Orgasmic AF: Confessions of a Sexologist

🚨 Viewer Warning: This show contains explicit language, and addresses sensitive themes such as sexuality, suicide, and cancer. 🚨

Interactive / Intimate / Vulnerable

Synopsis:

Let’s talk about sex! Curious about the secrets to mind-blowing pleasure or the common stumbling blocks in the bedroom?

Meet Dr. Martha Tara Lee, the infamous sexologist and relationship whisperer from Singapore. Join her on a wild ride as she spills the beans on her own awkward first encounters, uncovers her mom’s vibrator, and encourages everyone to explore their sexuality despite living in a conservative Asian society.

In this intimate comedy show, Dr. Martha opens up about her most tantalizing tales and offers up sage advice to spice up your love life. Whether you’re seeking answers to burning questions or craving a dose of sexual enlightenment, Martha’s got you covered.

“Orgasmic AF” is not just a show—it’s a celebration of sexual liberation and empowerment. Laugh along with Martha, soak up her wisdom, and leave feeling empowered to embrace your sexuality shamelessly. Get ready to laugh, learn, and liberate your desires with “Orgasmic AF: Confessions of a Sexologist”.

Credits:

  • Written and Performed by: Dr Martha Tara Lee, DHS
  • Directed by: Shanice Nicole Stanislaus

Event Information

  • Duration: 60 minutes
  • Age suitability: R18+
  • Event warnings: Moderate Coarse Language, Some Infrequent/Low Pressure Audience Interaction.
  • Content warnings: Self Harm Or Suicide, Sexual Assault Or Abuse, Sexual Harassment, Violence Against Women, Sexual References.

These are the upcoming show dates:

Please click through for more information.

  1. Thurs 19 Sept 2024: Virtual with recording available for up to 30 days (This is a read)
  2. Wed 25 Sept 2024 in Singapore
  3. Sat 5 Oct 2024 in Singapore (Fundraiser for Singapore Cancer Society)
  4. Mon to Sun 13 – 20 Oct 2024 – As Part of the Melbourne Fringe Festival!

Learning Resources

Books

1. Orgasmic Yoga by Dr. Martha Tara Lee

This book introduces a body-based practice that helps connect sexuality with mindfulness and self-care. Orgasmic Yoga focuses on combining breath, movement, sound, and touch to access deeper sensations, promoting self-love and body acceptance. Dr. Martha Tara Lee guides readers through practices that create space for healing and personal empowerment.
Available on Amazon here. Get my supplementary Orgasmic Yoga Practice Circle virtual training here as well. Also all my online courses are here.


2. Wheel of Consent by Dr. Betty Martin

The Wheel of Consent is a transformative model that teaches giving, receiving, and setting clear boundaries in all interactions, not just sexual ones. Dr. Betty Martin offers tools to enhance communication and intimacy by exploring consent, empowering readers to express what they want while respecting others’ boundaries. This book is valuable for anyone seeking deeper connections and self-awareness.
Official Website: https://www.bettymartin.org


3. Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are explains the science behind sexual desire and pleasure, emphasizing that every sexual experience is unique. It tackles myths about sex that cause shame and confusion, empowering readers to embrace their sexuality without guilt or pressure. Nagoski shows how emotional and physical contexts affect sexual wellness, helping people connect better with their bodies.
Available on Amazon here.


4. Sexual Healing by Barbara Keesling

In Sexual Healing, Barbara Keesling offers techniques to overcome sexual dysfunction, especially after trauma or relationship challenges. The book blends psychological healing with practical exercises to guide readers through rediscovering pleasure and intimacy. Keesling provides compassionate advice to help reignite a fulfilling sex life and heal past wounds.
Available on Amazon here.

Resources I often send to clients

  1. List of mindfulness apps
  2. List of audio erotica sites
  3. List of Period/ Ovulation apps
  4. List of practitioners supporting clients with Vaginismus trained by me

Support Resources for Sensitive Topics: Help Lines and Services in Melbourne and Singapore

Silence and isolation often perpetuate shame and pain, but connecting with the right resources can make all the difference. Whether or not someone chooses to be public about their experience, their journey to justice or healing is valid and personal. Reach out to local helplines and professional counselors to begin or continue this process. The links below offer essential services for both Melbourne and Singapore.

Melbourne

  1. Lifeline Australia
    • 24/7 Crisis Support: 13 11 14
    • Description: Provides immediate support for anyone in distress or experiencing a crisis, including those dealing with suicidal thoughts.
    • Website: www.lifeline.org.au
  2. Beyond Blue
    • 24/7 Support Line: 1300 22 4636
    • Description: Offers support for anxiety, depression, and mental health issues, including those triggered by sensitive themes such as sexuality and personal crises.
    • Website: www.beyondblue.org.au
  3. Kids Helpline
    • 24/7 Support Line: 1800 55 1800
    • Description: Provides confidential counseling for young people dealing with emotional distress, mental health challenges, and personal issues.
    • Website: www.kidshelpline.com.au
  4. MensLine Australia
    • 24/7 Support Line: 1300 78 99 78
    • Description: Offers support specifically for men dealing with mental health issues, relationship problems, and emotional distress.
    • Website: www.mensline.org.au
  5. Headspace
    • Support Line: 1800 650 890
    • Description: Focuses on mental health and well-being for young people, providing support for issues related to stress, mental health, and emotional challenges.
    • Website: www.headspace.org.au
  6. Victorian AIDS Council (VAC)
    • Support Line: 03 9274 5400
    • Description: Provides support and information on sexual health, including issues related to HIV and other sexual health concerns.
    • Website: www.vac.org.au

Singapore

  1. Samaritans of Singapore (SOS)
    • 24/7 Crisis Support: 1800 221 4444
    • Description: Offers emotional support and crisis intervention for individuals in distress, including those experiencing suicidal thoughts.
    • Website: www.sos.org.sg
  2. Institute of Mental Health (IMH) – Mental Health Helpline
    • Support Line: 6389 2222
    • Description: Provides support for mental health issues, including crises related to emotional distress and mental health challenges.
    • Website: www.imh.com.sg
  3. Sane Singapore
    • Support Line: 1800 221 4444
    • Description: Focuses on mental health support, offering assistance for emotional and psychological challenges.
    • Website: www.sane.org.sg
  4. Silver Ribbon Singapore
    • Support Line: 6389 2222
    • Description: Provides counseling and mental health support, aiming to reduce stigma and offer resources for those dealing with mental health issues.
    • Website: www.silverribbonsingapore.com
  5. AWARE (Association of Women for Action and Research)
    • Support Line: 1800 777 5555
    • Description: Offers support and resources for women dealing with a range of issues, including emotional distress and personal challenges.
    • Website: www.aware.org.sg
  6. Care Corner Singapore
    • Support Line: 1800 535 9191
    • Description: Provides counseling and support for a variety of mental health issues and emotional challenges.
    • Website: www.carecorner.org.sg

Let’s Stay in Touch!

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  1. Telegram
  2. Eros Coaching FB group
  3. Orgasmic Yoga the Book FB group
  4. YouTube
  5. TikTok
  6. Instagram

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. She is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, and Ofnoah.sg and Ofzoey.com. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.