People think I am all about sex and sexuality. That’s one way of putting it. Even ChatGPT, with memory on and having “been with me” for over a year, thinks this way. To read my exchange with ChatGPT, join as my Patreon member here!

My Mission:

I am here to help people be all that they can be—to live fully, authentically, and without limitations. I believe in personal growth, empowerment, and breaking through barriers, whether in mindset, relationships, or life itself.

Sexuality happens to be one of the last frontiers of adulthood, often unspoken and unaddressed, yet deeply tied to our well-being, confidence, and connection to ourselves and others. It’s where I’ve chosen to focus my expertise, but my passion extends far beyond.

Through education, coaching, and open conversations, I create spaces for people to embrace their whole selves, challenge societal taboos, and step into their fullest potential—not just in sex, but in life.

What I Do:

For over 16 years, I have been at the forefront of sex education, relationship coaching, and sexual empowerment in Asia and beyond. As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have worked with thousands of individuals and couples, helping them navigate intimacy, sexual wellness, and personal growth.

I founded Eros Coaching, one of Singapore’s first sexuality-focused coaching practices, and have since conducted 500+ workshops and programs covering topics such as vaginismus recovery, pleasure education, sexual confidence, diverse relationship structures, and deepening intimacy in long-term partnerships.

My signature programs include:
Sex Possible – Online vaginismus recovery program
Self-Love & Empowerment Retreats – Immersive experiences for confidence and self-care
Orgasmic Yoga Workshops – Exploring mindful self-pleasure for healing and self-discovery

I am also the author of four books:
Love, Sex, and Everything In-Between – A practical guide to relationships and sexual empowerment

Orgasmic Yoga – Exploring self-pleasure as a healing and growth tool

From Princess to Queen – Navigating love, heartbreak, and self-worth

Uninhibited – Asian Vulva Photo Book – A groundbreaking visual exploration of Asian vulvas, celebrating diversity and normalizing conversations around anatomy and self-acceptance

Beyond private coaching, I have been invited to speak and train internationally at conferences, universities, and professional panels on topics such as sexual empowerment, mental health, and relationship well-being. My work has been featured in global media, including The Straits Times, Channel NewsAsia, The New York Times, BBC, and more.

Career Highlights:

16+ years of experience as a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist
Founder of Eros Coaching, pioneering sex-positive education in Singapore
Conducted 500+ workshops & coaching programs on sexual wellness and relationships
Speaker at major international conferences on intimacy, empowerment, and mental health
Featured expert in top media outlets: The Straits Times, CNA, BBC, The New York Times
Mentored & trained professionals in sexual wellness education and counseling
Organized panels on LGBTQIA+ issues, ethical non-monogamy, and pleasure education
Host of the ‘Eros Matters’ podcast, fostering stigma-free discussions on intimacy

At the heart of my work is the belief that sexuality is deeply tied to personal empowerment, confidence, and meaningful relationships. By normalizing conversations around intimacy and well-being, I help people break free from shame and embrace a more fulfilling, joyful, and authentic life.

Shorter Version:
“I help people break barriers, embrace their whole selves, and step into their fullest potential—in sex, relationships, and beyond.”

Let’s Connect and Grow Together!

If you’re ready to break through barriers, embrace your full potential, and deepen your relationships, let’s work together. Whether you’re looking for personal coaching, expert-led workshops, or immersive retreats, I create safe, judgment-free spaces to support your journey.

Book a session with me for personalized guidance on intimacy, relationships, and self-empowerment → Click here to schedule

Tune in to my podcast, Eros Matters, where I share practical insights and expert discussions on sexuality, relationships, and personal growth → Listen now

Explore my books, covering everything from sexual confidence and self-pleasure to navigating love and relationships → Check them out

Join my upcoming events—whether it’s a retreat, a workshop, or a virtual session, these spaces are designed to help you learn, heal, and connect with like-minded individuals → See what’s next

Stay connected! Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn and Telegram for daily tips, conversations, and updates on intimacy, relationships, and personal growth.

Got a question or just want to say hi? Drop me a message—I’d love to hear from you!

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee