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The Classy Way to Handle a Social Media Breakup on Social Media: 20 Social Media Breakup Etiquette
Breaking up is never easy, especially when it happens on social media. It can be embarrassing, uncomfortable, and even hurtful. But it doesn’t have to be.
With the right etiquette and approach, you can handle a social media breakup in a classy and respectful way. Here are 20 tips to help you navigate a social media breakup with grace and dignity.
1. Don’t air your dirty laundry online. Keep the details of your breakup private.
2. Don’t post passive-aggressive or hurtful comments about your ex.
3. Don’t post about your breakup on social media until you’ve had time to process it and are ready to talk about it.
4. Don’t use social media to seek revenge on your ex, such as posting embarrassing photos or videos.
5. Avoid tagging your ex in posts or photos, even if they are positive.
6. Don’t post about the breakup until you’ve had a chance to talk to your friends and family in person first.
7. Don’t post about the breakup until you are sure that you are ready to move on and not dwell on the past.
8. Don’t post negative comments about yourself or your ex on social media as this can be damaging to both of you.
9. If you need to vent, do it in a private setting with close friends or family members, not online.
10. Don’t use social media to try and get your ex back or make them jealous. This will only make things worse in the long run.
11. If you must post about the breakup, keep it positive and focus on the lessons learned rather than the hurt feelings.
12. Don’t use social media as a platform to bash your ex or their new relationship. This will only cause more drama and hurt feelings for everyone involved.
13. If you have mutual friends, be respectful of their feelings by not posting anything that could cause them distress or make them feel uncomfortable.
14. Don’t use social media to stalk your ex or their new partner. This will only make things worse for both of you in the long run.
15. Be mindful of what you post online and remember that anything you post can be seen by anyone, including potential employers and colleges.
16. Don’t use social media to try and make yourself look better than your ex in any way, shape, or form – this will only make things worse for both of you in the long run.
17. If you must post about the breakup, keep it brief and don’t go into too much detail – this will help prevent any unnecessary drama from arising online or offline.
18. If you must post about the breakup, try to focus on how it has made you stronger and more resilient rather than dwelling on the hurt feelings associated with it.
19. If you must post about the breakup, try to keep it lighthearted and humorous rather than focusing on the negative aspects of it – this will help prevent any unnecessary drama from arising online or offline.
20. Always remember that social media is not a replacement for real life conversations – if you need to talk about the breakup with someone, do it in person rather than online!
Breaking up can be hard, but it doesn’t have to be messy.
By following the 20 Social Media Breakup Etiquette tips outlined in this article, you can end a relationship in a classy, respectful way. Remember, your relationship may be ending but you still have to live with the consequences of your actions.
If you need help navigating the emotions of a breakup, please reach out to a qualified Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist like myself for support. Contact us here!
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
