If

Posted On: April 29, 2010

IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being […]

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Poem: Imagine a Lover (for Men)

Posted On: April 22, 2010

Imagine a Lover …for those seeking a woman to love. Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine a lover who has walked through her past. A lover who is aware of her historic vulnerabilities. Who takes responsibility for her own stuff. Imagine a lover who has developed […]

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Poem: Imagine a Lover (for Women)

Posted On: April 21, 2010

Imagine a Lover …for those seeking a man to love. Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine a lover who accepts himself. A lover whose capacity to love you non-judgementally deepens as he is merciful toward himself. Imagine a lover who takes care of himself. A lover […]

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Poem: Imagine Lovers

Posted On: April 20, 2010

Imagine Lovers Until you imagine something, it remains an impossibility. Once imagined, it becomes your experience. Imagine lovers… Who smile in each other’s company. They say a strong and sensual YES to each other. Their YESes meet and fill their experience. Who tell the truth about what works and what doesn’t. They co-create solutions for […]

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Farrell: I am Against Homophobia

Posted On: April 18, 2010

Colin James Farrell (born May 31, 1976) is a Golden Globe- and Satellite Award-winning Irish actor, who has appeared in Hollywood films including Tigerland, Daredevil, Miami Vice, Minority Report, Phone Booth, The Recruit, Alexander, In Bruges, and S.W.A.T. He has thrown his support behind an anti-homophobia campaign in his native Ireland – recalling the horrific […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman II

Posted On: April 14, 2010

Imagine a woman who is interested in her own life. A woman who embraces her life as teacher, healer, and challenge. Who is grateful for the ordinary moments of beauty and grace. Imagine a woman who participates in her own life. A woman who meets each challenge with creativity. Who takes action on her own […]

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300-Year-Old Porn Collection Found

Posted On: April 12, 2010

A collection of steamy books about the sexual adventures of couples 300 years ago was found hidden in the library of a British manor house, The Sun reported Friday. The tales, published in ancient types of booklets known as Chapbooks, were printed on paper so thin hardly any other examples survived. They were found behind […]

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Caring about Equality

Posted On: April 10, 2010

The Give a Damn Campaign is for everybody who cares about gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender equality. It doesn’t matter whether you are straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender, this website promises to help you get informed about the issues and get involved, at a pace that works for you. Equality. Get Informed. Get Involved. […]

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Your Finger was up in the Air

Posted On: April 9, 2010

You get the some of the sex negative news from middle East. A British couple is appealing a jail sentence that they received for sharing a passionate kiss in a Dubai restaurant. Another British couple was sentenced to three months in jail in 2008 for having sex on a Dubai beach. Now an alleged obscene […]

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Poem: Imagine a Woman I

Posted On: April 6, 2010

Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life. Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself. A woman who listens to her needs and desires. Who […]

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Quotable Quotes: Sex and Sexuality

Posted On: April 2, 2010

You can learn more about healthy sexuality through discovering what other therapists, writers, and sexual health advocates have said about it. Healthy Sex Quotations I found from here: Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstacy. –Anais Nin Nothing is sexier than the naked mind–nothing more seductive than the inventive imagination. […]

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Book Review: The Erotic Mind

Book Review: The Erotic Mind

Posted On: March 21, 2010

The Erotic Mind: Unlock the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin In this intriguing, insightful mix of analysis, anecdote and advice, San Francisco psychotherapist Morin developed an ‘erotic equation’ by drawing on the discussions of 351 respondents, straight and gay. This equation is: Attraction plus obstacles leads to excitement. He also […]

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