Product Review: Play O by Durex

Product Review: Play O by Durex

Posted On: August 2, 2010

‘Play O’ by Durex is not a contraceptive, lubricant, or massage gel. It is a premium orgasm-enhancing gel created by women, for women. That’s right. You read that correctly. This can help women attain an orgasm, or, in all likelihood, experience a more intense one! As a sex educator committed to encouraging greater awareness, understanding […]

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Poem: One Flaw in Women

Posted On: August 1, 2010

Women have strengths that amaze men….. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in.. They stand […]

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Taoist Erotic Massage – Ben Haggard

Posted On: July 26, 2010

Sixteen Years of Practicing Taoist Erotic Massage by Ben Haggard, Certified Sexological Bodyworker Transcript: “Ever since I learned Taoist Erotic Massage (TEM) sixteen years ago, I’ve been a man with a mission. Prior to that I was trained as a massage therapist, and I learned not only the strengths of massage therapy but also some […]

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Advertising’s Image of Women

Posted On: July 19, 2010

Killing Us Softly 3 Advertising’s Image of Women A lot of you may not know that I was a media student, and professional communicator before I became a sexologist. Hence, in my blog here, you will find me posting videos on how the media distorts reality, and objectifies women. I do so because I believe […]

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What is Sexting?

Posted On: July 18, 2010

‘Sexting‘ is the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photographs, primarily between mobile phones. The term was first popularized around 2005, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images According to a recent Reuters report, twenty percent of […]

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Thank you from BCF

Posted On: July 16, 2010

I gave a talk on ‘Sexual Healing after Breast Cancer’ with Breast Cancer Foundation, Singapore on 25 June. It was a wonderful group. This was the Thank-you card.

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Product Review: bcute Classic by B Swish

Product Review: bcute Classic by B Swish

Posted On: May 29, 2010

B Swish’s bCute Classic is waterproof silicone multi-speed massager that is shaped like a miniature rocket. Made of medical grade silicon, you can enjoy its silky touch in the bath or at any other time you please. The soft, plush exterior is augmented by variable speed control, making it great for external clitoral stimulation, but […]

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Product Review: ‘Better than Chocolate’ by Nomi Tang

Product Review: ‘Better than Chocolate’ by Nomi Tang

Posted On: May 28, 2010

Nomi Tang ‘Better than Chocolate’ Multi-Function Vibrator ‘Better than Chocolate’ is the first of Nomi Tang’s line of sensual consumer products with adult toys. The first word that came to my mind when I saw ‘Better than Chocolate’ was ‘Adventure’. This attributes to its shape – that of the computer mouse – and the infinite […]

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Product Review: ‘Nea’ by Lelo

Product Review: ‘Nea’ by Lelo

Posted On: May 26, 2010

If you are one of those people who agree that ‘Small can be beautiful’, and ‘Small can be powerful’, then you will love the NEA. The NEA Vibrator is manufactured by LELO in Sweden. LELO is a company, founded in 2003, devoted to the design and development of sensual pleasure objects with contemporary/luxury flair. Ergonomically […]

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Female Viagra: Not what it is

Posted On: May 22, 2010

In the shocking and hilarious documentary ORGASM INC., filmmaker Liz Canner takes a job editing erotic videos for a drug trial for a pharmaceutical company. Her employer is developing what they hope will be the first Viagra drug for women that wins FDA approval to treat a new disease: Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD). Liz gains […]

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Yoni Portraits: The Intimate Art of Christina Camphausen

Posted On: May 16, 2010

A unique, beautiful and sensitive book revealing women’s most intimate part in the form of delicate art. Intimate Portraits of real women, whose photographs were turned into detailed color-pencil drawings. The book comprises 49 drawings, explanations of the titles, information about how other, often ancient cultures have regarded the Yoni (Vulva) as a sacred manifestation […]

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Why I Became a Sexologist

Posted On: May 4, 2010

First published on The Online Citizen. If there is one question I am asked almost every time I meet somebody new, it is this: “Why did you become a sexologist?” Even complete strangers on Facebook find it is their business to pose one-liner questions along the lines of: “Is your job for real?” Occasionally my […]

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