”.

Credits:

• Written and Performed by: Dr Martha Tara Lee, DHS
• Directed by: Shanice Nicole Stanislaus

Event Information

Upcoming Shows!

1. Wed 26 March to Sun 6 April 2025 – As Part of the Melbourne International Comedy Festival
2. Wed 12 March 2025 in Singapore

Previous shows! 

1. Mon to Sun 14 – 20 Oct 2024 – As Part of the Melbourne Fringe Festival!
2. Sat 5 Oct 2024 in Singapore (Fundraiser for Singapore Cancer Society)
3. Wed 25 Sept 2024 in Singapore. Highlights here.
4. Thurs 19 Sept 2024: Virtual with recording available for up to 30 days (This was a read)

In the Media

1. 29 Oct 2024 – Review by The Wellness Insider “What I appreciated most about the show was Dr Martha’s ability to distil valuable information into bite-sized, practical tips. She gave us fascinating fun facts about the body and sexuality, and the way she communicated these ideas—with props in hand—made them easier to grasp and remember. She also shared some of her experiences with her clients, and how she used humour and affirmation to help them overcome their issues.” – The Wellness Insider
2. 20 Oct 2024 – Review Orgasmic AF: Confessions of a Sexologist “But what makes this show so endearing, is that she does it with humour, heart and a dash of “no-filter” storytelling. A celebration of sexual liberation and empowerment, Orgasmic AF is a delightful mix of insightful confessions, laugh-out-loud moments, thoughtful life lessons and some audience participation.” – Australian Arts Review
3. 16 October 2024 – Review: Orgasmic AF at Motley Bauhaus  “Orgasmic AF contains music, dancing, audience interaction, QnAs, modest demonstrations, and many personal anecdotes. Dr Lee has an empathetic personality which allows the audience to open up in a room full of strangers about topics that, for many of us, are taboo. There is an infectious element to her enthusiasm for the topic and it would be quite easy to sit through much more than an hour simply to hear more of the stories the doctor has to tell. The show is augmented by the use of props, minor costume changes, and catchy music. Despite sometimes delving deep into the topic, it is a fast-paced show and the hour passes very quickly.” — Theatre Travels, 16 October 2024
4. 12 October 2024 – Shout out by Australian Pride Network
5. 8 October 2024 – On the Couch by Australian Arts Review
6. 27 Sept 2024 – Top Picks for the Melbourne Fringe Festival by Australian Arts Review
7. 17 Sept 2024 – Sex on the Fringe: Featured in The Age!

Reviews

‘Wow, what an amazing performance! Your honesty, humour, and confidence were inspiring. So proud of you for shining at Melbourne Fringe!’ – Montse, 27 Oct 2024

“Martha was fabulous; funny, raw, interactive (in a non-scary way), and educational. Enjoyed every minute, a very clever combination.” – Erin, 20 Oct 2024

“Book this show!! Martha gives each audience member humour, interaction, fun, knowledge & power! Thank you Martha!” – JC, 20 Oct 2024

“Very light-hearted way to bring on the sexual health topic, appreciate with humor and bravery. Improv part where audience to ask questions.” – Eric, 20 Oct 2024

“Martha is such a funny character! As a sexologist myself, I am in awe of how she can integrate comedy and her professional AND sexual life!” – Rica, 20 Oct 2024

“It is a well-crafted storytelling with a dash of humor. Loved the interactive sessions!” – Giorgy, 20 Oct 2024

“A breath of fresh air, and the show leaves us horny… haha. Enjoyed the show thoroughly.” – Melv, 19 Oct 2024

“This show was so insightful, real, and hilarious! I loved how she made her expertise and experience in sexology into learnable and laughable moments.” – Claire, 19 Oct 2024

“Wonderful show by Martha! Highly recommended!” – Yeow Siong, 19 Oct 2024

“There is a lot of useful information, and Martha is a funny person.” – Lana, 19 Oct 2024

“Simply love how she can make the topic funny. Her delivery was honest and authentic.” – Carol, 19 Oct 2024

“Such an awesome lady Dr. Martha. A very informative and entertaining show. :)” – Jojo, 17 Oct 2024

“A deeply personal, touching, honest, educational and fun look at sex in the modern world by Dr Martha Tara Lee.” – Jon, 17 Oct 202

“Orgasmic AF is such a blast! It’s fun, light, and soo empowering. Dr. Martha is a total queen – she makes everything feel real and relatable.” – Brightly, 16 Oct 2024

“informative, interactive, and inspirational” – K, 16 Oct 2024

“It was fun and insightful!” – M, 16 Oct 2024

“Martha is a riot!” – Luke, 16 Oct 2024

“Superb – enlightening, educational with just the right amount of sauciness, sass and real human connection.” – Carolyn, 16 Oct 2024

“Original and entertaining love it” – Yukiko, 16 Oct 2024

“Truly magnificent. Witty, funny, hilarious.” – Hafiz, 16 Oct 2024

“Like her presentation and the exotic topics.” – Evan, 16 Oct 2024

“Since we are all sexually repressed, I love the fact that Ms. Lee is an educated professional bringing this topic front, center, and the juicy inside!” – Paul Aaron, 15 Oct 2024

“Thank crikey someone is talking about this stuff, and with such humour and grace. A highly entertaining and punchy show.” – Peter, 15 Oct 2024

“Funny, very blunt, vulnerable and heart-warming. Martha is a great storyteller on a topic that we don’t talk enough about. A show worth seeing.” – Kat, 15 Oct 2024

“A performance that evokes our laughter, , enhances our empathy, and opens our minds to our encultured reticence about sex – much enjoyed.” – Jackie, 15 Oct 2024

“Martha she did a fantastic job. Vulnerable, moving and hilarious. We all loved it!” – Tirry, 15 Oct 2024

“Hilarious, important, honest, totally engaging! A wonderful show.” – Tony, 15 Oct 2024

“Funny but full of sexologist insights – seriously entertaining.” – Philipa, 15 Oct 2024

“I thought the show was just comedy but it was so much more. It was vulnerable, educational and quirky, the perfect mix of elements.” – Anonymous, 14 Oct 2024

“Funny, and surprisingly informative! Martha is a fun watch and brings a lot of earnestness to her storytelling.” – Prudence, 14 Oct 2024

“Great show really open and interesting, so wonderful to see pleasure at the forefront and discussed.” – Tori, 14 Oct 2024

“Highly Recommended! Her show is informative, fun, and surprisingly touching. It’s like having a heart-to-heart with a very knowledgeable friend.” – Jacob, 14 Oct 2024

“The show was great. Martha had amazing stories and funny experiences that she shared with us. The topic was informative and kept me intrigued!” – Mike, 14 Oct 2024

“Your show was very moving. I lost both my parents from critical illness recently. I was touched. How you bring people back and forth from laugh to tear to thinking and reflecting deeply then to laugh again 🙏🏻 On a more philosophical angle, your show is a brilliant demonstration of a duality of Eros and Thanatos. What makes us human. Strong and Vulnerable at the same time. Thank you very much.” – Moon O, 25 Sept 2024

“Bravo, Martha Tara Lee,  for your first one-woman show, Orgasmic AF! Funny, emo, sexy and sexpletive–it’s all these and then some.” – Felix Cheong, award-winning multiple book author, 25 Sept 2024

“Congratulations for a masterful performance last night. Your ability to create an educational cum standup comedy event is exceptionally remarkable notwithstanding the fact that this is your very first attempt to do this. To make it informative yet funny and filled with “clean” sex jokes is a feat requiring great skill and a very nimble mind. As a producer and indeed the key performer you have now reached the highest benchmark possible. I extend this accolade to you unreservedly and am confident you will acquit yourself once again in your next upcoming performance. Great job! As the French say “EXtra-ordinairre. Le Magnifique Madam Docteur Martha Lee”!” – Professor Dr Peter H C Lim., Dean Institute for Men’s Health (Singapore), 26 Sept 2024

“I had the pleasure of attending Dr Martha Tara Lee’s debut live show—a stand-up comedy with a twist. She shared personal stories, sprinkled with intimate details, while offering practical tips to improve your sex life. The show was a perfect mix of tears, laughter, and valuable insights—truly unique, refreshing, and fun. I thoroughly enjoyed it and highly recommend catching the upcoming show.” – Ellil Mathiyan, 25 Sept 2024

“I’m glad I came and watch @drmarthalee’s 1st Orgasmic AF show. The sex education was both hilarious and heartfelt. The performer needed no elaborate props – just her masterful storyelling to keep the audience hooked. With humor, kindness and humility, she navigated awkward topics, transforming moments of discomfort into powerful lessons. The show wasn’t just about laughter; it explored deeper emotions like sadness and triumph, ultimately uplifting and empowering the audience. It was more than entertainment – it was a thoughful, uplifting journey that left everyone a little wiser.” – Laila White, 25 Sept 2024

Learning Resources

Books

1. Orgasmic Yoga by Dr. Martha Tara Lee

This book introduces a body-based practice that helps connect sexuality with mindfulness and self-care. Orgasmic Yoga focuses on combining breath, movement, sound, and touch to access deeper sensations, promoting self-love and body acceptance. Dr. Martha Tara Lee guides readers through practices that create space for healing and personal empowerment.
Available on Amazon here. Get my supplementary Orgasmic Yoga Practice Circle virtual training here as well. Also all my online courses are here.

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2. Wheel of Consent by Dr. Betty Martin

The Wheel of Consent is a transformative model that teaches giving, receiving, and setting clear boundaries in all interactions, not just sexual ones. Dr. Betty Martin offers tools to enhance communication and intimacy by exploring consent, empowering readers to express what they want while respecting others’ boundaries. This book is valuable for anyone seeking deeper connections and self-awareness.
Official Website: https://www.bettymartin.org

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3. Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are explains the science behind sexual desire and pleasure, emphasizing that every sexual experience is unique. It tackles myths about sex that cause shame and confusion, empowering readers to embrace their sexuality without guilt or pressure. Nagoski shows how emotional and physical contexts affect sexual wellness, helping people connect better with their bodies.
Available on Amazon here.

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4. Sexual Healing by Barbara Keesling

In Sexual Healing, Barbara Keesling offers techniques to overcome sexual dysfunction, especially after trauma or relationship challenges. The book blends psychological healing with practical exercises to guide readers through rediscovering pleasure and intimacy. Keesling provides compassionate advice to help reignite a fulfilling sex life and heal past wounds.
Available on Amazon here.

Resources I often send to clients

1. List of mindfulness apps
2. List of audio erotica sites
3. List of Period/ Ovulation apps
4. List of practitioners supporting clients with Vaginismus trained by me

Support Resources for Sensitive Topics: Help Lines and Services in Melbourne and Singapore

Silence and isolation often perpetuate shame and pain, but connecting with the right resources can make all the difference. Whether or not someone chooses to be public about their experience, their journey to justice or healing is valid and personal. Reach out to local helplines and professional counselors to begin or continue this process. The links below offer essential services for both Melbourne and Singapore.

Melbourne

1. Lifeline Australia
   • 24/7 Crisis Support: 13 11 14
   • Description: Provides immediate support for anyone in distress or experiencing a crisis, including those dealing with suicidal thoughts.
   • Website: www.lifeline.org.au
2. Beyond Blue
   • 24/7 Support Line: 1300 22 4636
   • Description: Offers support for anxiety, depression, and mental health issues, including those triggered by sensitive themes such as sexuality and personal crises.
   • Website: www.beyondblue.org.au
3. Kids Helpline
   • 24/7 Support Line: 1800 55 1800
   • Description: Provides confidential counseling for young people dealing with emotional distress, mental health challenges, and personal issues.
   • Website: www.kidshelpline.com.au
4. MensLine Australia
   • 24/7 Support Line: 1300 78 99 78
   • Description: Offers support specifically for men dealing with mental health issues, relationship problems, and emotional distress.
   • Website: www.mensline.org.au
5. Headspace
   • Support Line: 1800 650 890
   • Description: Focuses on mental health and well-being for young people, providing support for issues related to stress, mental health, and emotional challenges.
   • Website: www.headspace.org.au
6. Victorian AIDS Council (VAC)
   • Support Line: 03 9274 5400
   • Description: Provides support and information on sexual health, including issues related to HIV and other sexual health concerns.
   • Website: www.vac.org.au

Singapore

1. Samaritans of Singapore (SOS)
   • 24/7 Crisis Support: 1800 221 4444
   • Description: Offers emotional support and crisis intervention for individuals in distress, including those experiencing suicidal thoughts.
   • Website: www.sos.org.sg
2. Institute of Mental Health (IMH) – Mental Health Helpline
   • Support Line: 6389 2222
   • Description: Provides support for mental health issues, including crises related to emotional distress and mental health challenges.
   • Website: www.imh.com.sg
3. Sane Singapore
   • Support Line: 1800 221 4444
   • Description: Focuses on mental health support, offering assistance for emotional and psychological challenges.
   • Website: www.sane.org.sg
4. Silver Ribbon Singapore
   • Support Line: 6389 2222
   • Description: Provides counseling and mental health support, aiming to reduce stigma and offer resources for those dealing with mental health issues.
   • Website: www.silverribbonsingapore.com
5. AWARE (Association of Women for Action and Research)
   • Support Line: 1800 777 5555
   • Description: Offers support and resources for women dealing with a range of issues, including emotional distress and personal challenges.
   • Website: www.aware.org.sg
6. Care Corner Singapore
   • Support Line: 1800 535 9191
   • Description: Provides counseling and support for a variety of mental health issues and emotional challenges.
   • Website: www.carecorner.org.sg

Let’s Stay in Touch!

Follow me on:

1. Telegram
2. Eros Coaching FB group
3. Orgasmic Yoga the Book FB group
4. YouTube
5. TikTok
6. Instagram

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