Slow Down, Cowboy!

Posted On: April 26, 2011

This article first appeared in the April 2011 issue of Ezyhealth Singapore. Click on image to enlarge/ read.          

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Being Woman: A Singaporean Chinese Writes

Being Woman: A Singaporean Chinese Writes

Posted On: April 4, 2011

This article first appeared on the Good Therapy website. For the longest time, being a woman, to me, meant being: seen and not heard; expected to help, serve (for instance cook, clean, iron) and please people around me, especially the men; fertile, and being expected to bear children. expected to look good, smell nice, and […]

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CozyCot: Top 100 Inspiring Women

Posted On: March 14, 2011

As part of their International Women’s Day 2011 celebrations, CozyCot recognised Dr. Martha Lee as one of Top 100 Inspiring Women in Singapore. Please click here for their site profile.

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The G-Spot

Posted On: February 15, 2011

There is a place within a woman which is so famous that it is referred to by a singular alphabetic term. I am asked frequently, usually by men, just where this is. Many women are confused about whether they have one. The fixation has a lot to do with the belief that its stimulation results […]

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Sex Goals for 2011

Posted On: February 8, 2011

This article first appeared in the January 2011 issue of Ezyhealth Singapore. To view, click image to enlarge.

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Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Posted On: February 3, 2011

Many women have problems with sex at some stage in their life and it becomes more common as women get older.  Female sexual dysfunction refers to one or more of the following issues: loss of sexual desire, loss of arousal, problems with orgasm and pain during sex. 1. Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder The opposite end […]

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Today’s Parent: Account of a Tuition Survivor

Posted On: January 27, 2011

This piece first appeared on The Online Citizen. I had tuition from when I was in Primary One until Secondary Four. My younger sister started from when she was Kindergarten Two. She started early because she wouldn’t leave me alone during my tuition lessons – insisting on playing with me, talking with me, peeping on […]

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Book Review: Sitting Moon – A Guide to Natural Rejuvenation After Pregnancy

Posted On: January 23, 2011

I was drawn to the book Sitting Moon: A Guide to Natural Rejuvenation After Pregnancy at the library. It has in part to do with the professional-looking cover with a white background, as well as the sub-title: ‘Natural Rejuvenation’.  Natural is always good, I thought. Another factor probably has to do the cover image of […]

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Gurls of Singapore

Gurls of Singapore

Posted On: January 20, 2011

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. There is a new beauty pageant in Singapore. It’s named TruMe, an online transgender beauty pageant organised by Action for Aids; it will be officially launched next month. The moderator of Sggurls, a transgender activist who identifies herself as Nicole Singslave, told me that she coined the […]

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Sexual Stereotypes

Sexual Stereotypes

Posted On: January 20, 2011

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen. Gentlemen prefer blondes? All blondes are dumb? All redheads are passionate? A man is always sex-, porn- and/ or looks-obsessed? Therefore, he is expected to sow his wild oats? The gay person is promiscuous? A woman is seductive when she is slim, and that’s why every woman […]

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