Dr Martha Tara Lee – Ep. 5 / Sexual Self-Care And Coital Communication For Busy Women

Posted On: January 14, 2025

This dropped 25 July 2024 but took a while to publish here. Enjoy this episode!

If you’ve ever been too exhausted to get sexy with your partner, too embarrassed to ask for what you want in bed, or too uncertain about how to “get back into it” after a period without sex – this episode has you covered.

With a mix of personal stories and professional vignettes, clinical sexologist DR. MARTHA TARA LEE helps us solve some of our most common coital conundrums, including:

  •  Overcoming traditions of sexual inhibition common to some Asian cultures
  • How HRT might affect your sex life (the answer may surprise you!)
  • The questions you need to ask your partner if you want better sex long-term
  • How to move past infidelity, sex droughts, and years of sexual miscommunication

From drafting a “sex bucket list” to decoding the new Gen-Z relationship lingo (what is wokefishing, anyway?), DR. MARTHA TARA LEE is chock full of sex-positive, candid advice that can help you translate hints and cues from your partner as well as get more satisfying sex for yourself.

This fifth episode of The Forties Formula, Season 2 is here with a refreshing dose of sexy, savvy tips served up hot with a lot of laughs along the way.

Learn more about Dr. Martha’s Eros Coaching and current projects at @drmarthalee and don’t forget to follow your @thefortiesformula co-hosts, Jasmin Dhillon (@eat.with.jasmin) and Amanda Lim (@coachamandalim), too.

New episodes drop every Thursday, all summer long.

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Counseling, she launched Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualised and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples who have unconsummated marriage, individuals with sexual inhibitions and discrepancies in sexual desire, men with erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. Dr. Lee welcomes all sexual orientations and is available for online and face-to-face consultations. Martha speaks English and Mandarin.

She is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region (as of 2011) and is also an AASECT certified sexuality educator supervisor (as of 2018). She strives to provide fun, educational, and sex-positive events and is often cited in the media including Huffington PostNewsweek, South China Morning Post, and more. She is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sgOfZoey.sg, and Virtus Fertility Centre. She is the host of radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. In recognition of her work, she was named one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013),  Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019).

You can read the testimonials she’s received over years here. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

 

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