Personal Story: Hook-Up Disaster

Personal Story: Hook-Up Disaster

Posted On: July 16, 2023

I hesitated to share this personal story but I’ve been encouraged to do so. I’m doing so at risk of being judged by putting myself out there (again) because it is too important a story not to share. I agreed to hook up with somebody flying into Singapore for work. I had a rash due […]

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Financial Compatibility: How to Tell If You and Your Partner are on the Same Page

Financial Compatibility: How to Tell If You and Your Partner are on the Same Page

Posted On: July 1, 2023

Financial compatibility is an essential part of any romantic relationship, and especially a marriage. It’s important to understand how you and your partner view money, how you manage it, and how you make decisions about it. Knowing if you are financially compatible can help you both avoid potential conflicts and build a strong foundation for […]

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Leading Their Authentic Lives

Leading Their Authentic Lives

Posted On: June 21, 2023

Many years ago before I began my training to be a Sexologist, I was on a movie date with my Australian boyfriend. We were riding on a downward escalator when two men who looked like a couple came towards us on the side of the upriding escalator. I nudged my date to get his attention […]

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Love is Love

Love is Love

Posted On: June 14, 2023

I’m glad and relieved! During the National Day Rally on 21st August 2022, Singapore’s Prime Minister announced that the government will repeal Section 377A! Homosexuality has been a long-standing issue, and this historic news is a huge win for the LGBTQ+ community. Many years ago when Pink Dot Singapore was in its first few years, […]

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Beyond Labels: Understanding the Diversity of Queer Platonic Relationships

Beyond Labels: Understanding the Diversity of Queer Platonic Relationships

Posted On: June 14, 2023

In recent years, there has been a growing interest in alternative forms of relationships beyond the traditional romantic and sexual partnerships. One such relationship style that has gained attention is the queer platonic relationship. Queer platonic relationships are intimate connections between two or more individuals that prioritize emotional intimacy, commitment, and support without any romantic […]

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Our LGBT Friends Deserve Equality

Our LGBT Friends Deserve Equality

Posted On: June 7, 2023

I’m glad and relieved! During the National Day Rally on 21st August 2022, Singapore’s Prime Minister announced that the government will repeal Section 377A! Homosexuality has been a long-standing issue, and this historic news is a huge win for the LGBTQ+ community. There was an argument that LGBT people are anti-family. This is too distressing […]

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A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know

A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know

Posted On: June 1, 2023

June is Pride Month. LGBTQIA+ is an inclusive term which stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex and asexual. While each letter in LGBTQIA+ stands for a specific group of people, the term encompasses the entire spectrum of gender fluidity and sexual identities. A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know June is […]

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Unpacking the Surprising Statistics from Durex Malaysia’s Sexual Health Survey

Unpacking the Surprising Statistics from Durex Malaysia’s Sexual Health Survey

Posted On: May 29, 2023

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I am always interested in new research and insights into sexual health and wellness. That’s why I was particularly intrigued by the recent survey conducted by Durex Malaysia, which revealed some surprising statistics about Malaysian youths’ sexual health and perceptions. Here are some of the key findings from […]

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13 Reasons Why Masturbation is Awesome

13 Reasons Why Masturbation is Awesome

Posted On: May 15, 2023

Masturbation is defined as the stimulation or manipulation of one’s own genitals, especially to reach orgasm. Even though masturbation has been found in all societies, regardless of cultural attitudes and values, there’s still a lot of negative connotations around it. Hence, I’d like to begin demystifying this sexual act by sharing some benefits of masturbation. […]

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Five Masturbation Myths

Five Masturbation Myths

Posted On: May 8, 2023

What do medical professionals and sexual health authorities have to say about masturbation? The general consensus is that solo sex can have a positive impact on one’s emotional, physical and sexual health. Five Masturbation Myths What do medical professionals and sexual health authorities have to say about masturbation? The general consensus is that solo sex […]

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Frequently Asked Questions on Masturbation

Frequently Asked Questions on Masturbation

Posted On: May 1, 2023

While masturbation means different things to different people, it is one of the most misunderstood subjects in the world, as it is enshrined in mystery and secrecy because of the simple reason we speak so little about it. Masturbation may evoke massive levels of guilt and shame, as many of us were told from when […]

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