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Everything You Should Know about the Size of Penises
Comparison of penis sizes can be damaging to people with body image insecurity.
It can make them feel worse about themselves and their own body image and lead to unrealistic expectations.
Penis Size and Self Image
Penis size does not have to affect a man’s self-image. It is more about how a man perceives himself and his own body.
A man’s self-image is largely determined by his own thoughts, beliefs and feelings about himself. If he has a negative self-image, it can be difficult to feel good about his body.
Choosing a Partner – Not about the Penis
As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I can tell you that penis size is not a major factor when it comes to choosing a partner.
People tend to focus on other factors such as compatibility, shared interests, and mutual respect when selecting a partner.
Does Penis Size Matter?
Penis size does not matter in a relationship. What matters most is the connection between two people, and the ability to communicate openly and honestly about sex.
A couple can have a fulfilling and enjoyable sexual experience regardless of penis size.
Sexual Satisfaction is Much More than Penis Size
It is about understanding your partner’s needs and desires and being able to communicate those needs in a way that is mutually satisfying.
It is also important to understand that different people have different levels of sexual desire and that it is important to be respectful of each other’s boundaries.
What To Do About Insecurity About Penis Size?
If you feel inadequate about your penis size, it is important to remember that penis size does not determine your self-worth.
It is important to focus on other aspects of yourself that make you unique and valuable.
Devices You Can Try
I recommend that couples discuss openly and honestly about penis size and how it affects their relationship.
Couples can explore ways to make up for a smaller penis, such as using penis toys, such as penis pumps, cock rings, and vibrators.
Seek Support
People who are struggling with penis insecurity or sexual variation can benefit from seeing a sexologist.
A sexologist is a mental health professional who specializes in understanding and addressing issues related to human sexuality. They are trained to provide compassionate, non-judgmental support to individuals and couples struggling with any issue related to sexuality.
About Penile Surgery
Penis surgery, also known as penile augmentation, is a surgical procedure that can help men who are unhappy with the size of their penis.
The procedure is performed by a urologist, a doctor who specializes in conditions of the urinary tract and male reproductive system.
If you need help navigating any aspect of your sexual life or sexuality, please reach out to a qualified Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist like myself for support. Contact us here!
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
