This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later.

Day/ Date    What

JANUARY

• Jan – Cover for 5th book Sex 365 designed (but decided to put the book on hold for now)
• Jan 9 – Conducted Sex & Sexuality 101 workshop

FEBRUARY

• Feb 1 – 29 – Facilitated online learning Celebrating Self Love: Free FB group for Women
• Feb 13 – Celebrating Love: Love, Dating & Relationships alongside Luke Elijah Lim and Lionel Lim
• Feb 21 – Conducted Sex & Sexuality 101 workshop
• Feb 22 – Conducted Art of Vulva Pleasuring
• Feb 23 – Conducted Art of Penis Pleasuring

MARCH

• March 1 – Conducted Soul Gazing workshop at Mind Body Spirit festival in Bangkok, Thailand
• March 2 – Conducted Sex & Sexuality 101 workshop in Bangkok, Thailand
• March 7 – 11 – 7 workshops in Brisbane
• March 14 – 17 – 4 workshops at Taste of Love, Gold Coast
• Mar 23 – Hosted Red Tent online for the first time
• Mar 23 – Launched Patreon page
• Mar 24 – Launched freebie An Intimate Practice: 5 Ways to Connect Deeply with Your Partner
• Mar 24 – Created coronavirus initiatives Victory Days and Free Coronavirus Emotional Support Singapore on Facebook. Media coverage here.
• Mar 29 – Quoted in Here’s How To Make Your Relationship Last If You Want To Go The Distance on Elite Daily
• Mar 31 – First piece Sex in the time of Coronavirus for Horny.sg

APRIL

• April 1 – 30 – Facilitated month-long Laugh Yourself Free on Facebook
• April 4 – Presented Less Fighting, More Loving with Goodtimes Ticketing. Available here.
• April 11 – Launched freebie Epic 69 Home Activities for Couples
• April 11 – Launched freebie Self-care Handout
• April 17 – Attained Certified Belief Clearing Practitioner status with Global Sciences Foundation
• April 18 – Facilitated free freeform dance online for first time
• April 18 – Interview on About Last Night: Asian attitudes differ towards Sex in The Sydney Morning Herald
• April 19 – Interview with Men Folio for the first time
• April 21 – Attained Certified Law of Attraction Practitioner status with Global Sciences Foundation
• April 21 – Presented 7 Cheap (or Free) Marketing Strategies for Hive Bangkok
• April 22 – Hosted free Laughter Yoga online for 4th time since coronavirus
• April 22 – Hosted Red Tent online for second time
• April 24 – Facilitated free freeform dance online for second time
• April 28 – Facilitated Laughter Yoga for Hive Bangkok
• April 29 – FB Live interview on Rise with Carol Gockel
• April 29 – Attended Sexual Assault First Response online, Sexual Assault Care Centre, Aware Singapore

MAY

• May 1 – 31 – Facilitated online learning Celebrating Pleasure alongside Dr Peter Howie
• May 2 – Presented Sexuality Counseling for Sexually Inhibited People at Women of Sex Tech (WoST) Virtual conference. A summary of the conference is here.
• May 3 – Finished online course Thriving in Trying Times, Coursera (no cert given)
• May 5 – Quoted in article Going green between the sheets on ABC News
• May 5 – Released pay-what-you-can Love Colouring Book
• May 5 – Audio interview with Offbeat Perspectives released
• May 9 – Finished online course The Art & Science of Relationships, Coursera (no cert given)
• May 14 – Inaugural Yahoo Singapore podcast On the Mic: Sex in a time of Coronavirus released
• May 14 – Interview How Changing the Way You Masturbate Can Change Your Life with August McLaughlin of Girl Boner reshared with transcript for Masturbation Month
• May 15 – Podcast interview “Your Life Force Energy & Positive Sexuality” with Valeria Teles from Fit for Joy released
• May 15 – Presented Sex, Love and Cancer for Breast Cancer survivors (session 1 of 4)
• May 19 – Facilitated free Laughter Yoga for co-working space Livit Hub in Bali via Zoom
• May 20 – FB live interview “Journey to becoming a powerful woman” with Gaia Morrissette here
• May 20 – 23 – 3rd Virtual Healing My Sisters Summit. Theme “Finding Meaning and Purpose in the Midst of the Storm”
• May 22 – Facilitated Red Tent for third time on Zoom
• May 23 – Sexpert in Ask Us Anything panel of Femhealth Tech virtual conference
• May 23 – Finished Autism Spectrum Disorder on Coursera (no cert given)
• May 24 – Presented Orgasmic Healing at Merkava Ascension Dimension
• May 26 – Facilitated Ho’oponopono on Zoom
• May 27 – Facilitated free EFT/ Tapping explanation and demonstration on Zoom
• May 28 – Facilitated Energy Management for Wellness on Zoom
• May 29 – Presented Sex, Love and Cancer for Breast Cancer survivors (session 2 of 4)

JUNE

• June 1 – Listed as 33 of 60 #herworldherstory women in Her World Singapore 60th Anniversary Issue
• June 2 – Facilitated Emotional Releasing with the Banging on Pillows for virtual One World Tantra Festival
• June 2 – Finished Positive Psychology: Resilience Skills by Coursera (no cert given)
• June 5 – Finished Cultural Somatics Free 5 Session Ecourse
• June 6 – Facilitated Laughing and Crying Our Hearts Open for virtual One World Tantra Festival
• June 11 – Presented Art of Unserious Sex as part of Erotic Living Festival
• June 12 – Finished Understanding Cancer Metastasis on Coursera (no cert given)
• June 12 –  Presented Sex, Love and Cancer for Breast Cancer survivors (session 3 of 4)
• June 18 – Finished Leading the Life You Want on Coursera (no cert given)
• June 22 – Facilitated Red Tent for 4th time on Zoom
• June 22 – Finished Disability Awareness and Support on Coursera (no cert given)
• June 24 – 1st episode of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories. 1st guest is Luke Elijah Lim on his coming out story. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• June 25 – Podcast interview with SPH Radio
• June 26 – Presented Sex, Love and Cancer for Breast Cancer survivors (session 4 of 4)
• June 28 – Participated as panelist on Conversations: Male Sexual Health virtually by Pratisandhi

JULY

• July 1 – Finished Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health on Coursera (no cert given)
• July 2 – 2nd episode of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Felicia Tan on her miscarriages. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• July 3 – Conducted virtual Enabling Sex Education for Intellectually Disabled Youngsters for Disabled People’s Association (DPA)
• July 9 – 3rd episode of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Sangeeta Pillar on her podcast and mission to support South Asians on sex education. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• July 11 – Presented Releasing our Blocks to Pleasure at The Pursuit of Pleasure virtual festival
• July 14 – Start of the 12 weeks Professional Certificate in Working with Vaginismus training through Institute of Somatic Sexology (Am the facilitator/ trainer)
• July 16 – Interview with 女人 Secret Club – NRSC on Sugar & Spice festival by Christine Looi
• July 16 – 4th episode of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Energy Healer & Priestess Sumeria Varin Gill. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• July 17 – Finished The Strategy of Content Marketing on Coursera (no cert given)
• July 18 – Panelist on Let’s Talk about Sex for Real, Student Health Forum organised by Asian Medical Students’ Association (AMSA) of the International Medical University (IMU) of Malaysia (AMSA IMU). Recording here.
• July 23 – 5th episode of Bare all where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Influencer Janice Leong of Janiqueel. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• July 30 – 6th episode of Bare all where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Change Maker and Confidence Coach Carol Gockel
• July 30 – Conducted virtual Enabling Sex Education for Intellectually Disabled Youngsters for Disabled People’s Association (DPA)

AUGUST

• Aug 1 – 15 – Pioneered and organised first sexuality virtual festival Sugar and Spice with 39 sessions, 35 presenters over 2 weeks with 260 people in the FB group www.sugarandspice.asia
• Aug 6 – 7th episode of of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Dr. Martha Tara Lee
• Aug 9 – Interview by Project Wyat released
• Aug 13 – 8th episode of of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Wellness Renewal Coach Natalie Nancy Tan. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• Aug 20 – 9th episode of of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Mindfulness Coach Burcin Gezer. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• Aug 27 – 10th episode of of Bare All where we interview individuals on their personal stories: Kelvin Lim, Boudoir photographer. My co-host is Carol Gockel.
• Aug 26 – Video feature answering commonly asked sex questions on Cleo Singapore Instagram
• Aug 30 – Interviewed in podcast Just So We’re Clear on Feet Fetish
• Aug 30 – Finished Police Brutality in America Teach-Out on Coursera (no cert given)

SEPTEMBER

• Sept 5 – Interview by Yahoo Taiwan via Skype
• Sept 11 – Received new testimonial from client who overcame Vaginismus through purchasing Sex Possible
• Sept 12 – 13 – Conducted Effective Counseling Skills module towards Graduate Diploma in Social Psychology and Counselling and Graduate Diploma in Psychotherapy and Counseling offered by Aventis Singapore
• Sept 15 – Conducted Sexual Development in Teens/ Young Adults with Special Needs for Special Teens Sports Ministry of Breakthrough Academy, Malaysia via Zoom
• Sept 16 – Explained internal talk on sex counseling/ coaching/ therapy with Singapore Cancer Society
• Sept 24 – Conducted sexuality education session for Walnut Warriors of Singapore Cancer Society via Zoom
• Sept 28 – Exam week of 12 weeks Professional Certificate in Working with Vaginismus training through Institute of Somatic Sexology (Am the facilitator/ trainer)

OCTOBER

• Oct 1 – Finished marking 47 essays submitted towards Effective Counseling Skills module towards Graduate Diploma in Social Psychology and Counselling and Graduate Diploma in Psychotherapy and Counseling offered by Aventis Singapore
• Oct 4 – Quoted in Banishing locker room talk and dehumanising remarks in Straits Times
• Oct 15 – 19 – Founded and organised 1st LoveAbilities, a sexuality and disability virtual festival www.loveabilities.org. The festival saw 675 registrants, 1050 live attendees with 50 presenters, 29 sessions over 5 days on Zoom.
• Oct 20 – Started virtual workshops The Art & Science of Pompoir for 8 persons over 4 weeks (4 Tuesdays)
• Oct 20 – New client testimonial came in (Overcame Vaginismus)
• Oct 23 – Conducted part 1 of 2 of Sex Ed for MINDS MYG volunteers
• Oct 25 – Appeared in podcast Just So We’re Clear on Masturbation
• Oct 31 – Conducted part 2 of 2 of Sex Ed for MINDS MYG volunteers

NOVEMBER

• Nov 4 – Launched my new online program Sex & Sexuality 101 which has 8 videos and 2 PDFs
• Nov 8 – Presented the topic “Men who have sex with men (MSM) and related diseases” at two-day “Advances in Andrology and Sexual Medicine – An Update” by Hanoi Medicial University via Zoom
• Nov 17 – 24 – Organised and hosted 2nd sexuality virtual festival Sugar and Spice with 43 presenters and 23 sessions over 8 days www.sugarandspice.asia. It saw 275 registrants, with 325 live attendees, averaging 14 attendees per session.
• Nov 20 – Became Resident Sexologist of PinkLifestyle.com
• Nov 24 – Presented Sexual Aids/ Toys as part of 2nd Sugar and Spice.
• Nov 25 – Presented workshop “Pity Party” at virtual sexuality festival One World Tantra Festival. I was invited to present for a second time.
• Nov 27 – Presented workshop “Orgasmic Yoga” at virtual sexuality festival One World Tantra Festival. I was invited to present for a second time.
• Nov 28 – Presented workshop “The Pleasure of Play” at virtual sexuality festival The Pursuit of Pleasure. I was invited to present for a second time.

DECEMBER

• Dec 4 – Interview on sexuality on Instagram Live with IUIGA
• Dec 12 – 13 – Founded and organised two-year virtual year-end retreat www.Rebuild.Live with 8 presenters. Facilitated the Romance/ Sexuality section
• Dec 14 – Attended Digital Blueprint online training by Soulrichwoman
• Dec 15 – Presented one-hour “Synchronistic Sex Magic & Sensuality” as part of one-day telesummit Synchronistic Wealth
• Dec 31 – Quoted in SCMP article: Orgasm for one, please: wide ‘masturbation gap’ between men and women in Southeast Asia revealed by surveys