Become a Patron!Aside from its sensual nature, kissing should be both romantic and fun. Be confident and always go with the flow. There is no reason for you not to savor that passionate moment.
Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts
1. Look for a perfect spot
Kissing requires intimacy between you and your partner. Any distraction in the middle of a lip lock session is a no-no. Regardless of how good it is at the start, if it has been interrupted, the moment is already ruined.
2. Always carry a breath freshener
The sensation of smell can stimulate emotions. Kissing someone with fresh breath is always a prelude to more passionate things to come.
3. Keep your eyes closed when kissing
It is another way of showing your passion. At the same time, let out your emotions by using your hands to touch in order to heighten the sensation. Kissing with eyes wide-open is way too creepy.
4. Slowly kiss back
Don’t be a cold cadaver. Respond gently with slow movements. This will prevent you from bumping into each other’s teeth. It is surprising that the slower it is, the hotter it will be.
5. Observe kissing etiquette
Good manners still matter even in passionate instances. Never laugh while kissing. Additionally, avoid being messy with saliva.
6. Relax and Breathe
Don’t be stiff. Kissing is supposed to be fun. Let your muscles loosen up.
Aside from its sensual nature, kissing should be both romantic and fun. Be confident and always go with the flow. There is no reason for you not to savor that passionate moment.
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
