A Christmas Letter from a Dad

A Christmas Letter from a Dad

Posted On: December 23, 2014

I came across a beautiful passage and decided that I had to share this with you. A LETTER TO TWO SONS Dear Dana and Matthew, It’s Christmas Eve, and I have retreated to the room which your mother calls Dad’s Word Factory. For the last few hours, in my own fumbling way, I have tried […]

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Milestones of 2014

Milestones of 2014

Posted On: December 23, 2014

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date    What JAN […]

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Week 51 of 52 LSE – All Seeing

Week 51 of 52 LSE – All Seeing

Posted On: December 21, 2014

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? All seeing – what are you choosing not to see? Who are these little people, these people that support us […]

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Week 50 of 52 LSE – Thank Your Body

Week 50 of 52 LSE – Thank Your Body

Posted On: December 14, 2014

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist and I’m playing Queen of the Jungle. So what’s the message for you this week? Do you thank your body for all the ways in which it’s supporting you in your every day functioning, the multitude of things that is […]

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Testimonial – “I Overcame Vaginismus”

Testimonial – “I Overcame Vaginismus”

Posted On: December 14, 2014

Testimonial by my client who had Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs): “We are finally able to have penetrative sex! Really really big big thanks to you! =D It wasn’t smooth all the time, but it’s definitely getting easier and more pleasurable =). It still hurt a bit for him whenever he tried to go in, but once […]

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Back in Singapore!

Back in Singapore!

Posted On: December 9, 2014

I am back from Level 1 and 2 teacher training of The Art of Feminine Presence in Melbourne, Australia. The training has opened my eyes to a lot of things I have been doing out of habit, especially the ways I have been communicating which were ineffective, and even hurting others and myself! I admit […]

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My Fourth Piece with Elephant Journal

My Fourth Piece with Elephant Journal

Posted On: December 9, 2014

I’ve published four pieces with Elephant Journal so far, and here they are: Latest one: 5 Things About Sexual Communication We Won’t Learn from 50 Shades of Grey Click here to read. Be sure to check out our Preview to Kinky Wonderland on Fri 19 Dec! 3rd piece: 7 Things to Bear in Mind When […]

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Week 49 of 52 LSE – Gratitude Journal

Week 49 of 52 LSE – Gratitude Journal

Posted On: December 7, 2014

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I am a sexologist and I am playing Goddess Goody Two Shoes. So tune in to find out what I have to say. A gratitude journal is a way of consciously calling attention to things in which you are grateful for every day. […]

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From Melbourne with Love

From Melbourne with Love

Posted On: December 3, 2014

I am in Melbourne and I made this special video for you two days ago! Watch it here! Sign up for my preview for The Art of Feminine Presence on Sat 20 Dec here! Snaps Photo of those who attended The Art of Feminine Presence Level 1 teacher training Photo of those who attended The […]

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Week 48 of 52 LSE – Year End Reflection

Week 48 of 52 LSE – Year End Reflection

Posted On: November 30, 2014

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha. I’m a sexologist, and I am playing Princess Know-It-All. The theme of this month is Gratitude. I’d like to invite you to do a very little visualization exercise with me. Simply close your eyes now and sit up straight, bringing your attention to […]

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Nominated for The Phoenix Award

Nominated for The Phoenix Award

Posted On: November 29, 2014

I received this Facebook message from a long-time supporter and lecturer at my alma mater Ngee Ann Polytechnic Robin Yee on 17 Nov. I studied Mass Communications (MCM) there 1993 through 1996: “I’d like to nominate you for The Most Surprising Career Reinvention award to be given out during MCM25 on Nov 28.”  These are the […]

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Week 47 of 52 LSE – Mantra Meditation

Week 47 of 52 LSE – Mantra Meditation

Posted On: November 23, 2014

Welcome to Love, Sex, and Everything in Between! My name is Martha and I am a sexologist and I am playing your Fairy God Sister. So, what message do I have for you this week? What is a Mantra? A Mantra is a word or a phrase that has a special or sacred meaning to […]

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