Public and Private Shaming

Public and Private Shaming

Posted On: November 2, 2015

Singapore (and possibly not unlike other societies) really does a good job in public shaming. Every year in the weeks leading up to March when it is time to declare our income tax, you’d read media reports of individuals or companies who were penalised for trying to evade paying taxes. Coincidence or deterrence? In school, […]

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Book Review: The Body Image Survival Guide for Parents

Book Review: The Body Image Survival Guide for Parents

Posted On: October 27, 2015

Among the many books on body image I have come across, this is one specifically, as the title states, for parents. It educates parents not just about children’s body consciousness, but also gives them a great introduction about how society and the kinds of messages that children are now facing are different. This would sensitize […]

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Cancer Affects Us All

Cancer Affects Us All

Posted On: October 19, 2015

It’s October and it’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month. I was interviewed for a campaign “Bare for Hope” initiated by Her World and Singapore Council of Women’s Organisations a few months ago. I spoke about how it was like having a mom with breast cancer. I received the link to the video interview the same day […]

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Infographic: Bizarre Sleep Disorders

Infographic: Bizarre Sleep Disorders

Posted On: October 13, 2015

Sleep is an important part of our lives. These are some bizarre sleep disorders, and should always be treated professionally. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She provides sexuality and relationship coaching for individuals and […]

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This One is for the Men…

This One is for the Men…

Posted On: October 11, 2015

Last week, I shared my episode on Vaginismus on my weekly radio show Eros Evolution. This week, the focus shifts to the men. Show description: “Premature ejaculation, erectile difficulties, delayed ejaculation and low sex drive are some of the issues men come to Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee for. In this episode, she will […]

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Vaginismus seems to be an epidemic…

Vaginismus seems to be an epidemic…

Posted On: October 5, 2015

Those of you who have been following my work will know that I often talk about Vaginismus because this is the number one reason why couples seek me out. It is a condition that happens when a woman’s vagina shuts down making penetration difficult or impossible. I made an entire episode on my weekly radio […]

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Book Review: Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guide

Book Review: Highly Sensitive Person’s Survival Guide

Posted On: September 29, 2015

Published in 2004, this book is for people who identify as highly sensitive people (HSP) and it guides them through the ways in which they can better survive and thrive. HSP’s reportedly make up about 20 percent of the population and because they feel overwhelmed with many of the things that people become acclimated to, […]

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7 Tips From Being On The 5 Show

7 Tips From Being On The 5 Show

Posted On: September 28, 2015

I manifested a return to The 5 Show! Read my blog post about my first appearance here. Unlike my first appearance, this show was pre-recorded. Therefore, I felt a lot more relaxed than before. Since I was also more familiar with the producers, crew and hosts behind the scenes, it helped calm my nerves. The episode was aired […]

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Are You Beautiful?

Are You Beautiful?

Posted On: September 20, 2015

Over the weekend, I extended a birthday greeting to a friend over Facebook. He complimented me on how radiant I look. It got me thinking and shared this as a post on Facebook. It made me happier than if he said I looked beautiful. I asked myself why. “To me, radiance comes from within, and […]

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Book Review: Stitching A Revolution

Book Review: Stitching A Revolution

Posted On: September 17, 2015

I purchased this book, Stitching A Revolution about six years ago because I was very inspired by the work of Cleve Jones. He spoke at my school, The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and showed us videos and gave accounts of what the AIDS Memorial Quilt was about. I hadn’t heard about the AIDS […]

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Book Review: The Bonobo Way

Book Review: The Bonobo Way

Posted On: September 15, 2015

“Lana is a voluptuous brunette with a seductive smile and big, sparkling, cocoa eyes. Flirtatious and fun-loving, she has a couple of boyfriends, but enjoys her gal pals just as much, if not more…. In many ways, Lana is just like a lot of wonderful women we know. But Lana is not a woman, nor […]

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I am Bleeding!

I am Bleeding!

Posted On: September 14, 2015

My Period… was one week late. Last month, I decided to track my bodily changes and mood on a day-to-day basis leading to my next period. It arrived at 1:25p.m. yesterday the moment I sat down with a new client. I excused myself and true enough… my period is here. On New Moons This period is […]

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