Statement about Not Running In-Person BJ workshops for now

Statement about Not Running In-Person BJ workshops for now

Posted On: April 17, 2022

Now that Singapore is opening up to 10 max for social gatherings, I’m being pressured at all fronts to resume in-person workshops. I’m ok with mask-on situations but when I run a BJ workshop obviously there is the practice-on-carrot aka mask-off component to it. And the one time exemption I did an in-person BJ workshop […]

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Personal Story: “He basically said he wanted to rape me….”

Personal Story: “He basically said he wanted to rape me….”

Posted On: April 17, 2022

Published as part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month in April Many years ago, I had a male friend ask me out clubbing and if I drank. I replied I didn’t drink but would be happy to go clubbing with him one day. He was being flippant about fixing a time and finally retorted: “What’s the […]

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Visit Ms Durian near my office!

Visit Ms Durian near my office!

Posted On: April 17, 2022

I moved into my new office since 2 Feb 2022. Err I walked past Ms Durian cafe at least a hundred times and tried to go in only today (16 April 2022)… only to realise they’ve been opened quietly… since Feb! Ms Durian 11 Kelantan Road. Open every day 10a.m – 6p.m. except Tuesday. You […]

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Purchase: Masterclass The Orgasm Gap Cure

Purchase: Masterclass The Orgasm Gap Cure

Posted On: April 11, 2022

The Orgasm Gap has been talked about for a long time but not quite enough! In this virtual masterclass, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee will destigmatize orgasms and explicitly delve into ways in which the gap can be closed for good! The session will address: What is Orgasm? How does it […]

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Purchase: Virtual Kissing Workshop

Purchase: Virtual Kissing Workshop

Posted On: April 10, 2022

“What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: the sure, sweet cement, glue and lime of love.” – Robert Herrick How would you grade your kissing abilities? How would you like to be a better kisser? Or become masterful at it? Kissing is important. It is one of the most exciting, innovative, and romantic […]

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On Why I no longer run Single-Gender Events…

On Why I no longer run Single-Gender Events…

Posted On: March 29, 2022

For years now, if I can help it, I no longer run single gender events i.e. women or male, but instead  make sure to state my events welcome people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. This has resulted in less signs-ups to be honest, so uncomfortable are some people in being in the presence […]

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My Teacher Was Holding Space for Me as I was Stepping into my Destiny

My Teacher Was Holding Space for Me as I was Stepping into my Destiny

Posted On: March 22, 2022

Years ago when I was attending sex therapy training in Florida, my teacher would introduce me to everybody as “Dr Lee”. I would be embarrassed because it wasn’t true. I wasn’t qualified yet, and quite some way from being a Dr of anything. In the academic world we’re in, I thought my teacher should know […]

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Do You Know These 3 Levels of Listening?

Do You Know These 3 Levels of Listening?

Posted On: March 21, 2022

I’m teaching a three-week Counseling Skills for Couples. I’m so passionate about teaching counseling skills and been waiting to run for a long time because I truly believe it is a life skill each of us should have. Many years ago (close to 20 years ago), my counseling teacher explained real listening wasn’t just about […]

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