This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later.

Day/ Date    What

JANUARY

• Jan 13 – Presentation “Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment” for Singapore Cancer Society, Singapore

FEBRUARY

• Feb – Ran workshops Manifest Your Love; The Art of Fellatio; Clean & Clear.
• Feb 22 -Spoke at the 137th Association of Professional Trainers Singapore (APTS) Networking & Training Workshop this Thursday evening. Title of my presentation: #Sex #SexEd and #MeToo. More here.
  

MARCH

• Mar – Ran workshops The Art of Vulva Pleasuring; The Art of Penis Pleasuring; and Sensorium.
• Mar 3 – Presented Sexual Awareness Workshop @ Darul Ihsan
• Mar 4 – Released Make Love Week recordings
• Mar 8 – Presented to East Coast Mums Support Group as part of International Women’s Day

APRIL

• April 5 – Facilitated Menopause Support Group
• April 15 – Conducted 1st Heal Your Mother (or Father) Wound
• April 19 – Facilitated 1st Navigating Tinder and Beyond discussion group (use of dating apps)
• April 21 – Conducted 1st Energy Orgasm workshop
• April 26 – Hosted Beer, Meat and Sex informal networking event

MAY

• May – Ran OYoga for MMonth campaign with three colleagues – Myola Woods, Jallen Rix, and Victoria Leigh Reuveni
• May 17 – Conducted first Urban Zen, a Mindfulness practice session

JUNE

• June 5 – Facilitated the first The Art of Deep Listening
• June 11 – Presentation “Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment” for Tan Tock Seng Hospital, Singapore
• June 30 – Spoke at BCF Empowerment and Education Programme, Breast Cancer Foundation

JULY

• July 3 – Became an approved AASECT sexuality educator supervisor
• July 4 – Appointed to supervise students as an AASECT sexuality educator supervisor at Sex Coach University
• July 14 – Spoke about “Sexual health and function for women with pelvic floor disorders” at Urofair Nursing Symposium, Grand Hyatt Singapore
• July 17 – Facilitated The Art of Deep Listening
• July 21 – Panelist alongside Urologist Dr George Lee and Comedian Dr. Jason Leong moderated by Bernice Chan. H4ardness Matters, Subang, Malaysia
• July 28 – Speaker “Sexual Health and Counseling” at 2018 edition of the Certificate Course on Practical Andrology, The Society for Men’s Health Singapore, Academy for Men’s Health, The Malaysian Society of Andrology and The Study of the Aging Male (MSASAM), Kuala Lumpur
• July 26 – 29 – Speaker at Malaysian International Scientific Congress of Obstetrics and Gynaecology (MISCOG 2018) organised by Obstetrical and Gynaecological Society of Malaysia (OGSM)
• July – Aug 8 – One of 20 recognised sex experts interviewed in the New Rules of Sex Summit hosted by Dr. Lauren Brim

AUGUST

• Aug 1 – One of five panelists on Sex, Gender & Tech” hosted by SheSays Singapore
• Aug 3 – 4 – Ran workshops The Art of Vulva Pleasuring; The Art of Penis Pleasuring
• Aug 14 – Participated in one-year Love Revolution Love Giveaway (50 leading coaches invited)
• Aug 14 – Facilitated The Art of Deep Listening
• Aug 17 – Began interviewing models after photography sessions by Kelvin Lim towards {Un}Inhibited – Asian vulva photo book
• Aug 26 – Ran workshop Manifest Your Love
• Aug 30 – Unveiled new portrait photo by Kelvin Lim of www.kelvinlim.com.sg

SEPTEMBER

• Sept 1 – Ran workshop Clean & Clear, and co-facilitated first “Held: An Exploration with Bedsheets”
• Sept 6 – Ran workshop The Art of Fellatio
• Sept 14 – Answered discussion on Vaginismus on Twitter for Sex CoachU
• Sept 17 – Joined Women Speakers Association as a Premium Member
• Sept 18 – Facilitated The Art of Deep Listening
• Sept 21 – Facilitated Monthly Tantric Practice Circle
• Sept 22 – Launched Kickstarter Project for {Un}Inhibited: Asian Vulva Photo Book
• Sept 26 – Oct 5 – One of 20 Sexperts featured in Alchemy of Sex Telesummit hosted by Yin Wellness
• Sept 26 and 27 – Conducted first two For Women: Embracing Your Pleasure in partnership with Horny.sg and Womanizer

OCTOBER

• Oct 2 – Ran first “Energy Management for Highly Sensitive People”
• Oct 5 – “Sex is not a mental illness” at Global Summit for Mental Health Advocates (Theme – Unite for Mental Health) organised by Silver Ribbon Singapore, Singapore
• Oct 18 – 19 – Ran workshops The Art of Vulva Pleasuring; The Art of Penis Pleasuring

NOVEMBER

• Nov 16 – Ran workshop The Art of Fellatio
• Nov 18 – “Sex after 50 – the resurrection” at Malaysian Menopause Society’s annual event to commemorate World Menopause Day, Sunway Lagoon Resort Hotel, Bandar Sunway, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
• Nov 23 – Facilitated Monthly Tantra Practice Circle

DECEMBER

• Dec 8 – Facilitated a tantra workshop for 12 ladies at The Brass Barre
• Dec 13 – 16 – Presented at Wonderfruit 2018
• Dec 21 – Ran one-hour Festive Fellatio at The Merry Lion

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.