This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later.
Day/ Date What
JANUARY
- 3 Jan – Moved office to Kelantan Lane. Things to do around my new office.
- 3 Jan – Released Eros Sex News Awards recipients from 2021
- 3 Jan – How well do you know your partner? 20 questions to ask at every stage of the relationship for Honeycombers Singapore
- 4 Jan – Release of video Sex News Winners of 2021
- 5 Jan – Release of video Advice to a woman building a career but still needing to take care of her family
- 6 Jan – Signed up for gym membership at different Anytime Fitness
- 7 Jan – Release of video Things Men Love in Bed for SheThePeople TV
- 9 Jan – Release of video Why New Year Resolutions Don’t Work
- 9 Jan – Quoted in Married Couples had more Sex during Circuit Breaker on Straits Times
- 11 Jan – Recorded for podcast Not Again Podcast with Gary Tan
- 12 Jan – Released video review of Premium Cleaning Spray by Lelo
- 14 Jan – Release of video How to have better orgasms for SheThePeople TV
- 19 Jan – Released video answer My Friend Is In An Unhealthy Relationship. Do I Talk To My Friend To Quit Or How Can I Help Him?
- 20 Jan – Released video on How to Get to Eros Coaching (my new office)
- 21 Jan – Release of my written article Are you good in bed? 10 signs you’re an amazing sex partner for Honeycombers Singapore
- 21 Jan – Release of How to have a nipple orgasm for SheThePeople TV
- 22 Jan – Release of last Episode on Women and Sexuality of For Women By Women
- 26 Jan – Release of my podcast interview on episode 174 Not Again Podcast with Gary Tan
- 28 Jan – Release of video How long should sex really last for SheThePeople TV
- 31 Jan – Release of my telesummit interview Secrets to Online Dating with Barbara Santen
- 31 Jan – Release of my telesummit interview Unleash Your Pleasure with Sydney Richdale
FEBRUARY
- 1 Feb – Released video Red Vibes for Chinese New Year
- 1 Feb – Released video Too Tied Up this Chinese New Year
- 1 Feb – Released video Wear Red to Usher in Chinese New Year
- 1 Feb – Hosted 1st episode of Eros Evolution (return of my 3-year podcast after a 5 year break)
- 2 Feb – Released sex toy review Frisky Finger by Evolved
- 2 Feb – Release of video answer What Do You Think About Family Intervening or Interfering in The Relationship?
- 2 Feb – Released video How to Know You’re Good in Bed
- 4 Feb – Release of video Tips for better sexual communication for SheThePeople TV
- 8 Feb – Conducted virtual workshop Intimately Yours 101 for Mego Events
- 8 Feb – Hosted 2nd episode of Eros Evolution: Being Polyamorous while Asian with Michelle Hy
- 9 Feb – Led 45min Laughter Yoga session for Remote Skills Summit Indonesia 2022
- 9 Feb – Released video 7 Sexy Valentine’s Day Ideas
- 10 Feb – Released video What Playing Hard to Get Really Does + 5 Tips on How To Be Emotionally Intelligent About it
- 10 Feb – Release of my written article Express yourself! 3 meaningful ways to show love to your partner for Honeycombers Singapore
- 10 Feb – Released video Kissing 101: DOs and DON’Ts
- 11 Feb – Conducted virtual workshop Beyond Vanilla for Mego Events
- 11 Feb – Was part of closed-door Valentine’s Event panel for Sky Premium
- 14 Feb – Conducted virtual session Ask Me Anything
- 15 Feb – Hosted 3rd episode of Eros Evolution: What’s Love Go to Do with it? with Valentina Tudose
- 15 Feb – Quoted in Same-sex kiss on Singapore television goes viral on Washington Blade
- 16 Feb – Release of my podcast interview on Kiki with a Sexologist with Dr Martha Lee with The Balut Kiki Project
- 16 Feb – Quoted in Self-Pleasure 101: Everything You Need To Know For Solo Sex on Her World Singapore
- 16 Feb – Released video of Any Love Tips For Someone Who Will Get Married In A Few Months?
- 17 Feb – Facilitated Virtual Community Sharing: Dating Stories for www.SugarandSpice.asia
- 18 Feb – Release of video Are you being slut shamed? Here is how you can deal with it for SheThePeople TV
- 18 Feb – Released video What is Enthusiastic Consent?
- 20 Feb – Quoted in ‘It’s like Covid-19, it’s everywhere’: Dating apps, social media make it easy for people to swipe right into infidelity on Today Online
- 22 Feb – Hosted 4th Episode of Eros Evolution: Let’s Talk About Body Neutrality with Mary Victor
- 23 Feb – Released video Product Review of Fifty Shade of Gray Play Nice
- 23 Feb – Released video We-Vibe Tease Please Hotter Sex Socks
- 23 Feb – Conducted virtual workshop How to have Better Sex for Get2Togther, UK
- 24 Feb – Facilitated virtual Support Group for Breast Cancer Survivors for Singapore Cancer Society. Theme: Body Image
- 25 Feb – Conducted It’s Not Love virtual workshop for TLC Dating (2nd time)
- 25 Feb – Release of video Are you being shamed online? Here is how you can deal with it for SheThePeople TV
- 25 Feb – Released video about SCS Breast Cancer Support Groups for 2022
MARCH
- 1 Mar – Released video on My 2021 Year End Prolonged Sex Date
- 1 Mar – Hosted 5th Episode of Eros Evolution: International Women’s Day. Have we achieved Gender Equality? with Justine Ang Fonte and Melanie
- 1 Mar – Commissioned and published Elijah’s Advocacy Journey
- 1 Mar – Released my blog post This is How I Started Asserting Myself
- 2 Mar – Released video answer to How To Recognize the Signs of Unhealthy Relationship
- 3 Mar – Conducted virtual Pleasuring the Penis workshop under Love is in the Air Series
- 4 Mar – Conducted virtual Unwinding workshop for One World Tantra Festival (returning for 3rd time)
- 4 Mar – Conducted virtual Fab Fellatio (Blowjob workshop) under Love is in the Air Series
- 4 Mar – Release of video What are orgasms? How to have them? for SheThePeople TV
- 5 Mar – Released video How To Recognize the Signs of Unhealthy Relationship
- 5 Mar – Conducted virtual Viva La Vulva workshop under Love is in the Air Series
- 7 Mar – Released video What is Gender Equality?
- 8 Mar – Hosted 6th Episode of Eros Evolution: Being Male and All Things Masculine with Lionel Koh and Balan Gopal
- 8 Mar – Release of my written article 8 ways women AND men can #BreakTheBias this International Women’s Day for Honeycombers Singapore
- 8 Mar – Answered sex questions on Ask Me Anything for Now and Me
- 8 Mar – Released my blog post How Somebody does Something… is how they do Everything
- 9 Mar – Released video What is Sexual Consent?
- 9 Mar – Recorded interview for podcast Drunken Ramblings Studios
- 11 Mar – Release of video Don’t ignore these signs in your relationship! for SheThePeople TV
- 11 Mar – Released video What is Trauma Bonding?
- 15 Mar – Hosted 7th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Sex Therapy with Chronic Illness and Disability with Dr. Lee Phillips
- 15 Mar – Released my blog post Do You Know Somebody who Over-Explains all the time?
- 16 Mar – Quoted in Expert Shares 4 Red Flags In A Relationship That You Should Be Aware Of on SheThePeople TV
- 17 Mar – Facilitated Viral Community Sharing: Taking Back Our Power for www.SugarandSpice.asia
- 17 Mar – Released video on Female Sex Hormones
- 17 Mar – Featured in I Am Her: Martha Tara Lee On Combatting Stigma About Sex Positivity on The Beau Life
- 18 Mar – Released video Why Gender Equality is Important?
- 18 Mar – Guest speaker of Facebook live session on Revenge Porn by IFN-Indonesian Family Network Singapore
- 18 Mar – Release of video What do women really want? for SheThePeople TV
- 19 Mar – Conducted What Women Want for PFP as part of International Women’s Day
- 21 Mar – Released my blog post 24 Apps for Meditation, Mindfulness & Mental Health
- 22 Mar – Conducted Virtual Kissing Workshop for Couples
- 22 Mar – Hosted 8th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Negotiating Gender Identity: A Trans Masc Perspective with Jamie Nonis
- 24 Mar – Published Demystifying Tattoos: A Collaboration Post with Jane Surin
- 24 Mar – Released video Demystifying Tattoos in partnership with Jane Surin
- 24 Mar- Conducted virtual Pure Pleasure for www.Horny.sg in partnership with pjur
- 25 Mar – Release of video Deal breakers you should avoid in the bedroom for SheThePeople TV
- 25 Mar – Published Testimonial: “I trust you are well. It’s been a great year since we consulted you..”
- 27 Mar – Hosted Lionel Koh for Virtual Sex Ed for Parents: The Talk
- 29 Mar – Hosted 9th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Man Myths: Understanding Male Sexuality with Cam Fraser
- 29 Mar – Conducted Virtual Masterclass: The Orgasm Gap Cure
- 29 Mar – Released my blog post On Why I no longer run Single-Gender Events…
- 30 Mar – Released video How Can I Increase Consent in my Life?
APRIL
- 1 Apr – Release of video Role of touch in a relationship for SheThePeople TV
- 3 Apr – Conducted Masterclass: Pure Pleasure for Horny.sg in partnership with pjur
- 4 Apr – Featured in Horny.sg’s Instagram Post
- 4 Apr – Listed in Free Therapy for Ukraine
- 5 Apr – Released video Please + I’m Sorry in American Sign Language
- 5 Apr – Hosted 10th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: 5 Ways to be an Epic Lover
- 5 Apr – Released my blog post Personal Story: “I Was Attending a Free-Form Movement Class Regularly…”
- 5 Apr – Conducted Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples
- 6 Apr – Released video My Boyfriend’s father is a Cheater and I’m Afraid He Will Be Like His Father. What Should I Do?
- 7 Apr – Released video Virtual Pure Pleasure Workshop #Shorts
- 7 Apr – Facilitated Virtual Community Sharing: Sexual Health and More for www.SugarandSpice.asia
- 8 Apr – Release of video Can women initiate sex? for SheThePeople TV
- 11 Apr – Hosted 11th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Mother’s Day: The Heart of Mothers with Carol Gockel and Felicia Tan
- 11 Apr – Released my blog post Passionate Person: Malaysian Sexologist at Vibrance Pelvic Health Centre
- 12 Apr – Conducted Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples (2nd)
- 12 Apr – Released my blog post Personal Story: “Years Ago, I Asked to Speak to My Boss and Asked a Promotion…”
- 13 Apr – Released video What Does a Sexologist Think of Sex Toys?
- 14 Apr – Released video What You Need to Know About Internet Love Scam
- 15 Apr – Released video Thank you in American Sign Language
- 15 Apr – Release of video Relationship Advice for couples for SheThePeople TV
- 17 Apr – Released my blog post Personal Story: “He basically said he wanted to rape me….”
- 17 Apr – Released my blog poste Personal Story: “A mentor of mine shared what he didn’t like about me…”
- 17 Apr – Released my blog post Visit Ms Durian near my office!
- 17 Apr – Released my blog post Statement about Not Running In-Person BJ workshops for now
- 18 Apr – Released video More About my New Office – almost five months!
- 19 Apr – Conducted Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples (3rd)
- 19 Apr – Released my blog post I Believe in Giving People Three Chances…
- 19 Apr – Hosted 12th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Lady I will Touch You with My Mind with Felix Cheong
- 20 Apr – Q&A on Vaginismus for Get2Toegther, UK
- 20 Apr – Released video Why Did You Become a Sexologist?
- 22 Apr – Facilitated virtual support Group for Breast Cancer Survivors for Singapore Cancer Society. Theme: Femininity
- 22 Apr – Release of video How to have better sex? for SheThePeople TV
- 22 Apr – Released video Thank you and you’re welcome in American Sign Language
- 26 Apr – Released my blog post Love Yourself Because…
- 26 Apr – Hosted 13th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Make Asian Love Not Porn with Cindy Gallop
- 27 Apr – Released video How To Feel Like Falling With Love With My Husband Again?
- 28 Apr – Featured in Honeycombers Local Legends of Singapore
- 29 Apr – Released video Erotic Talk 101
MAY
- 3 May – Hosted 14th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Is Work Life Balance a Myth? with Lynette Har
- 3 May – Released my v A Story of Learning to Assert Myself
- 4 May – Released video What is Sex in American Sign Language?
- 4 May – Featured Passionate Person: Sexuality Counsellor & Clinical Hypnotherapist Chan Fun Shin
- 5 May – Facilitated Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Our Masturbation Stories
- 5 May – Release of video Right Way to do Oral Sex for SheThePeople TV
- 5 May – Released video Product Review: Twoplus Fertility Sperm Guide
- 7 May – Released video 13 Reasons Why Masturbation is Awesome
- 9 May – Released video 7 Ways to Re-Educate Yourself about Sex Education as an Adult
- 10 May – Released my blog post Speaker was Apparently Famous for Talking About Successful Marriages…
- 10 May – Hosted 15th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: What Predicts Sexual Satisfaction? with Dr. Tara
- 11 May – Released video Product Review: TwoPlus Fertility Applicator
- 13 May – Released video Five Masturbation Myths
- 13 May – Release of video Sex during pregnancy: Is it safe? for SheThePeople TV
- 17 May – Hosted 16th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Pelvic Health Solutions for Sensitive Health Issues with Dr. Amanda Olson
- 18 May – Quoted in ‘Older women are having sex’: S’pore needs to talk more about sexual health, say experts on The Straits Times
- 18 May – Released my blog post My Favourite Sex Story of My Mom – Prepare to ROFL!
- 19 May – Released video Sports, Game, Meet in American Sign Language
- 20 May – Released video Frequently Asked Questions on Masturbation
- 20 May – Release of video Does masturbation cause weakness? for SheThePeople TV
- 21 May – Conducted 1.5 hour virtual sexuality talk on Lymphoma & Sexuality for Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH)
- 23 May – Quoted in Here’s How To Reignite The Spark In A Sexless Relationship on Bustle
- 24 May – Hosted 17th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Female Sexuality without Shame with Janet Chui
- 24 May – Conducted Sex & Sexuality in Lonely Singapore | Singles event for TLC Dating
- 25 May – Attended Headroom #LeanOnUsUkraine – EmotionAid® Demonstration Workshop (no cert)
- 26 May – Completed online training Webinar: Endometriosis – What Health Care Professionals Need to Know by Global Pelvic Health Alliance (Cert provided)
- 26 May – Featured in Make Love, Not Porn, Revisited
- 26 May – Completed online training Sex & The Saints: Shared Language/Best Practices for Working with Individuals of the Christian Faith by Brittany Broaddus-Smith and organised by AASECT (no CE as not attending live)
- 27 May – Completed online training Sexuality While Trans: What Educators and Practitioners Need to Know by J MASE III and organised by AASECT (no CE as not attending live)
- 27 May – Completed online training Talking Vulva! What Every Sexuality Educator Should Know with Dorrie Lane and organised by Sex Ed Lecture Series (CE obtained)
- 27 May – Released video of Everything About Dating Violence
- 27 May – Release of video Tips for Anal Sex for SheThePeople TV
- 28 May – Completed online training Let’s Talk about Sex and Aging by Joan Price and organised by Sex Ed Lecture Series (CE obtained)
- 28 May – Release of video Is it safe to have sex during pregnancy? for SheThePeople TV
- 31 May – Hosted 18th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Love, Sex, and Hip Hop with Masia One
JUNE
- 1 June – Commissioned and published How Race and being LGBTQ+ Intersect in Singapore by Elijah Tay
- 2 June – Facilitated Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Our LGBTQIA Stories
- 2 June – Released video Sex Toy Review: Lingo Tongue Vibrator by Screaming O
- 3 June – Released the video Having the Perfect First Kiss
- 3 June – Release of video Why don’t I feel like having sex? for SheThePeople TV
- 6 June – Completed online training So What Is “Appropriate”?: Exploring Sex/ual/ity Education Services for and with People with Developmental Disabilities by Richelle Frabotta, MSEd, CSE, CSES and organised by Sex Ed Lecture Series (CE obtained)
- 6 June – Completed online training That’s Taboo! Using A Sex-Positive Multicultural Digital Storytelling Model In Sex Education by Elisha Oliver, PhD and organised by Sex Ed Lecture Series (CE obtained)
- 6 June – Completed online training The Triangle of Sexual Health, Sexual Rights and Sexual Pleasure by Antón Castellanos Usigli and organised by Sex Ed Lecture Series (CE obtained)
- 6 June – Released video Introduction to my 4 Sex Books
- 7 June – Completed online training Vicarious Trauma: Strategies for Supporting Resilience through The Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute (Cert given)
- 7 June – Hosted 19th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Sex Coaching – The New Pathway for Sexual Healing with Dr. Patti Britton
- 7 June – Conducted Free EmotionAid 60-minute Demonstration Workshop
- 8 June – Released my blog post Do You Have Work Integrity?
- 10 June – Released video What You Need to Know about Sexual Harassment in Singapore
- 10 June – Release of video How do I ask my partner what I want in bed? for SheThePeople TV
- 14 June – Hosted 20th Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Managing Intersections: BDSM Authority Transfer Based Relationships and Non-Monogamy with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey
- 15 June – Presented on topic Sex, Tech, and Beyond on World Health, Fitness and Wellness Festival by Fit Summit
- 15 June – Released video A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know
- 15 June – Released my blog post Laugh… but Never Look Down on our Parents
- 15 June – Conducted virtual presentation to a group of closed-group women on topic Healthy Sexuality after Betrayal Trauma
- 16 June – Released video How do I Control my Horny Thoughts?
- 17 June – Interviewed about Midlife Crisis on IFN-Indonesian Family Network Singapore Facebook Live
- 18 June – Interviewed in Let’s Talk About Sex (Ed) How to Practice Safe Sex (For Queer People) by The Inner Lynk
- 19 June – Completed Webinar Recording: International Perspectives on Working With Those Who Have Sexually Abused by Safer Society Press (no cert issued)
- 20 June – Completed podcast Providing Inclusive, Respectful Care to Your Gender Questioning, Transgender, & Nonbinary Clients (Ep. 108) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 20 June – Completed podcast Healing Invisible Wounds: Working Through Past Sexual Trauma in Relationships (Ep. 100) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 20 June – Completed podcast Lifting Black Voices: Therapy, Trust, and Racial Trauma (Ep. 95) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 20 June – Completed podcast When Client/Therapist Values Clash: The Diversity Training Every Clinician Needs Right Now (Ep. 106) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 20 June – Completed podcast Creating an Ethical, Impactful Presence Outside the Therapy Room, from Books to Social Media to Podcasting (Ep. 126) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 20 June – Completed podcast Disaster Mental Health: How to Help in the Aftermath of a Tragedy (Ep. 43) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 21 June – Hosted 21st Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Grief Kicks in When your Body is Failing You with Vernessa Chuah
- 21 June – Released my blog post Shout out for Getaway: Singapore Gay BL Web Drama Series
- 21 June – Released my blog post Testimonial: “Do the work you do as it’s so important for every human being!”
- 22 June – Released video Everything You Need to Know About Vulva Self Examination
- 22 June – Released my blog post This is why I Used to Get Upset with my Mom…
- 25 June – Interview with Swasthya Plus Network
- 28 June – Hosted 22nd Episode of Eros Evolution Show: Body Love, Diversity, and Inclusiveness with Fiona Tan and Rozella Mahjhrin
- 28 June – Conducted Free Virtual Laughter Yoga (raising funds for Ukraine Red Cross)
- 28 June – Quoted in Here’s How to Gently Tell Your Partner You’d Like to Have Sex More Often by Elite Daily
- 29 June – Released my blog post Agree? Life is a Series of Ok and Not Ok…
- 30 June- Facilitated virtual Support Group for Breast Cancer Survivors for Singapore Cancer Society. Theme: Sex Drive
- 30 June – Released my blog post Personal Story: Readiness needed to stand up for LGBT community in Singapore
JULY
- 1 July – Completed podcast Our Role Moving Forward: Reproductive Justice as Harm Reduction and Ethical Imperative (Ep. 153) by Clearly Clinical (CE issued)
- 1 July – Released my blog post Look Out for Your Loved Ones
- 2 July – Release of video Debunking myths about porn for SheThePeople TV
- 5 July – Facilitated Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Our Summer Stories
- 6 July – Released my blog post Your Energy Speaks before You Do
- 7 July – Conducted virtual Free A.M.A. Ask Me Anything!
- 7 July – Released video What do I do if my genitals are very sensitive?
- 8 July – Released video 5 Ways to Start Dating After Divorce
- 8 July – Release of video How to speak up while having sex? for SheThePeople TV
- 13 July – Released my blog post I am not a Nobody and Neither are You!
- 14 July – Released video Sex Toy Review: Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Rabbit Bullet Vibrator Blue
- 15 July – Release of video Is sex without a condom better? for SheThePeople TV
- 15 July – Featured in Virtus Fertility Centre’s Instagram post
- 20 July – Released my blog post My Mom Didn’t Know… I Could Never Reject Her
- 21 July – Released video What are the Benefits of Relationship Counseling?
- 21 July – Completed webinar Sex Education from a Neurodiversity Lens (with CE)
- 22 July – Completed podcast Holistic Healing: Indigenous Approaches to Mental Health, Ep. 154 (no CE issued)
- 22 July – Completed webinar Responsiveness of Sex Education to the Needs of LGBTQ+ Students (with CE)
- 22 July – Completed Webinar Recording: WhatsOK? A New Resource for Preventing Sexual Harm by Young People (no CE issued)
- 22 July – Completed podcast Critical Conversations: How to Talk About Sex With Your Breast Cancer Patients (no CE issued)
- 22 July – Completed Mini-Guide sample: 4 part-seires by The Mastectomy Guide
- 22 July – Release of video See this before having sex for the first time! for SheThePeople TV
- 26 July – Conducted Free Virtual Laughter Yoga (raising funds for Ukraine Red Cross)
- 27 July – Released my blog post Love-experienced as a Inner Compass
- 28 July – Released video Product Review: Okamoto Aloe 003
- 28 July – Did a sharing session on Vaginismus for the physios at Embrace Physiotherapy
- 29 July – Did podcast interview on Relationships with the KPI Institute
- 30 July – Release of video Why does it hurt to have sex? for SheThePeople TV
AUGUST
- 3 Aug – Released my blog post Personal Story: “I am reminded anew of the need for empathy”
- 4 Aug – Facilitated Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Me & My Anus
- 5 Aug – Released video Your Questions about Sex Toy Injuries or Mishaps Answered
- 5 Aug – Release of video What are different types of lubes? for SheThePeopleTV
- 9 Aug – Completed Walking With Grief Helping Others Deal With Loss by Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute Inc. (CE issued)
- 10 Aug – Released video How do I Use Sex Toys for the First Time?Certificate – Walking With Grief Helping Others Deal With Loss
- 10 Aug – Released my blog post Personal Story: Low or No Sexual Desire is not the same as Asexuality!
- 13 Aug – Completed Dealing with Difficult People by Achieve Centre for Leadership (CE issued)
- 15 Aug – Released my blog post Book Review: Break the Grip of Past Lovers
- 16 Aug – Released video Virtual Emotional Releasing
- 17 Aug – Released video Fight Fair
- 17 Aug – Released my blog post Personal Story: “I passed with flying colours on sexual anatomy”
- 17 Aug – Released video How Important is Physical Touch in a Sexual Relationship?
- 18 Aug – Conducted Anal August Let’s Talk with SgRain and MyRainbow
- 18 Aug – Released video Eros Love, Sex and Everything In-Between Retreat for Couples Level 1 of 3
- 19 Aug – Released video 3-part Bedroom Confidence Workshops!
- 19 Aug – Release of video What to know before having casual sex? for SheThePeopleTV
- 19 Aug – Completed The Trauma Impact of Covid-19 Pandemic on Children & Adolescents by Singapore Association for Counselling (CPD issued)
- 23 Aug – Conducted Virtual Emotional Releasing
- 24 Aug – Facilitated Working with Asian-born Clients & Students
- 24 Aug – Released video What are the Types of Sexual Lubricants?
- 26 Aug – Support Group for Breast Cancer Survivors for Singapore Cancer Society. Theme: Communication
- 30 Aug – Conducted virtual training Fight Fair
- 31 Aug – Released video Our LGBT Friends Deserve Equality
- 31 Aug – Released video How Can I Break Up Kindly With My Boyfriend without Creating Resentment or Anger?
- 31 Aug – Released my blog post Personal Story: Marriage Shock!
SEPTEMBER
- 1 Sept – Released video Leading Their Authentic Lives
- 2 Sept – Released video Love is Love
- 3 Sept – Release of video How to Examine your Vulva? Why Should You? for Swasthya Plus English
- 6 Sept – Facilitated Sugar and Spice Community Sharing: Sex and Aging
- 6 Sept – Released my blog post Erotic Talk 101
- 6 Sept – Released full recording of Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Sex and Aging
- 7 Sept – Released video How Important is it to Fix Sex Dates in Our Busy Lives?
- 9 Sept – Released video About my first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between
- 10 Sept – Delivered “How to give mind-blowing sex” for the Walnut Warriors prostate cancer support group members of Singapore Cancer Society.
- 13 Sept – Commissioned and published Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay
- 13 Sept – Released my blog post Dealing with Jealousy + Booklist
- 16 Sept – Released video About my Second Book Orgasmic Yoga
- 17 Sept – Release of video Unable to Have Sex After Marriage? for Swasthya Plus English
- 20 Sept – Released my blog post What Helps with Addictions
- 21 Sept – Released video What Impact does Exercise have on our Sex Life?
- 23 Sept – Released video My 3rd Book: From Princess to Queen
- 26 Sept – Quoted in A BDSM Cinderella Story, or One Man’s Search for the Perfect Chastity Cage on Rice Media
- 27 Sept – Conducted Free Virtual Laughter Yoga for LGBQTIA community – with SGRainbow and Speqtrum Podcast
- 27 Sept – Release of video How Can Queer People Have Sex? for Swasthya Plus English
- 30 Sept – Guest speaker of Sex(less) in the City @Singapore Urological Association
- 30 Sept – Released video My Essay towards Book “Letter to My Mother”
OCTOBER
- 4 Oct – Facilitated Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Coming Out in partnership with SGRainbow
- 4 Oct – Released my blog post Playlist on Better Sex
- 4 Oct – Released full recording of Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Coming Out cohosted by SG Rainbow
- 5 Oct – Released my blog post On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors
- 5 Oct – Released my press release and blog post Read This Before You ‘Quiet Quit’ your Relationship
- 5 Oct – Released video What is the Ideal Duration for Sexual Intercourse?
- 6 Oct – Completed Suicide Intervention Skills Promoting Life, Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute Inc. (CE issued)
- 7 Oct – Released video Product Review: 4 Different Durex Condoms
- 8 Oct – Released video Sex Toy Review: Womanizer x Marilyn Monroe Special Edition Classic 2 Mint
- 11 Oct – Conducted virtual workshop The Art of Thrusting. Available for sale here.
- 11 Oct – Released my blog post Dating Red Flag You Should Know About!
- 12 Oct – Released video What Should I Not Say to My Partner?
- 14 Oct – Release of interview The Relationship between Sexual Routine and Sexual Intimacy | Reloscope #1. Am their first guest!
- 18 Oct – Released my blog post What is Evolution?
- 18 Oct – Quoted in How Does Quiet Quitting in Relationships Happen? on Medium
- 19 Oct – Released fun video on what I do with Horny Ezy Grip Air Pump on social media
- 19 Oct – Released video What is Your Advice on Dating?
- 21 Oct – Released video Product Review: 3 Different OneCondom Condoms
- 22 Oct – Did a social media shout-out for sexual health tests outside DSC in Singapore (sexual health clinic)
- 22 Oct – Released fun video clowning around with Lorals latex underwear (used for oral sex) on social media
- 23 Oct – Released my blog post The Art of Thrusting
- 23 Oct – Released my blog post Real Sex Ed for Parents: Having The Talk
- 23 Oct – Released my blog post Cord Cutting Ceremony – Release with Love, Take Back Your Power
- 23 Oct – Released my blog post Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!
- 24 Oct – Released fun video with my Lovense Domi 2 on social media
- 2 Oct – Released my blog post Playlist on FAQs around Sex and Sexuality
- 26 Oct – Released video What Should I Do When my Partner is Upset?
- 27 Oct – Conducted Orgasm Gap presentation at Reckitt Benckiser (owns Durex brand). Video here.
- 27 Oct – Hosted virtual Support Group for Breast Cancer Survivors for Singapore Cancer Society. Theme: Aging Beautifully
- 27 Oct – Released video Product Review: OneCondom ZeroThin
- 30 Oct – Released short video #shorts TwoPlus Artificial Insemination Kit
- 30 Oct – Released short video #shorts What are Some Precautions to Take to have Better Sex?
- 31 Oct – Released video highlighting how to use TwoPlusFertility Applicator Extra on social media
NOVEMBER
- 1 Nov – Released video highlighting Arcwave Voy on social media
- 1 Nov – Released short video Lorals Latex Underwear for Safer Oral Sex #Shorts
- 1 Nov – Released my blog post It’s Dr… by the way
- 2 Nov – Released video reply to people calling me ugly on social media
- 2 Nov – Released video What are your Thoughts on Age Gap in Relationships?
- 3 Nov – Released fun video showing off gift Durex Invisible Bag on social media
- 3 Nov – Released short video #Shorts Shout out to my neighbour DSC Clinic
- 4 Nov – Released video highlighting Sperm OK Sperm Count test on social media
- 4 Nov – Released short video My reply to being called ugly #shorts #hatersgonnahate
- 4 Nov – Released video Sexologist’s Reaction Video to Orgasm ‘Students’ Sue Netflix
- 4 Nov – Released video Sexologist’s Reaction Video to “Wife-Sharing” Rape and Voyeurism Case
- 4 Nov – Released video Sexologist’s Reaction Video to Singapore Youths View that Same-Sex Marriage are Wrong
- 5 Nov – Released short video @womanizerglobal OG G-Spot vibrator drops on in four hours
- 5 Nov – Released video Product Review Womanizer OG G-Spot Vibrator with Pleasure Air Technology.
- Nov – Released short video Penis Air Pump #teaser #Shorts
- 6 Nov – Released short video Common questions in my work as a Sexologist. #shorts #sexpositive
- 6 Nov – Released short video #Shorts Introducing Lovense Domi 2
- 7 Nov – Released short video Arcwave Voy Teaser
- 8 Nov – Facilitated Sugar & Spice Community Sharing: Sex & Violence with SG Rainbow
- 8 Nov – Released my blog post What is Your Santuary?
- 8 Nov – Released short video Sexologist’s Reaction Video to Singapore Youths View that Same Sex Marriage are Wrong
- 9 Nov – Released video Product Review: Womanizer OG G-Spot Vibrator with Pleasure Air Technology
- 9 Nov – Released full recording of Sex & Violence – Sugar & Spice Community Sharing cohosted by SG Rainbow and Eros Coaching
- 10 Nov – Released my blog post Case for Same-sex Marriage to be Allowed in Singapore
- 13 Nov – Released short video BathMate Hydro Max Penis Pump and Lorals Teaser
- 13 Nov – Released my blog post Do You Hate Women or Do You Just Hate Me because I am a Sexologist?
- 14 Nov – Released short video Durex Singapore Presentation
- 14 Nov – Released short video Visit to sex toy store Horny.sg today
- 15 Nov – Released short video What is Sex-positive?
- 15 Nov – Released video Why You Should Talk before Sex!
- 15 Nov – Released my blog post Empathy for Others
- 15 Nov – Released video Pleasure Skills Confidence
- 16 Nov – Released short video Reaction Video to “Wife-Sharing” Rape and Voyeurism
- 17 Nov – Conducted virtual session Ask-Me-Anything
- 17 Nov – Released my written article No holidate, no problem: How to get through the holidays as a newly single person for Honeycombers Singapore
- 21 Nov – Released video Product Review: BathMate Hydro Max 7 Penis Pump
- 22 Nov – Conducted virtual Pleasuring the Penis (Part 1 of 3 under Pleasure Skills Confidence)
- 22 Nov – Released my blog post Horrible First Date – What not to do + what to do instead
- 23 Nov – Conducted virtual Fab Fellatio (Part 2 of 3 under Pleasure Skills Confidence series!)
- 24 Nov – Conducted virtual Viva la Vulva (Part 3 of 3 under Pleasure Skills Confidence series!)
- 24 Nov – Released video Virtual Kissing Workshop
- 25 Nov – Released short video 3 Things this #Sexologist wished vulva owners knew about their #Vulva
- 25 Nov – Released video Sagami Goodie Bag
- 26 Nov – Released short video Vaginismus Testimonial for Dr Martha Tara Lee
- 27 Nov – Released my blog post Vaginismus Testimonial: “I was in an unconsummated marriage for 8.5 years.”
- 28 Nov – Released short video On #boundaries #selflove #drmarthalee #eroscoaching #assertive #assertiveness #shorts
- 29 Nov – Released short video #closeeyesfilter Avail at horny.sg (ErosMatters discount) #drmarthalee #eroscoaching #shorts
- 29 Nov – Released video Product Review: Lorals Latex Undies For Pleasure and Comfort Oral Sex Lingerie
- 29 Nov – Released my blog post What’s the Cost of Being Kind?
- 30 Nov – Released video Can Noise Lead to Better Sex?
DECEMBER
- 1 Dec – Released video Sexual behaviour is not the same as Sexual Orientation #indonesia #lgbt #sexed #shorts
- 1 Dec – Released video Product Review: Arcwave Ghost Male Masturbator
- 1 Dec- Released short video Do Asian newspapers know what they’re saying? #lgbg #indonesia #scmp #shorts
- 4 Dec – Released short video What would be a good first sex toy?
- 6 Dec – Released Womanizer Liberty by Lily Allen Giveaway on social media
- 7 Dec – Released short video #sexologist #shorts #singapore #boundaries #drmarthalee #eroscoaching #intimacycoach #sexpositive
- 7 Dec – Released short video Join now! Womanizer Liberty by Lily Allen Giveaway
- 8 Dec – Released short video Giving Lensa app a try too! @lensa.ai #lensa #drmarthalee
- 8 Dec – Was panelist on panel 1 of “Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR)-Voices from the Disability Movement” event, co-hosted by the Disability Inclusion and the SRHR Technical Working Groups, Save the Children.
- 8 Dec – Released short video on 2022 Duolingo report card
- 9 Dec – Released short video #cometogether #shorts #drmarthalee #drtara #sexologist #sti #segged
- 9 Dec – Released video Product Review Ez Grip Pump by The Horny Company
- 9 Dec – Released short video The diff btw a #coach #counselor #psychologist #therapy #therapist #shorts #sexologist #sextherapy
- 10 Dec – Released short video 13th Sg Aids Conference today @afa.singapore #drmarthalee #hiv #aids #afasg #worldaidsday #shorts
- 10 Dec – Release of video Why do we find blowjobs disgusting for SheThePeopleTV
- 11 Dec – Released my blog post New Words Learned From My 2022
- 13 Dec – Released short video What does being good mean?
- 13 Dec – Conducted virtual workshop Work, Rest and Play
- 15 Dec – Launched Little Shop of Eros
- 1 5 Dec – Released short video #Affirmations and thoughts by IG motherlymarthalee
- 16 Dec – Hosted virtual Support Group for Breast Cancer Survivors for Singapore Cancer Society. Theme: Sexual Enhancement
- 16 Dec – Released explanatory video about online workshop Tongue Twisters
- 20 Dec – Released product review video on TwoPlus Fertility Applicator Extra
- 20 Dec – Released my blog post Playlist on Orgasm Questions
- 21 Dec – Attended Psychological First Aid by Singapore Emergency Responder Academy
- 26 Dec – Released video Product Review: Artron Sperm Ok Male Fertility Self Testing Kit
- 26 Dec – Released short video Strangers No More: NYE Countdown Party #Shorts
- 28 Dec – Released video Sharing 2023 Diaries
- 30 Dec – Released my blog post 2022 Recorded Sugar & Spice Community Sharing Events with SGRainbow
- 31 Dec – Facilitated Strangers No More: NYE Countdown Party
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.