How to Use Menstrual Cups, the Good and the Bad with Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Posted On: January 16, 2021

This article was originally published on Pink Lifestyle here.

Dealing with menstruation is no fun and the expensive, unsustainable, single-use tampons plus pads many of us use certainly don’t make it feel like more of a breeze.

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Menstrual cups are a great alternative to single-use products, mainly tampons. They’re becoming increasingly popular for their many benefits, especially among those concerned about their health or environmental footprint.

Intimina Lily Cup One Starter Cup

In this article, we’ll share the pros and cons of menstrual cups you may want to consider if you’re thinking about giving them a try, as well as the basics of using a menstrual cup.

The pros
The list of perks related to the use of menstrual cups goes on and on – many regular users hail them as revolutionary and life-changing. So, what’s the hype all about?

1) The first clear advantage is the sustainability aspect. Menstrual cups are meant to be reused for many years to come – depending on the brand, they can last you for up to 10 years. This helps you avoid a lot of single-use products, which you’d be sending to the landfill. You also just need one menstrual cup for all this time, contrary to other sustainable menstruation blood collection methods such as period underwear or reusable pads.

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2) Not only do they last long in your possession – they can also stay in your body much longer than a tampon: up to 12 hours.

3) Tampons can also lead to dryness due to the fact besides menstruation blood, tampons also absorb the naturally lubricating liquids which keep the vagina healthy. Additionally, tampons also often contain chemicals such as bleach, which further negatively affect your intimate health. Menstrual cups don’t dry out the vagina or introduce any chemicals to it, making for a healthier choice for your body.

4) If you’re often experiencing unpleasant smells during those times of the month, menstrual cups can also help with that. These odours develop when menstruation blood is exposed to air – something menstrual cups help prevent.

5) When the menstrual cup is inserted properly, it shouldn’t cause any discomfort – in fact, you shouldn’t even feel it. Additionally, some people also report decreased menstrual cramps when using a menstrual cup, although there is no scientific evidence to support that.

6) You can take it anywhere as each menstrual cup comes with either a storage case or small bag.  Menstrual cups let us run, swim, do yoga, or fly through the air on a flying trapeze if you want – all with reliable period protection.

The con

The benefits of using menstrual cups certainly outnumber the negatives. However, there are a few things to consider before you decide to give the cup a try.

The main problem you may be experiencing with a menstrual cup is some difficulty learning to insert it properly in the beginning. This highly depends on each individual – some people may learn how to insert the cup with a perfect seal during the first few days, while it may take others a few cycles to learn.

 

The best way to deal with this is to apply some water-based lubricant on the rim of the cup. The cup will glide easily into our desired position.  Do consider wearing a pad or period underwear along with your cup for the first few months before you’re sure you can insert the cup in a leak-free way.

Using menstrual cups
First, you’ll need to select the right cup for you. Menstrual cups come in two sizes. Usually, the smaller one is recommended to people under 30 years of age who have not delivered vaginally, while the larger size is made for people of 30 or more years, even if they haven’t delivered vaginally.

Some of us may experience unusually heavy or long menstrual periods. Many women have heavy flow days and cramps when they have their period. Your flow is so heavy that you’ll need to change your tampon or pad every hour for at least an entire day. You also have cramps so severe that they stop you from doing your usual activities.

Heavy periods are sometimes caused by subtle health problems, and they can lead to other health issues. If you soak through a pad or tampon every hour or so on a regular basis, talk with your doctor. They may be able to help.

However, the sizing may vary depending on other factors too – the best way to find out is to consult with your gynaecologist.

Inserting the cup
Before you prepare to insert the cup, it’s best to have some water-based lubricant on hand to aid you. It’s also important to always wash your hands properly before inserting the cup. Then, follow these steps:

1. Apply lubricant (or water, if you don’t have access to lubricant) to the rim of the cup.

A water-based lubricant from Sliquid

2. Fold the menstrual cup in your preferred manner. There are many different folding methods to suit us, which are usually shown in instruction leaflets you’ll get with the menstrual cup. The C fold is perhaps most popular but try what feels more natural to you.

3. Insert the cup, rim-up, into the vagina. Once inserted, it should sit below the cervix.

4. Rotate the cup to ensure it has created an airtight seal.

Here’s more tips for ladies with tilted uterus as well.

 

Taking out the cup

After up to 12 hours (ladies with heavy flow may empty the cups approximately every 6 – 8 hours depending on each individual), it will be time to remove the cup. Again, make sure your hands are washed before doing this. Follow these steps to ensure all goes smoothly:

1. Insert your fingers into the vagina, getting hold of the step or base of the cup. You may be able to remove the cup just holding the stem but the base will provide you with a better grip.

2. Pull the cup lower down the vaginal canal.

3. Pinch the base of the cup to release the seal. Alternatively, you could also insert a finger alongside the edge of the cup, releasing the seal by pulling the cup away from the vaginal wall.

4. Once the cup is removed, empty it and thoroughly wash with natural, unscented soap.

Are menstrual cups a good choice for me?
We’re all different and so are our bodies, which means that what works for one of us may not work for another. Here’s a quick run-down of who menstrual cups are usually best for:

• Users of tampons or other insertion methods of menstruation blood collection
• Those concerned about their environmental footprint
• People who experience dryness and irritation during their period
• Active people, who travel or work out often

On the other hand, there are some people who may not love menstrual cups, despite their many benefits. This group could include:

• People allergic to rubber or latex
• Some IUD users
• People who have experienced toxic shock syndrome in the past
• Those who have recently undergone gynaecological surgery, labor or miscarriage

Rest assured menstrual cups are made of 100% silicone. This prevents any allergic reactions from latex rubber.

If you’re thinking about giving menstrual cups a try, now is certainly a great time to do so, as more and more brands are appearing on the market. I like to recommend the Intima and Fun Factory fun menstrual cups available at Horny.sg.They are an amazing option for anyone wanting to give menstrual cups a try for the first time!

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 10 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

         
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