This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here.
Sex toys have been commonplace since Victorian times. Initially, they were sold as massagers to treat hysterical people with vagina, but in the 90s, they became acceptable as pleasure providers during the sex but still rarely purchased. However, these days, sex toys have entered the mainstream due to the mental and physical benefits they offer. Especially vibrators are frequently purchased to seek pleasurable sexual stimulation. Considering the enormous benefits of vibrators, we have come up with few reasons why you should use a vibrator?
- To boost your libido
- Makes your intimacy more enjoyable
- A vibrator helps you sleep better
- Good for your heart health
- They are good to beat your stress as they cause the release of serotonin and dopamine
- Helps to make your muscles strong
- A vibrator helps to elevate your mood
- It makes your immune system strong
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Make the orgasm easier
- Vibrators keep your vagina healthy
- Improves your bladder control
- You will have a more satisfying sexual life
- They take the pressure off you
- They lower your blood pressure
- It is helpful in treating the vaginal symptoms after menopause
- It is beneficial in tightening up your vagina
- You can enjoy multiple orgasms
- They can help with body confidence
- You get to know about your body
- Using a vibrator increases blood flow to the place you are touching, which makes your vagina more lubricated.
- Vibrators can also provide you anal orgasm
- If you have an orgasm with a vibrator, it will relieve your menstrual cramps
- Vibrators can relieve your headache
- They make sex less painful in case of vaginal atrophy
- Helps you to enjoy intimacy when penetrative sex is not possible
- They give you positive sexual functioning
- Using sex toys for sex counts as exercise.
- You feel good and active
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Vibrators help to combat the problem of premature ejaculation in men
- They allow men to gain an erection if they are used below the penis
- Vibrators can boost sexual confidence in men
- They are helpful to keep your pelvic floor active
- They give your butt and thighs a strengthening workout
- Vibrators can lower the risk of prostate cancer
- They can increase your life span
- You will have glowing skin as they increase blood flow to the skin
- Vibrators help you to know about your own body in a better way
- They can help prevent cervical infections in women by circulating cervical mucus, which flushes out bacteria
- Vibrators can reduce the chances of type II diabetes
- They relieve muscle tension
- Vibrators help to pass your period more quickly
- They help to relieve migraines
- Vibrators are easy and convenient to use
- They trigger intense emotional feeling by causing the release of the love hormone
- Help to build a healthier connection with your body
- They prevent the chances of urinary tract infections
- You will have improved memory as vibrators stimulate the release of adrenaline.
- They make you feel lighter
- Vibrators help you to create an imaginary sex image
- Vibrators increase the strength of vaginal walls
- They ensure safe sex
- Help to reach the climax quickly
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You can control your pleasure by own.
- They are helpful to increase your white blood cells count
- The use of a vibrator may curb your hunger as it causes the release of oxytocin
- You will have improved quality and motility of sperms
- Vibrators help you to strengthen your relationship with your partner
- You will feel more focused and energized
- Vibrators are suitable to reduce nasal congestion as masturbation reduce swelling of vessels
- You have zero chances of sexually transmitted diseases
- A vibrator with multiple modes can expand your pleasure horizons
- Good to keep the length and width of the vagina in the appropriate size
- Vibrators are Not dangerous and do not cause numbness
- Vibrators nullify the myth of replacing your partner
- Using a slim vibrator can help you stretching vaginal tissues without any pain
- Perfect for people unable to stimulate their genitals due to disability
- Help to explore different types of orgasms
- Vibrators can support exploring our genitals
- Vibrators spice things up!
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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 12 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.