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13 May 2022: Sex during pregnancy: Is it safe? | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee
It is advised for women to take rest and be careful during their pregnancy. So most couples try to avoid sex for the entire time. But is having sex unsafe for the baby? Couples have several doubts about their sex life during pregnancy but no one talks about it in the open. There are doubts about the safety of the baby and the mother.
In this video, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a clinical sexologist discusses how couples can have sex and still have a safe pregnancy.
Discussed in the video:
- Is it okay to have sex during pregnancy?
- Does the baby get affected by the rise in movement in the body of the mother from sex?
- Can sex lead to complications in pregnancy?
- Should mothers inform their gynaecologists before trying to have sex?
- Is first trimester not favourable for sex?
8 April 2022: Can women initiate sex? | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee
It is a common notion that only men should initiate sex. But isn’t that a wrong stereotype? In this video, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a clinical sexologist discusses how both partners can enjoy sex and how to initiate it.
Discussed in the video:
- Who should initiate sex?
- What is the right way to initiate sex?
- Does the person initiating sex have the upper hand?
- How can having code words help with the initiation of sex?
- What to do if a partner has a lower sex drive?
- When should partners go to a sexologist?
25 March 2022: Deal breakers you should avoid in the bedroom | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee
There are certain non-negotiables in every relationship but what are some general deal breakers that should be maintained in the bedroom for healthy sex life? In this video, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a clinical sexologist discusses some of these deal breakers in this video.
Discussed in the video:
- Can a bad attitude kill the vibe of sex in the bedroom?
- How important is appreciating your partner’s efforts in the bedroom?
- Is sex all about one individual’s pleasure?
- How important is communication among the partners for better sex life?
- How to avoid calling the wrong name in the bedroom?
4 February 2022: Tips for better sexual communication | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Sex is a taboo topic and there is hardly any conversation around sexual health and experiences happening around. In this video, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a clinical sexologist discusses the importance of communication about sex and how can you communicate with your friends and partners regarding this topic.
Discussed in the video:
- Why is speaking up about sex so important?
- Whom should you start and practice talking about sex?
- How to talk to your partner about sex?
28 January 2022: How long should sex really last? | Answers Dr. Martha Tara Lee
There are various doubts related to what is the ideal duration of sex and how much time does it take for women to have an orgasm. In this video, Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a clinical sexologist discusses the concepts of time required for a pleasurable sexual experience.
Discussed in the video:
- Is penetration the only act of having sex?
- How long does penetration last?
- Which kind of orgasm is the easiest for vagina owners?
- How long does an average sexual session last?
- What is the orgasm gap or pleasure gap?
- How long does the clitoral stimulation need to be done for an orgasm?
16 December 2021: Last longer in bed | Sex tips for men | Ft. Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Discussed in this video:
- How to deal with premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation or difficulties with ejaculation?
- How to look at your sexual difficulties from the perspective of your partner?
- How to bring attention to your body if you cannot ejaculate?
- Should you engage in positive talk with yourself in order to heal your sexual difficulties?
12 November 2021: Things to know about the clitoris | | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist
Discussed in this video:
- What is the anatomy of the vulva?
- How many nerves does a clit have?
- Is the clit a button?
- Do you need to pull the clit out of its hood?
- How does the sensation work around the clit?
- What is the structure of the clit?
9 June 2021: Why do women get turned off easily during sex? | Answers Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist
Discussed in this video:
- Do women get turned off easily?
- Why do people get turned off during sex?
- How can women stay focused during sex?
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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
