I have a weekly online radio show called Eros Evolution on OMTimes Radio.
It is every Tuesday 9 – 10a.m. Singapore time. If you are unsure of your time zone, you can check here.
Eros Evolution is a podcast/ show that explores how sexuality and spirituality meets. This show is hosted on the OMTimes platform.
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June 28: Episode 22: Body Love, Diversity, and Inclusiveness Is it possible to love your body when it is different from others? What happens when you have a health condition like PCOS or birthmark that is not typical of the definition of beauty. In this episode, host Dr Martha Tara Lee invites Malaysia Rozaella Mahjrin and Singaporean Plus-size Beauty Queen to explore body love, diversity and inclusiveness in the face of health conditions. How have they stood in the time of bullying, judgment, discrimination? What kind of world are we advocating for? And how can each of us make a difference? All this and more on Eros Evolution! Fiona’s weight increased after chicken pox at 8 and was haunted by negative comments. Undaunted by criticism, she worked towards body positivity and won the International title of Miss Top of The World Plus Size 2016. She shares her struggles with PCOS(Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome), affecting her moods, hormones, weight and sexually. Now as a Beauty Queen, Fiona empowers women by coaching through Beauty, Wellness and Confidence. She is an online entrepreneur and makeover stylist; Primarily focused on Beauty/Wellness as well as converting spendings into earnings for her customers and followers. She is a Beauty Trainer and National Director for Beauty Pageants too. Fiona is empathetic, friendly and down to earth. Website: bit.ly/fionach8 Facebook: www.facebook.com/princesz.fi Instagram: www.instagram.com/miss.fi.t Rozella Mahjhrin is the founder of TrueComplexion and an advocate for diversity, inclusion and mental health. Once a young girl who was insecure and bullied because of her birthmark, she has made it her mission to provide a safe space for teens and adults to overcome their limiting beliefs and insecurities, harness their strengths and uniqueness, and own their authentic power. She was awarded the 2022 Global Women in Leadership Award and the 2019 Women of the Future Southeast Asia Award. She was also selected for the 2019 Obama Foundation Leaders: Asia-Pacific Program and 2019 Eisenhower Fellowship Global Program, and was one of the faces of IT Cosmetics’ regional and global beauty campaign for two consecutive years. Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rozellamarie/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rozellamarie/ Facebook: http://facebook.com/truecomplexion | |
June 21: Episode 21: Grief Kicks in When your Body is Failing You There are more than 40 types of tangible and intangible losses. Losing body control is a type of grief.
Vernessa Chuah has always wanted to be a mother. Her journey in losing three angel babies has transformed her grief energy into supporting others whose babies are gone too soon. Vernessa is the first pregnancy and infant loss coach in Southeast Asia and a certified advanced grief recovery specialist. Featured in Channel News Asia (2021) and Sassy Mama (2021) Her story was published in the book “Rise-Up” (2020) and others’ encouraging stories to shine light and resilience, interviewed by Mum’s Space (2021) and The Finder (2020, 2021). A cholesteatoma infection attacked her right ear in 2016; she removed her hearing bones and was permanently 100% right-ear-deaf. She finally had a baby girl in 2018, yet received another shocking news that the same infection was attacking her face in 2019; she almost lost her facial nerves and the possible ability to smile and have clear speech with her child. Vernessa is no stranger to the different types of grief. Some may find the sadness in grief intense and uneasy. Yet, she finds comfort in supporting others to release and move forward through coaching, support group, mindfulness, art, somatic and journaling practice. She is also the Founder of Mindful Space, the first physical platform that curates holistic and fun-play-based activities for parents and children. | |
June 14: Episode 20: Managing Intersections: BDSM Authority Transfer Based Relationships and Non-Monogamy Being in an authority transfer based relationship (BDSM based power exchange) can be complex enough. Add non-monogamy into the mix and maintaining healthy joyful relationships can seem so difficult. We will talk about what this intersection looks like, skills to make these relationships more likely to be successful and what it is like to live full time at the intersection of two alternative lifestyles. Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a psychologist, sex & intimacy coach, accredited advanced GSRD (gender, sex and relationship diversity) therapist who has been working with people for over 33 years, helping them create and maintain amazing relationships containing sizzling sex (and without the shame). She is the resident psychologist (aka Dr Lori) on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, Firecracker Films, Channel 4 UK, the host of the long running podcast, The A to Z of Sex®, and author of a number of books from self-help to erotic memoir to erotica. She identifies as a queer polyamorous leather woman and lives in a full time authority transfer based relationship with her husband, as well as having a number of other committed intimate relationships. Twitter: https://twitter.com/drbisbey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbisbey/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LoriBisbey Websites: https://drloribethbisbey.com Promo/giveaway: I have a two new services: One is a 2 hour laser breakthrough session to help get unstuck with one issue. The code EROS will get a 25% discount. https://drloribethbisbey.com/private-coaching/ | |
June 7: Episode 19: Sex Coaching ~ The New Pathway for Sexual Healing A discussion of:
Dr. Patti Britton has led 55 SAR programs and most recently is the author of the only SAR training manual (Routledge Press, 2017). Britton is a nationally board-certified Clinical Sexologist and world renowned as the “Mother of Sex Coaching”. She’s a former grad school academic, the author of hundreds of articles, book chapters, forewords, and five major books in sexology; a popular speaker to consumers, and a seasoned professional trainer for her peers. Dr. Patti has hosted over 40 DVD programs on sexual enhancement and is a popular contributor to the media. Dr. Patti speaks worldwide about sexual wellness– in person, on virtual expert summits, at conferences, and through her live global retreats. Dr. Patti has a private practice in the Los Angeles area and online via zoom worldwide. Dr. Patti is the Co-Founder of Sex Coach U, the world’s premier training and credentialing organization for sex coaches. Dr. Patti believes that women and men have a divine birthright to experience their full erotic and sexual potential. Website: drpattibritton. Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrPattiBritton Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrPattiBritton YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/sexcoachu Giveaway: Free ebook on female sexual pleasure | |
May 31: Episode 18: Love, Sex, and Hip Hop When she first entered the music scene, she was an Asian woman in a Western country. Against the odds, Singapore-born, Canada-bred Masia One made a name for herself in Hollywood. Her work has evolved from breaking Asian stereotypes to empowering women, particularly in the realm of sexuality. On International Women’s Day March 8 this year, Masia One released “Vulva Vocabulary”, a body positive message to #BreaktheBias. April 27, 2022 as part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, Masia One joins forces with Indonesian-German artist Tóke to release “Not All That Glitters”, a release following a 2019 tour in Australia where the headlining artiste allegedly sexually assaulted a member of Masia’s team. Masia One hopes to break the silence of stigmas through her music, and build a culture of consent for creative industries and beyond. This episode will discuss Masia One’s recent marriage, health scare, hip hop, and more! Stay tuned! Masia One is that 1 in a million. Born in Singapore, raised in Canada, she earned her stripes in the American music industry; this artist is reconnecting with her roots in Asia and re-emerging as the Far East Empress. Masia One is not only an artist, but also an entrepreneur and cultural ambassador. Her music cuts through the drone of life, inspiring people to reign as their royal selves. Her journey has been an unlikely path of becoming a full-time Hip Hop artist after graduating in Architecture at University of Toronto. Her unique sound and courageous journey paved the way for her work with top artists and eminent producers such as Pharrell, John Frusciante of the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Che Vicious (G.O.O.D. Music, Kanye West, Jay-Z). Her music has also been featured on Netflix series like Tiny Pretty Things, Snowpiercer, Wu Assassins, Altered Carbon and sampled for the title track for Fast & Furious 8. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masiaone/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/masiaone Youtube: youtube.com/masiaone Soundcloud: soundcloud.com/ Website: www.masiaone.com | |
May 24: Episode 17: Female Sexuality without Shame Host of Eros Evolution Dr Martha Tara Lee comes together with her friend and spiritual guide Janet Chui on the false ideas shown and taught to us about sexuality, relationships and gender roles as women. This includes taboos around divorce and dating. How did we move past our past? How did we evolve? All this and more on Eros Evolution! Janet is the creator behind the Self-Love Oracle, a 44-card deck and book set for healing and self-empowerment featuring her writing and art. After her experiences with motherhood, divorce, Tibetan Buddhism, healing, and the supernatural, Janet pushes others to heal through radical self-acceptance and creative expression. She worked for The Eros Guide while living in the US, and now has started exploring the polyamory and kink scene in Singapore. She holds a B.A. in Journalism, is studying Counseling Psychology, and currently freelances in publishing, art, and teaching. Website: https://www.janetchui.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janet.chui.art/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janetchuiart | |
May 17: Episode 16: Pelvic Health Solutions for Sensitive Health Issues In this episode we discuss common pelvic health issues and how they can be managed conservatively. Pelvic pain can coincide with bowel and bladder issues as well as difficulty tolerating medical exams and intercourse. Incontinence can be associated with issues ranging from low back pain to difficulty with intimacy as well. We will discuss how to manage all of these issues and why there is no need to feel shame with them. Dr. Amanda Olson earned her Bachelor of Science degree from Pacific University, and a Doctorate Degree in Physical Therapy from Regis University, graduating as a member of the Jesuit National Honor Society. She is holds a Certification of Achievement in pelvic floor physical therapy (CAPP-PF) from the American Physical Therapy Association, and the Pelvic Floor Practitioner Certification (PRPC) through the Herman and Wallace Pelvic Institute. She is also a certified Stott Pilates instructor and RRCA certified running coach. She is the president and chief clinical officer of Intimate Rose where she develops pelvic health products and education. She is passionate about empowering women and men with pelvic health issues including pelvic pain, incontinence, pregnancy, and postpartum issues. Dr. Olson teaches internationally on various pelvic health topics including pelvic floor dysfunction in runners. She has written newspaper and magazine articles on pelvic floor dysfunction, and running and also authored the book Restoring the Pelvic Floor For Women. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimaterose/ Twitter: | |
May 10: Episode 15: What Predicts Sexual Satisfaction? Dr. Tara discusses her 5,000-participant research on significant predictors of sexual satisfaction. Interestingly, one of the most important factors is sexual confidence. Tune in to find out where your sexual confidence comes from and how you can cultivate it through sexual wellbeing activities. Dr. Tara is a sexual communication expert. She’s a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton, an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach at luvbites.co, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast that focuses on sexual wellness. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant from Thailand to a confident Sexpert. Her goal is to normalize sex talks and help people live a more passionate life and feel more sexually fulfilled through confidence and communication coaching. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ | |
May 3: Episode 14: Is Work Life Balance a Myth? What does work life balance mean to you? Is it important? Before you give up on your work/career to balance dreams, having clarity of what work life balance encompasses in totality is important. How do you transition and strike a healthy balance between your working life and your personal life. The balance is more nuanced than that, and it also varies among different people. Join Life Transition Coach Lynette and I as we explore why the need is more important than ever. Especially given the unpredictable, often under pressure workplace environment and the added blurring of lines between work and personal time with many of us working from home now, more than before. How do we adapt to the new normal whilst maintaining sanity to the dream life we want to build. Lynette Har is a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation and Training Consultant with international experience. On a mission to Aspire One To Live Out Life To The Fullest. Lynette the Life Transition Coach and Strategist will collaborate with you in an empowering journey to create stalwart transitions across your professional and personal life, whilst holding space for what matters of the heart. Introduced to mindfulness in 2015, it changed her life as she realises everyone has a choice, we just need to realise and be aware of where we are in this choice. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ Website: https://www.coachlynette.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachlynettehar/ | |
Apr 26: Episode 13: Make Asian Love Not Porn Martha talks to Cindy Gallop, the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn – ‘Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference’ – about her Asian background, her mission to change the world through sex, the challenges she’s face, and why she feels it’s so crucial that the whole of Asia should #MakeAsianLoveNotPorn. Cindy Gallop is half Chinese, grew up in Brunei, and has spent 37 years working in brandbuilding, marketing and advertising. She’s the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, launched at TED 2009 – ‘Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference’. In 2013 she turned MakeLoveNotPorn into the world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex videosharing platform, socializing and normalizing sex in order to make it easier to talk about, to promote consent, communication, good sexual values and good sexual behavior. MakeLoveNotPorn’s mission is to end rape culture by spearheading the Social Sex Revolution. Cindy speaks at conferences globally, coaches and consults, describing her approach as ‘I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business.’ Follow her on Twitter @cindygallop What people are saying, read more. | |
Apr 19: Episode 12: Lady, I will touch you with my mind As Hollywood rom-com has it, writing love poetry to your beloved is an aphrodisiac. Err no. Not in Felix Cheong’s experience. The award-winning writer of 22 books has penned dozens of love poems to friends and wives (yes, plural). A few poems were even featured in Love Poetry (2004), a telemovie starring Janice Koh and Keegan Kang. But none of them has managed to woo and win a woman. In this chat, Felix will take a stab at Hollywood stereotypes about writers. He will also open up about how his afternoon trips to a strip club in Brisbane had raised his writing (only the writing, nothing else) to a new height. Felix Cheong is the author of 22 books across different genres, from poetry to graphic novels, from short stories to non-fiction. His latest book is a young adult graphic novel, Eve and the Lost Ghost Family. Recipient of the Young Artist Award in 2000, Felix has been invited to writers festivals all over the world, from Edinburgh to Sydney. He holds a masters in Creative Writing and is currently an adjunct university lecturer. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/felixcheongauthor Twitter: @cheong_felix | |
Apr 12: Episode 11: Mother’s Day: The Heart of Mothers In this episode, host Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee invites her two friends Confidence Coach Carol Gockel and Entrepreneur Felicia Tan to share about their motherhood journey. What is it like being modern day moms? What are some of the challenges and how do they cope? How do they navigate their romantic and sexual relationship? All this and more on Eros Evolution! Carol Gockel is a Confidence Coach and Change Maker. She helps women unleash their inner goddess through her coaching blueprint. She is an NLP practitioner with The American Board of Neuro-linguistic Programming as well as a certified Style Coach with Style Coaching Institute, London. She was recognised as one of 100 Faces of International Iconic Influencers by Aesthetics International in India, Singapore and London in 2019. Carol was the only Singaporean to be chosen to co-author the book – Break Through, with World’s #1 motivational speaker, Les Brown. Website: www.carolgockel.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carolgockel Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolgockel Felicia Tan started a blog with the intention of sharing her baby journey way back in 2007. However, along the way, she had miscarriaged twice, lost 3 angel baby boys (2nd pregnancy being a twin) and gone on to publish 3 books – To Baby With Love, Lost And Found, A Gift From Heaven, with the latest book about her newborn. Also, on this journey, She found a new faith, accepted Christ, and God showed me that He has a way for her! So now She had her rainbow baby named Titus Low conceived naturally after 10 years of marriage! https://linktr.ee/feliciadesigner Blog: www.feliciajourney.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/designerfelicia | |
Apr 5: Episode 10: 5 Ways to be an Epic Lover In this episode, Eros Evolution host, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Lee will share her top five tips to be a better lover regardless of your gender identity and sexual orientation! They include: 1) where you touch; 2) how you touch; 3) how you build up sexual pleasure; 4) sexual communication; and 5) mirroring! Born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She has a doctorate in human sexuality, masters in counselling and two other degrees. In practice for 12 years, Dr. Lee is also the appointed Resident Sexologist for sexual wellness boutique PinkLifestyle.com and Clinical Sexologist of Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Download freebie here https://www.eroscoaching.com/reclaiming-your-sexuality/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drmarthalee Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching Linkedinhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/leemartha/ | |
Mar 29: Episode 9: Man Myths: Understanding Male Sexuality Martha and Cam discuss some of the most common myths about male sexuality, from the belief that men are always in the mood for sex to the assumption that if a man doesn’t have an erection it means he isn’t turned on. Martha and Cam explore how our thinking about masculinity and sexuality can be expanded and how we can challenge harmful stereotypes about men. Cam will also share some tips for men to broaden their experiences of masturbation, sex, and pleasure. Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame. Website: www.cam-fraser.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/thecamfraser Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/thecamfraser Facebook: www.facebook.com/thecamfraser Twitter: www.twitter.com/thecamfraser | |
Mar 22: Episode 8: Negotiating Gender Identity: A Trans Masc Perspective In this episode, we will explore what it means to embody a pre-transition trans masculine gender identity in Singapore. From being on the receiving end of daily micro-aggressions to obvious contempt along the spectrum of discrimination. From navigating gender dysphoria to the euphoria of “passing”. From navigating sexual intimacy to the feeling of inadequacy in relationships of not being a “real man”. We discuss all these and more from the lens of someone who identifies as trans masc, but has yet to embark on the journey to transition. Jamie Nonis is an accomplished journalist published in Singapore’s top-tier luxury, lifestyle and business publications including Channel NewsAsia Luxury, Vogue Singapore, Tatler Singapore and The Edge Singapore over 20 years. As the only trans masculine presenting journalist in their media niche and a double minority in their field, Jamie is passionate about using their voice and platforms to spotlight LGBTQ+ conversations to help elevate the community while engaging more mainstream audiences through their two podcast series, The Jamie Nonis Show and SPEQ:TRUM, which was created as a safe space for LGBTQIA+ voices, stories and dialogue. Website: Facebook: www.facebook.com/jamienonis Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-nonis-82a0308/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-it_IK1V_dAo3o8m-ISk_g | |
Mar 14: Episode 7: Sex Therapy with Chronic Illness and Disability Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee and Licensed Social Worker and Sex Therapist Dr Lee Philip come together to discuss how individuals and couples can juggle the needs with being ill and disabled. We will discuss how individuals and couples cope with the inadequacy and shame due to illness and disability and how they can reclaim their sexuality. Dr. Lee Phillips is in private practice in New York City and McLean, Virginia where he specializes in chronic illness and sexual dysfunction. He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Washington, DC, Maryland, Virginia, and New York. He is a Certified Sex Therapist (CST) by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). Dr. Phillips has been in private practice for more than a decade treating a diverse group of patients searching for relief from the complications resulting from debilitating, and often overlooked, combination of illnesses. Website: www.drleephillips.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/drleephillips/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/drleephillips | |
Mar 8: Episode 6: Being Male and All Things Masculine In this episode, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee explores with her two conscious friends Lionel Koh and Balan Wolfy about being male and all things masculine. Both are parents and have a parent going through cancer. What does it mean to be a modern day heterosexual male? How do they do sex ed for their kids? How is it like also being a caregiver to their parents? How do they navigate all the challenges of life? All this and more on Eros Evolution! Lionel is a man on a mission to help people live authentic and empowered lives with purpose, power and passion. He has spoken to, trained and helped thousands of individuals internationally to come to realise the true power within themselves. His company, Maven Communications Pte Ltd, which he founded with his wife Lisa, runs workshops, talks as well as provide mind clearing and coaching sessions. Through his work, Lionel has touched many lives in the areas of: Clearing One’s Past, Communication Mastery, Death & Dying, Depression, Men’s Work, Life Purpose, Personal Boundaries Personal Power & Clarity, Relationship & Relating, Sexuality & Romance, Spiritual Problems, Stuck Life Conditions and Transitioning in Work & Life. Website: www.mavencomms.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lionelkohjk https://www.facebook.com/MavenCommunications/ Balan Gopal describes himself as a curious person who is passionate about people and nature. He believes in moving beyond the confinement of standards, towards exploring opportunities and possibilities in areas of growth and development that bring awareness and clarity into our emotional-mental-physical-nutritional and rest states. He believes that this internal states are interrelated micro climates that flow from one state to the other within us, and to understand the relationship model enables us to live enriching lives. Website: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/herbinacupsg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/balansg/ | |
Mar 1: Episode 5: International Women’s Day. Have we achieved Gender Equality? International Women’s Day is 8 March. This year the IWD 2022 campaign theme is #BreakTheBias. Does bias, stereotypes and discrimination still exist? Aren’t wealready more diverse, equitable and inclusive? What does it mean as Asian women? And its link with our sexuality? In this episode, host/ sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee speak with her sex educator colleague Justine Ang Fonte based in New York, and Melanie, co-host of the Balut Kiki podcast to explore all this and more. Justine Ang Fonte, a sex educator based in New York City and Your Friendly Ghostwriter on Instagram. Instagram: Melanie (She/Her): The only rose among the thorns and one of the co – host of The Balut Kiki Project Podcast, which was recently awarded “Best Podcast Hosts of 2021” by the Asia Podcast Festival 2021. The podcast aims to normalize difficult conversations around depression, mental health issues, gender identity, human sexuality, and everything in between. She is an ordinary Filipina, finding her way through the world, battling depression and anxiety with the help of her psychiatrist and therapist. She and her co-hosts share their stories and stories of countless others to let everyone know that they are not alone and they don’t have to be alone in their journey. Social Media links: Website: www.balutkiki.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/thebalutkikiproject Instagram: www.instagram.com/thebalutkikiproject Twitter: www.twitter.com/balutkikiproj | |
Feb 22: Episode 4: Let’s Talk about Body Neutrality This one is all about bodies & how to find peace with yours. In this episode, Dr Martha sits down with Mary Victor (thebodywithin) and discuss about body love and the community in Singapore. We also talk about how to heal from body hating and how to build a safer space with your body. Mary Victor is a Makeup artist and the founder of #thebodywithin (@thebodywithinofficial) a body neutrality movement in Singapore. She started her makeup career at the age of 16 learning makeup and 9 years later she now helps aspiring makeup artists by coaching them on how to run a makeup business in Singapore. She started thebodywithin to help women find a community they feel like they belong to . Body image can be such a heavy subject to many so having a space to express that can help many women heal and feel better about themselves. Instagram: @maryvictorofficial | |
Feb 15: Episode 3: What’s Love Got to Do With It? Join us Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee and guest Valentina Tudose, Transformational Relationship Coach and Clinical Hypnotherapist as we will talk about relationship fundamentals, intimacy skills, and deconstructing the romantic ideas of sex, lust and love. What are the major barriers people encounter when it comes to experiencing more desire, connection, and intimacy? We explore the wide range of limited beliefs and stories we tell ourselves that create unrealistic expectations and assumptions and so on. Valentina Tudose is a Transformational Relationship Coach and Clinical Hypnotherapist, passionate about educating and empowering her clients to communicate effectively, learn more about themselves and how to create positive, deeply meaningful relationships with others. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealqueenmaker/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/valentina.tudose.9 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valentina-tudose-26568a3/ | |
Feb 8: Episode 2: Being Polyamorous while Asian What is polyamory? Is this just a fad or trend? What should we know about it and how do people who are poly navigate this lifestyle? In this episode, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee and Michelle Hy who runs PolyamourswhileAsia.com will discuss all this and more. Michelle Hy is from Portland, Oregon and seeks to destigmatize non-monogamy and amplify the voices of other POC, who are significantly underrepresented in non-monogamous communities. She works to educate from an intersectional lens, offers peer support sessions, and touches on topics related to body confidence, sex positivity, and more. Instagram: @polyamorouswhileasian Website: polyamorouswhileasian.com | |
Feb 1 – Episode 1: Eros Evolution is Back! After a 5-year hiatus, Eros Evolution is back! What happened to Dr. Martha Tara Lee? How has she evolved? What has she been up to? Older, wiser, and maybe a bit smarter? What can you expect in Eros Evolution moving forward? Join us for all these and more! A born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She has a doctorate in human sexuality, masters in counselling and two other degrees. In practice for 12 years, Dr. Lee is also the appointed Resident Sexologist for sexual wellness boutique PinkLifestyle.com and Clinical Sexologist of Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eroscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leemartha Website: www.ErosCoaching.com |
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Dec 28 – Episode 154: Reclaim Your Sexuality Despite Childhood Abuse with Rachel Grant In this episode with Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach, Rachel Grant, we will explore how abuse impacts one’s ability to create intimate relationships and reclaim our sexuality. We will discuss some key strategies that makes it possible for one to have deeply fulfilling and connected relationships. Listen here. Rachel Grant is the owner and founder of Rachel Grant Coaching and is a Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach and hold an M.A. in Counseling Psychology. She is also the author of Beyond Surviving: The Final Stage in Recovery from Sexual Abuse. She works with survivors of childhood sexual abuse who are beyond sick and tired of feeling broken, unfixable, and burdened by the past. She helps them let go of the pain of abuse and finally feel normal. Her program, Beyond Surviving, has been specifically designed to change the way we think about and heal from abuse. Based on her educational training, study of neuroscience, and lessons learned from her own journey, she has successfully used this program since 2007 to help her clients break free from the past and move on with their lives. | |
Dec 21 – Episode 153: How to be Sex Positive with Emily Prior Emily Prior will discuss the 8 dimensions of positive sexuality and how these can help us address issues around sexuality and so much more. Listen here. Emily E. Prior is the Executive Director for the Center for Positive Sexuality and a Social Scientist. her research focuses on the intersections of identity, deviance, and feminism. Emily has studied human sexuality and gender topics from a variety of perspectives, including Psychology, Sociology, and Anthropology and won the Vern Bullough Award for research. Her work with the Center allows her to incorporate her love of educating and research within a positive sexuality framework. Emily. E. Prior, MA | |
Dec 14 – Episode 152: Moving From Shame to Courage with Dr. Shameless Dr. Shameless helps guide people – regardless of age, gender, identity, experience and anything else – on a journey from sexual shame to courage in order to be your most authentic sexual self. Her approach has people examine the origins of shame, deconstruct the validity of shameful self-talk, identify the harm shame causes, and create a new paradigm embracing the bold, genuine and healthier attitudes living beneath the surface. Dr. Shameless has a passion around joy, personal growth and pleasure for pleasure’s sake. Listen here. Dr. Shameless is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor practicing in Las Vegas, Nevada. She is a clinical sexologist and holds the degree of Doctor of Human Sexuality. When a friend described her approach to life as “unapologetic,” it sparked an introspective examination of what that meant and why others DIDN’T live that way. She is a product of coming of age in the early 1980s in the US when HIV and AIDS made their way into the popular vernacular, virginity was at a premium, and girls were required to function as sexual behaviour gatekeepers. She strives to embolden people to enjoy the gifts of sexuality and pass them on to future generations. You can learn more about Dr. Shameless by liking her page on Facebook, subscribing to her email list, and following her on Twitter. Her offerings include downloadable worksheets and information, individual coaching, therapy, and workshops. | |
Dec 7 – Episode 151: 101 to Your Sex Bucket List with Dr. Martha Tara Lee Have you heard of the sex bucket list? Would you like to create your own sex bucket list? Why should you even bother? In this episode, Clinical Sexologist and Relationship Coach Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching shares everything you can possibly need to know to get started – the what, why and how of creating your Sex Bucket List. She talks about thinking about your needs, wants, and desires, as well as clears up some misconceptions around sex. Don’t let your year go by without creating yours! Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. www.ErosCoaching.com/profile | |
Nov 20 – Episode 150: The Spirit of Sex with Sexologist Dr. Stephen de Wit Dr. de Wit dives deep in sharing his personal and professional connection to the Spirit of Sex exploring the strong ties to identity and connection to ones partner(s). Listen and learn how you can develop a deeper understanding of self and sharing that authentically through your sexual connection and expression. Listen here.Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Board Certified Sexologist through the American College of Sexologists. He holds a Master of Public Health in Human Sexuality and a Doctorate of Human Sexuality. Toronto’s Hassle Free Clinic is where Stephen started as a sexual health counselor and now travels both nationally and internationally speaking about sexual empowerment. As a sexuality educator, coach and consultant he is committed that people live a sexually empowered life free from guilt, shame and fear and have relationships that work. Stephen is regularly featured in national newspapers and television shows providing relevant, thought provoking sex education and information. Dr. de Wit has recently authored the book “The Sexual Freedom System: Winning the Inner Game of Sex”. He is a master at creating a fun, safe, comfortable environment for people to take an honest look at their sex lives and transform what is not working.website – drdewit.comtwitter – @drdewitFB – Stephen de Wit – Sexologist | |
Nov 23 – Episode 149: Sex, Spirit and Creation with Adele Lim OMTimes welcomes Adele Lim, to discuss her books, Live your Whole Capacity and Love with Passion and Perspective, and share her take on Sex, Spirit and Creation. Adele’s wish is to create awareness of sexuality as a portal of creation, and of the Hague Abduction Convention 1980 for its potential misuse during high conflict separation or divorce in international families. In her books, Adele generously shares her personal and professional experiences and knowledge in the area of sexuality, spirituality and family love, for individuals to develop their own inner sense of guidance from a deeper place of knowing, and to create their desired future with greater intentionality. Listen here. Malaysian born, UK-based, Adele Lim describes herself as a “catalyst”. With a background in finance and human resources, specialising in personal and organisation development, she works with individuals and multinational companies experiencing periods of massive change, in order for everyone to thrive, and to co-create and journey into the desired future together. Author of two books, Live Your Whole Capacity: How to tap into and grow unknown potential in your life” and “Love With Passion and Perspective: Pearls from a cross-border divorce and the Hague Convention”, Adele is the Founder and Lead Catalyst at Whole Capacity, a global web of catalysts working with individuals and organisations to facilitate movement and innovation in change and growth. With an emphasis on systemic approaches and leading from the core, her work inspires and sustains change on multiple levels. Adele is also the creator of Lovingspace, a project series in support of international families experiencing massive change, and the leader of Passion ShareFest, a platform for women to share their journey towards doing what they are doing and showcase passion products and offers. Adele speaks to us about the process of change, her role as a catalyst and her take on Sex, Spirit and Creation, in her work to create spaces that inspire innovation, joyful growth and freedom. www.wholecapacity.com | |
Nov 16 – Episode 148: Saying YES to Pleasure with Gaia Morrissette Sexual Wellness Coach and BDSM Life Coach Gaia Morrissette will talk about the importance of pleasure being the missing link to happiness, abundance, health and intimacy with yourself and the universe. When we are disconnected from our body and pleasure we become disconnected from true selves and all others in our world. She with help us learn to let go of the fear that stops us from saying yes to pleasure today! Discover how to reconnect with your source of joy in your mind body and soul. Listen here.Gaia S. Morrissette, has dedicated her life to making the world a happier, sexier and safer place for us all. She is a world renowned Sexual Wellness Coach, BDSM Life Coach, Instructor, Author, International Speaker and founder of Succulent Living . Through her Sexual Wellness Coaching Private Practice; she makes sex safe, makes sex better and helps you take it to next level. Her philosophy is that for true Sexual Wellness to happen you must look at these 5 aspects: Play, Sensuality, Sexuality, Exploration and Sacred. Her published book: Stop! Drop! & Wiggle! explores the first aspect which is our foundation of Happiness: PLAY. She is also the founder and Department Head of the Sexual Wellness Coaching Certification Program at The Succulent Living Institute. Her education and training consist of, sexology, trauma recovery, life coaching, tantra training, sex coaching, and lots of practice in the areas of play, healing, and exploring. For more information about Gaia and her professional practice, please visit www.succulentliving.com. | |
Nov 9 – Episode 147: Sexuality and Spirituality – 10th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What has this host for Eros Evolution, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would she suggest for listeners out there? Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Nov 2 – Episode 146: Intuitive Eye Readings: The Window to Your Soul & Soulmates with Laureli Shimayo Martha welcomes Laureli Shimayo to discuss her Intuitive Eye Readings and how they empower living on purpose. Laureli is passionate about people being authentic and sharing their natural genius throughout life, leadership and love. In a reading of someone’s eyes – as seen in person, video or in photos – Laureli reflects their soul and personality as a set of archetypes called ThriveTypes. Laureli will share about her Eye Readings and how they empower people to grow, live their purpose, make great career choices, synergize all their relationships, and attract and choose soulmates. Laureli Shimayo is an Intuitive Eye Reader, Body Psychology Coach, Hiring Consultant and Romantic Matchmaker. Laureli has been reading, coaching, matchmaking and teaching people professionally for over 10 years. She brings a scientific approach to the intuitive and metaphysical arts. She is a co-author of The Sweet Spot: Leveraging Your Talents in Leadership and Life and author of her Conscious Online Dating Guide: Eyes Are the Window to Your Soulmate. Laureli believes that everyone has genius, that these qualities shine through people’s eyes, and that we can all see it in each other. In Laureli’s sessions, she interprets what she sees in someone as their ThriveTypes, a set of archetypes for thriving. Laureli aims to empower people to grow spiritually, recognize and live their purpose, tune their career path, synergize all their relationships, and select the most compatible romantic partners. She also uses ThriveTypes to help organizations hire the best employees and provide everyone with resources for being authentic and collaborating to feel fulfilled and make great contributions. Laureli is at her core a connectress – connecting knowledge into a useful map, people with their purpose and genius, complementary teammates and soulmates to each other, and people into deeper connection. Listen here. www.LaureliShimayo.com | |
Oct 26: Episode 145: Living your sensuous and orgasmic life with Myola Woods Pleasure has a bad name in society, often we believe we have to put off our pleasure, wait for another time or not have it all. Where are you at? How much pleasure are you willing to receive? When we live our lives from the paradigm of pleasure we change from the inside out. As discussed in her upcoming book Myola will share practices to include pleasure in your everyday life and living. Listen here. Myola Woods is an Author, Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex Educator with extensive experience in Education, Bodywork and Energetics. Myola specialises in teaching individuals and couples the art of connection, creating and cultivating the choice of arousal, to deepen intimacy, sensation and pleasure. As a Sexual being, mother of 4 teenagers and pleasure enthusiast, Myola appreciates the time constraints, daily and social pressures, that can play havoc on our erotic lives. Myola teaches ways to explore and enhance your love making in everyday life. Using techniques and practices that can turn you and your life on. | |
Oct 19: Episode 144: Exploring Planet Orgasm with Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. Annie Sprinkle has passionately researched and explored sexuality for over forty years, sharing her experiences through films, books, articles, and photography. She was the first porn star to earn a Ph.D. and has taught hundreds of sex workshops. Sprinkle has collaborated with Beth Stephens for fifteen years. They are internationally acclaimed artists who create sexually oriented visual art, theater, and performance. They are movers and shakers in the new ecosex movement. There’s an eXciting new book by Annie Sprinkle, and it’s all about orgasm! Learn the fascinating history of orgasm research, the new definition of orgasm, and seven keys to a more mind-blowing blast off. Experiment with breath and energy orgasms, orgasmic states, dreamgasms, nipplegasms, crygasms, minigasms, megagasms and moregasms. Discover the difference between an orgasm and a climax, and how to extend your afterglow. Beautifully illustrated by YuDori. Listen here. Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D., has passionately researched and explored sexuality for over forty years, sharing her experiences through films, books, articles, and photography. She was the first porn star to earn a Ph.D. and taught hundreds of sex workshops for all genders. Sprinkle and her collaborator Beth Stephens are internationally acclaimed artists who create sexually oriented visual art, theater, and performance. Together they are pioneering the new “ecosex movement.” theEcosexuals.org, sexecology.org, earthlab.ucsc.edu, goodbyegauleymountain.org, anniesprinkle.org | |
Oct 12: Episode 143: Manifesting your Spirit in Daily Life, with Randy Niederman, Ph.D. This episode will discuss how to increase connection with your Spirit to cultivate happiness and health using techniques drawn from Hinduism and western psychology. The relationship between sexuality and yoga will be address, as well as the role your sexuality plays as a means for connecting with and expressing your Spirit in the world. Randy Niederman, Ph.D., M.S.W., has taught social work at the University of Georgia, Western New Mexico University, and Barry University (FL). His Ph.D. dissertation was a research study entitled, “The Conceptualization of a Model of Spirituality.” His Ph.D. is from the University of Georgia, and his Masters in Social Work is from Florida International University. Dr. Niederman has worked in the capacity of a psychiatric social worker at a psychiatric crisis unit and hospital emergency rooms. He has practiced Eastern disciplines for most of his life. His mother was a Yoga teacher and he has been practicing Yoga since childhood. He has a second degree black belt in Aikido and has been a long time practitioner of Tai Chi, Filipino martial arts, and Kendo. He has also been affiliated with Zen groups in South Florida and New Mexico. Listen here. Facebook page is: Be Your Spirit | |
Oct 5: Episode 142: From Princess to Queen with Dr. Martha Tara Lee, D.H.S. Based on her upcoming book “From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms, and Everything In-Between”, Clinical Sexologist and relationship coach Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares her views on sex and sexuality this episode. As the first sexologist with a doctorate in human sexuality in Singapore, Martha has gone where nobody has. She shares how she survived heartbreaks attained heartgasms and everything in between this journey. This book will document her professional journey as a pioneer sexologist, as well as personal one of reclaiming her femininity, and truly stepping into her power as a woman. More than coming of age book, each chapter has a theme, followed by practical suggestions for readers on how you too can navigate your own lives. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Sept 28 – Episode 141: From Good Christian Girl to Sex Coach, with Lucy Rowett My story from Evangelical Christianity to embracing sex and spirit. I was raised in a church going, god fearing household with negative beliefs about sexuality. After a health break down and having to rebuild my life from the ground up, my healing came from embracing my sexual energy connected to spirit. It’s been a long journey of debunking shame, learning to love my body and coming home to my core sexual essence. If you’re recovering from religious conditioning about sex, you’re not alone. Listen to how I broke through to love my sexuality and transform my relationships. Listen here. Lucy Rowett is an eclectic soul who believes passionately in living a life that makes you juicy. She is a sex positive coach, writer and Tarot reader working specifically with women. She also sells pleasure products to women who want to finally feel pleasure in their bodies. She believes sex, spirit and transformation are the keys to be your most shining self. Her sex positive dream would be a world where radical acceptance of all orientations, desires and gender identities would be universal. She also dreams of seeing women be sexually empowered to audaciously claim their bodies. Lucy loves writing, latin dancing, learning new languages and finding herself in new airports. She specializes in social media for sexuality professionals to get their message out into the world. When not dancing or travelling, she is usually found curled up with a cup of tea and a good book. Website: www.juiceandjasmine.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JuiceandJasmine/ Twitter: @juiceandjasmine Instagram: @juiceandjasmine | |
Sept 21 – Episode 140: Give us this day our Daily Pleasure with Jenni Joy Martha Lee welcomes Jenni Joy to discuss the extraordinary impact of cultivating pleasure rituals in daily life. She will explain how it impacts your Orgasmic Vitality and zest for life and simple ways in which we can all start to implement these practices, whether we are single or in a relationship. She will explain the importance of relaxation not only as a foundation stone for greater pleasure, but as the space from which our deepest desires and our strongest creative urges emerge. Jenni Joy is a leadership, life, and intimacy coach, blending clinical sexology with the energetic arts of tantra, sacred femininity and transformation alongside leading edge tools in the field of personal development. She is a board member of ASIS (Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists), and co-teaches and runs The Art of Tantra Massage Professional Training with John Hawken and The Paths of Transformation, as well as her own events. She has created a modern lifestyle sex education brand with Katrine Berling called Juizie, which brings together the very best of accessible sensual sexual education. She teaches modern tantric technologies to entrepreneurial communities and leadership groups, and is currently creating a revolutionary new program in this field called Serenity in Leadership. Listen here. www.jennijoy.co.uk | |
Sept 14 – Episode 139: Discover Desire through Orgasmic Meditation with Tony – OM Practitioner Tony discusses the real power source to access everyone’s desire through a regular OM practice. He is passionate about getting people in touch with their desire in all facets of their lives whether that be a sexual, emotional, or spiritual connection with yourself and with other people. about the masculine honoring and being of service to the feminine for the better. Tony first OMed in Sydney, Australia on 5 September 2015 after attending an “Intro to OM” day. Being extremely nervous, pessimistic and skeptical about attending this event, he kept an open mind to all sensations and possibilities. He saw it through and is a strong believer in the practice to now be an OM practitioner who lives with desire and is comfortable in his masculine being of service to the feminine. OM is a sacred and conscious practice to him. Every OM is unique, different and powers his growth sexually, spiritually and emotionally. | |
Sept 7 – Episode 138: The Sacred Shadow with Seani Love Seani Love, professional male escort specialising in what he calls “Conscious Kink” will be joining Martha in the Studio for a conversation about the importance of understanding and integrating our erotic shadows. Listen to it here. I’m Seani Love – a discreet, professional, fun-loving erotic and spiritual adventurer who works with intimacy, erotic ritual, Tantric Sex and all forms of sacred sensuality. I use a combination of Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Kink, counselling and erotic ritual to create custom journeys into touch, sensuality and embodiment that allows my clients live more fully in your own bodies as a whole, integrated, sexually-empowered beings. I feel very honoured to have won the title of Sex Worker of the Year at the 2015 Sexual Freedom Awards. | |
Aug 31 – Episode 137: Why my husband won’t have sex with me with Dr. Dawn Michael Dr. Dawn Michael talks about a very taboo topic in her book My husband won’t have sex with me, as to this silent growing epidemic. Society dictates that a man should always want to have sex with his wife and when he does not, instead of looking at the whole picture the woman is often the one that gets blamed. Dr. Michael takes a very different approach to this problem and explains it in her book giving reasons why this happens and how to fix it. It her second book The Ultimate Intimacy Guide For Passionate People is the follow up work book that was just released. Dawn Michael, B.A. Communications, M.A. (Marriage Family Therapy), Ph.D. (Human Sexuality), Certified Hormone Specialist, Certified Sexuality Counselor of (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) Advisory Board Member and Certified Sexologist of ACS (American College of Sexologists ), Member of SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality )., Co-Owner of The Sexual Heath and Wellness Center with partner Abilio Ramos MD. Dr. Michael is a public speaker and educator providing information on women’s and men’s sexual health issues along with better sex techniques for couples. Promoting healthy, sex positive views is one of Dr. Michael’s passions for working with her clients. Dr. Dawn Michael is an author and has been a featured guest on national television, radio, and magazines as an expert in her field! You can become a part of Dr. Michael growing facebook page Intimacy for passionate people along with updates on her website the happy spouse where you can purchase her two books or visit amazon.com. Listen here. www.thehappyspouse.com | |
Aug 24 – Episode 136: Shining a light on Infidelity and Healing with Renelle E. Nelson Renelle Nelson mission is to shine a light on infidelity by starting the conversation about monogamy. Many couples assume monogamy without discussing what that term means to them and what are their expectations. Renelle is Infidelity Recovery Coach that focuses on the affair by giving the couples who want to reconnect tools and education needed to recommit or individuals who decide to leave the tools to not take the trauma with them and learn to love again. It’s time to end the emotional storm in your head and get the tools and education you need to calm your storm and heal from the trauma of betrayal. Renelle E. Nelson LMFT, CST, Wisconsin’s First African American Certified Sex Therapist. Renelle has an eclectic therapy background ranging from working with seniors to adolescents. After seeing the need to rebuild the foundations of the family unit especially the couple , she opened her private practice Kaleidoscope Services LLC to offer a nonjudgmental, safe , educational and nurturing environment to assist couples and individuals in their relationship in and out the bedroom. She self-proclaimed herself a Masturbation Enthusiast teaching whenever she can on the benefits of self-care and exploration. Her passion is now to educate and enhance the lives of those who suffer with Sexual pain and dysfunction by assisting them with getting their sexual voice back. Renelle saw the devistating effects of infidelity in her personal life and in the community, she became a Certified Infidelity Recovery Coach to assist couples who wanted to recommit to their relationship after an affair by offering them a 7 step program providing the tools and education to assist them in their journey. Listen here. To get more information about Renelle you can visit her website Kaleidoscopeservicesllc.org https://www.facebook.com/infidelityrecovery/ | |
Aug 17 – Episode 135: Sexuality and Spirituality – 9th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What has this host for Eros Evolution, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would she suggest for listeners out there? Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Aug 10 – Episode 134: Healing from Child Sexual Abuse with Brooke Woon BPsych, PGCouns, PGPsych Dr Martha welcomes Brooke Woon to discuss the how the impact of child sexual abuse (CSA) can last long after the abuse has finished. Further conversation will explore practical ways to heal from child sexual abuse, and create a happy fulfilling life. She believes no matter what happens it’s always possible to heal. Brooke Woon is a passionate advocate for victims of child sexual abuse, and an educator on the subject. Brooke has worked as a Psychologist with adult and child victims of child sexual abuse, and male and female perpetrators of child sexual abuse. She is the author of the book ‘I believe you – How to heal from child sexual abuse’, which is written for adult survivors of child sexual abuse, and is also being embraced by practitioners who help these victims. Brooke has worked with people who have lived through trauma, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, phobias, ADHD, social difficulties, addictions, sexuality and intimacy challenges, relationship, family and anger issues, parenting struggles, intellectual impairment and more. Brooke has worked for various mental health programs, community and government agencies, including the Western Australian Police Force, and has had her own practice. Brooke has extensive experience in individual, couple and child counselling. She enjoys public speaking, creating and running workshops, and support groups on a variety of mental health issues and self-help topics. Listen here. https://twitter.com/BrookeWoon https://www.facebook.com/Healing-from-Child-Sexual-Abuse-1516894428546574/ | |
Aug 4 – Episode 133: The Reality of Porn with Dr. Jakob Pastoetter Few topics are more controversial than Porn. This is because Porn stands so much in the intersection not only of so many different points of view what sexuality should be about but also of what constitutes a visual medium and a piece of art in general, what are their messages, and how do they exert influence on our real world experiences and interactions. As with many other things, you can only try to approach from different angles to get an idea of what constitutes the “Reality of Porn” for different people, rather than to decide once and for all what it “really” is. In this show German Sexologist Dr. Jakob Pastoetter will answer these five questions to get a clearer picture: 1) what makes porn porn; 2) tell us about ethical porn; 3) is porn addictive; 4) what are the harmful effects of porn; 5) what are porn perception differences between men and women – preferences/ views/ attitudes; 6) my partner watches a lot of porn. Is this cheating? Listen here. Dr. Jakob Pastoetter started as a very spiritually interested teenager, delved then into cultural anthropology, developed a taste for sexology while doing research at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, wrote his doctoral thesis on Hardcore Pornography and the Constrain to Self-constrain Mechanisms of the Civilizing Process it is entangled in – Question: Why were Sexually Explicit Pictures only developed as an Entertainment Medium in the Postindustrialized Western societies. He got his Ph.D. in Education at Humboldt University, and finally became an ABS certified Clinical Sexologist at the American Academy of Clinical Sexology in 2003, teaching and tutoring there since 15 years while doing research, media work, and sex, couple, and life counseling as President of the German Society for Social Scientific Sexuality Research. He started organizing the prestigious biannual conferences of DGSS. Since 2014 he also provided sexual counseling for bi-national couples in English and German via Skype. His websites are: Right now he is the Editor of a German-English book series “Sexuality Crosswise” with Springer Science and is writing a book on “The Development of German Sex Education”. | |
July 27 – Episode 132: The Inability to Receive: The Story Inside The Story In this episode, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching (after the 20min) shares two personal stories involving her mother to facilitate this discussion on the effects on our inability to receive. She also reflects on the dynamics of mother-daughter or parent-child dynamics that play out. These stories are intended to be used for your own reflection on whether you have difficulties in receiving in your life, and are “killing love”. Perhaps you are in a hurry to get things done, that you take charge, and dismiss, overrule and dominate over others in your life? Listen to these personal stories and reflect so you can claim a life of love and power. Please ignore the first 20mins of the show as we had difficulties patching in our intended guest and had to change the angle of the show. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
July 20 – Episode 131: “You’ve Been Lied to… Women LOVE Sex: Feminine Sexual Ecstasy Secrets” with Jan Robinson, M.A. Jan Robinson will share some of the greatest secrets of feminine sexuality ever known. As a woman, have you ever wondered why sex wasn’t as great or deep or meaningful or exciting that you know in your heart it COULD be? | |
July 13 – Episode 130: Living a Sex Positive Life with Angelique and John C. Luna On this show, we explore all aspects of human sexuality with Angelique and John C Luna. We talk about the good and the bad, the health and healing benefits, the adventures, the relationships as well as the crimes and tragedies. Their mission is to educate, entertain and talk about that touchy topic that affects us all, sex. Listen here. Facebook: Livingasexpositivelife Website: www.livingasexpositivelife.com Spreaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/living-a-sex-positive-life iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/living-a-sex-positive-life/id1197124228?mt=2 Angelique Luna – Angelique Luna is a sex coach, educator, entertainer and sexual abuse advocate. Her mission is making Living A Sex Positive Life a reality for everyone. She is a wife & mother to strong warrior who has overcome the harrowing experience of sex abuse. Angelique Luna is the host of Living A Sex Positive Life podcast with her husband John C Luna where she discusses all aspects and affects of sexual relationships. She is currently enrolled in the inaugural year of Kink Aware Therapist Training Program at the Kink Therapy Certification Institute. Facebook: Angelique Luna Twitter: @MsAngeliqueLuna Instagram: MsAngeliqueLuna John C Luna – In his original career, John was an entrepreneur, author, professional educator and software developer. After 10+ years in the lifestyle, he has started a new chapter of his life educating others on alternative relationships and human sexuality. He lectures and coaches on non-monogamy, bisexuality, safe sexual practices, BDSM and other relationship & kink related topics. Along with his wife, Angelique Luna, he hosts the podcast, Living a Sex Positive Life with a mission to educate, entertain and talk about sex. Facebook: John C Luna Twitter: @JohnCLuna | |
July 6 – Episode 129: Avoiding predators in Tantra: How to stay safe while expanding consciousness, with Lucy Rowett Tantra and conscious sexuality can be insanely transformational, but can be incredibly risky if you don’t have your eyes open. While there are many gifted teachers, there are also many predators. Lucy shares her best advice for avoiding the common pitfalls when starting your Tantric journey, while sharing her experience of reading the Love Tarot. Listen to her practical advice to stay safe and keep a critical mind when going into a workshop. Lucy Rowettis an eclectic soul who believes passionately in living a life that makes you juicy. She is a sex positive coach, writer and Tarot reader working specifically with women. She also sells pleasure products to women who want to finally feel pleasure in their bodies. She believes sex, spirit and transformation are the keys to be your most shining self. Her sex positive dream would be a world where radical acceptance of all orientations, desires and gender identities would be universal. She also dreams of seeing women be sexually empowered to audaciously claim their bodies. Lucy loves writing, latin dancing, learning new languages and finding herself in new airports. She specializes in social media for sexuality professionals to get their message out into the world. When not dancing or travelling, she is usually found curled up with a cup of tea and a good book. Listen here. Website: www.juiceandjasmine.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JuiceandJasmine/ Twitter: @juiceandjasmine Instagram: @juiceandjasmine | |
June 29 – Episode 128: Warrior Woman – A Path Away from Shame Toward Power We are living in extraordinary times. On both the material and spiritual level, there is a sense of things in flux. Our world feels overwhelming right now, doesn’t it? What are we to do, in this climate that is sometimes aggressive, often separated from spirit, with very real risks in play? This transformation calls to all of us. You have a tremendous amount of power and there is much you can do to be physically and spiritually ready for resilience. It sometimes feels like there is something blocking your power though, doesn’t it? Very often, what blocks us is shame, and the value in holding on to shame is to try to assert control over our ability to belong. On the path of the Warrior Woman, then, the fight has to be in us and for us first before it can be for the world. The Warrior Woman belongs to herself first, and so releases shame and reclaims her power. A warrior is strong, brave, courageous, and powerful. She risks losing things, burning bridges. A warrior risks getting hurt. But, she takes those risks because what she’s fighting against precludes the healthy existence of what she’s fighting for. Do you value yourself enough to take those risks on your own behalf? The fight is for YOU – for yourself, for your right to the best life for you, for space to flourish and for the peace and pleasure that you deserve. Sarah Martin is a Warrior Woman, a Certified Sex Coach, and a badass. Today, she calls Warsaw, Poland home. She’s travelled to over 35 countries as a woman alone, and has studied 10 languages (so far). Relentless travel has been a defining feature of her life. As well as operating a private clinical practice, Sarah works at the Sex Positive Institute in Warsaw, Poland, presenting workshops and trainings. Sarah’s favourite things in life relate to Erotic Fitness, including Playfighting, Orgasmic Running, and Pole Dance. She is utterly fascinated by the connection between fitness, nutrition, and vibrant sexual energy. Her first book, Orgasmic Running: A Feminine Practice for Pleasurable Wellbeing, is available on Amazon. Additionally, Sarah Martin is the Executive Director of the World Association of Sex Coaches, the certifying body and professional association for sex coaches worldwide. At the Association, sex coaches and sexologists unite and support each other, creating a significant, cumulative impact on the world. Her vision is that a world free of sexual shame will be a more peaceful, more loving, and more connected world. Listen here. Website: www.sexcoachsarah.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexcoachsarah Twitter: @SexCoachSarah Email: sarah@goodsexlifestyle.com | |
June 22 – Episode 127: – Thriving in Sex Work with author Lola Davina Martha welcomes longtime veteran of the sex industry, Lola Davina, to discuss Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry, her new self-help book for sex workers. Sex work is difficult emotional labor. Her new book offers support and self-care advice on managing the inevitable conflicting emotions that arise in this challenging work. Lola Davina has spent more than 25 years in and around the sex industry, working as a stripper, dominatrix, porn actress, and escort over a fifteen-year period. She has earned an M.A. in Human Sexuality and an M.S. in Nonprofit Fundraising, and writes a self-care and wellness column for YNOTcam.com, a support website for cam models. Listen here. Website: LolaDavina.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/Lola_Davina Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100010208507672 | |
June 15 – Episode 126: Navigating Consent with Kitty Stryker, author of “Ask: Building Consent Culture” Martha invites Kitty Stryker onto the show to discuss what consent culture is, why it’s important, and how it can challenge rape culture. Kitty has been a consent activist for over 6 years, working with alternative communities to combat abuse and create sustainable accountability practices. Martha and Kitty will explore the ways in which alternative sexualities embrace constructs of consent, and the ways in which they are still learning. Kitty Stryker is a Degenderette, writer, queer activist, and authority on developing a consent culture in alternative communities. She was the founder of ConsentCulture.com, a website that ran for 4 years as a hub for LGBT/kinky/poly folks looking for a sex critical approach to relationships and which will be relaunched on 2017. Kitty also cofounded the artsy sexy party Kinky Salon London, as well as creating the award winning Ladies High Tea and Pornography Society, the SF based kink party Whippersnappers, and acts as head of cosplay for queer gaming convention GaymerX. Having finished “Ask: Building Consent Culture”, an anthology through Thorntree Press coming out in October, Kitty tours internationally speaking at universities and conferences about feminism, sex work, body positivity, queer politics, and more. She lives in Oakland, California with her wife, boyfriend, and two cats, Foucault and Nietzsche. kittystryker.com https://twitter.com/kittystryker https://www.facebook.com/officiallykittystryker/ Listen to the show here. | |
June 6 – Episode 125: Integral Tantra and Shamanism Looking at ways various wisdom traditions from around the world meet can give us insights into human condition of both Waking Up and Growing Up. James will be presenting various maps that can help us gain understanding about the circumstances of our life as well as guide us to what next steps might be in reclaiming our life-force energy and bringing it towards it’s full potential. James Stevenson’s passion is to help call forth our human potential and our soul. His weave brings together 20 years experience in techniques, practices and information from the cutting edge of Neuroscience, Tantra, Biodanza, Shamanic & Energy Work, Integral theory and Taoist practices to create a spirituality that is rooted in the body. His evolutionary approach is to work on all lines, levels, states and parts of ourselves in bringing forth our fullest potential. His work in meditation and tantra work draws on many different traditions and paths he has studied from Kashmir Shaivism, Baul mysticism, Advaita Vedanta, Vajrayana Buddhism, Integral systems and Neo-tantra. He was very much influenced in the early days by the enlightened master Osho and enjoyed spending time in Pune and the Humaniversity. His shamanic work includes being Vision Quest rites of passage guide, holding Sweatlodge Ceremonies as well as Sacred Cacao Rituals. He has been dancing Biodanza since 2003 and now works as a teacher and a didactic teacher (qualified to teach other teachers in Biodanza Schools). He also leads ecstatic dance sessions, and ran the popular Awaken conscious night club in Edinburgh for many years. As a festival organizer he is involved in 6 International Tantra festivals in both Bali,India, Holland, Portugal, California and East Coast America as well as Dance and Biodanza festivals in both Ibiza and Delhi. He was also a Regional Organizer ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts, and remains an active faculty member. www.awakenaslove.com & https://www.facebook.com/JamesStevensonTantra/. Listen here. | |
June 1 – Episode 124: Animated Sex: The Spirituality of Eros with Dr Jakob Pastoetter Although there was never in the history of mankind more visual sex and general information about sex readily available, many people suffer from low libido and general disinterest in sex. Sexologists usually try to cure this with even more information and concentration on sex, and for many people that might be helpful because they have no words of their own to articulate their sexual needs and desires. But there are those others for whom this doesn’t work because they suffer from a kind of sex poisoning. This can only be cured by going back to the roots which aren’t anatomical, technical, or visual but primordial, archaic, and spiritual. Sex as “just sex” quickly becomes empty and shallow if the connection to Eros gets cut. Eros is not just the chubby little angel with bow and arrow but is the primordial god of procreation who emerged self-formed at the dawn of creation. Eros was the driving force behind the generation of new life in the cosmos. With Dr. Martha Lee, Dr. Jakob Pastoetter will discuss his importance for cultivating polarity, nourishing creativity, and developing spiritual connectivity with life to discover our full sexual potential. Excursions will lead to Astrology, Sex Magick, Qigong, Tantra and the Jungian concepts of Animus and Anima. Listen here. Dr. Jakob Pastoetter started as a very spiritually interested teenager, delved then into cultural anthropology, developed a taste for sexology while doing research at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, wrote his doctoral thesis on Hardcore Pornography and the Constrain to Self-constrain Mechanisms of the Civilizing Process it is entangled in – Question: Why were Sexually Explicit Pictures only developed as an Entertainment Medium in the Postindustrialized Western societies. He got his Ph.D. in Education at Humboldt University, and finally became an ABS certified Clinical Sexologist at the American Academy of Clinical Sexology in 2003, teaching and tutoring there since 15 years while doing research, media work, and sex, couple, and life counseling as President of the German Society for Social Scientific Sexuality Research. He started organizing the prestigious biannual conferences of DGSS. Since 2014 he also provided sexual counseling for bi-national couples in English and German via Skype. His websites are www.sexologie.org Right now he is the Editor of a German-English book series “Sexuality Crosswise” with Springer Science and is writing a book on “The Development of German Sex Education”. | |
May 25 – Episode 123: Make More Love Today with Dr. Martha Tara Lee For the second time, Make Love Week ran May 14 – 21 as part of the celebrations for Masturbation Month in May. How does one keep love, intimacy and sex alive in relationships? Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching gives you a snapshot of how you can do so, based on the 8 videos she released as part of Make Love Week. In the last 15mins of the show, Martha shares the developments of GLBT (Gay, Lebsian, Bisexual, Transgender) movement in Asia , specifically Taiwan, Indonesia and Singapore. Listen here. Masturbation Month campaign www.eroscoaching.com/ Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
May 18 – Episode 122: Sex Rituals to Raise Sexual Excitement with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey Rituals are part of every aspect of our lives. Incorporating rituals instead of routines into your sexual life can raise the level of excitement, help you to create a deeper connection with your partner(s) and turn your sex into worship. Routines are usually things we do without thinking so much and this can lead to boredom. Ritual requires 100% attention, being focused on now. Most of the rituals Dr Lori Beth Bisbey incorporates create sacred space and bring the divine into self and lover. The ritual can be a simple as bathing each other before playing together or as complex as setting up a dungeon and enacting a intricate BDSM session. Adding deliberately charged energy to any sexual session intensifies and electrifies. Listen here. Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a Sex & Intimacy Coach, Psychologist, Speaker, Educator and Author. She works with individuals, couples and polyamorous groups to help them find and create their ideal intimate relationships. She works with all genders and sexual orientations. Dr Lori Beth has a specialty in healing sexual trauma and helping people move beyond survivor and back into full sexual life. She is kink knowledgeable, sees sexual energy as divine energy and some forms of kink as the easiest way to raise large quantities of energy. To follow her adventures, sign up for her newsletter, or catch her podcasts: The A to Z of Sex and Sex Spoken Here on iTunes. | |
May 11 – Episode 121: Sex Addiction is not a Diagnosis with Dr Roger Libby There is no proven support for either sex addiction or hypersexuality. These are phony concepts which are used in sex negative ways. This does not mean some people are not out of balance or OCD (Obsessive–compulsive disorder). CBT (Cognitive behavioral therapy) is the most effective way to deal with imbalances. Sex addiction clinics overcharge for a condition that does not exist. Both the DSM and Aasect have soundly rejected both concepts. Unfortunately AAMFT still supports these harmful concepts. Listen here. | |
May 5 – Episode 120: Love for Long Term Couples with Dawn Beck and Gerald Gatz Are you a Couple who has been together for a while? What’s a while? For most couples, chemistry begins fading after the first year. After that, couples can sink into patterns of repetition, feelings of not being attracted to or by their partner, assuming rather than asking or communicating, feeling blasé about sex, and lackluster and hopeless about making any changes. Through Tantra and Sacred Sexuality, you can learn tools and practices to either reignite or ignite your relationship for the first time. Creating Alchemy! Learning ways to: Communicate with each other. Sharing and Listening from and with ALL of your senses. Create Intimacy through eye gazing, breath, sound, intention, Tantric positions. Connect Heart and Sexual Centers (Chakras). Juice up your relationship with sexy talk. Discover each other’s arousal speeds and erogenous zones (there more than you think). Be curious to explore, experiment, and engage with each other’s needs and desires. Heal and release any stuck or blocked energy that can hold you back from deep Love! And more…… Listen here. | |
April 27 – Episode 119: When Procreation and Recreation Collide: Couples and Intimacy during Infertility Treatment As people wait longer to marry and start families, the incidence of infertility has risen. But, even young couples sometimes struggle with infertility. There are sexual problems that cause infertility, including vaginismus and delayed ejaculation. Infertility can also create sexual difficulties, especially low desire. There are also emotional problems, such as sadness and defeat, that can make it difficult for couples to relate to each other. In this program, Dr. Stephanie Buehler will talk about the relationship and sexual difficulties related to infertility. Listen here. | |
April 20 – Episode 118: Sexuality and Spirituality – 8th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What has this host for Eros Evolution, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would she suggest for listeners out there? Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
April 13 – Episode 117: Her Hidden Health Secrets with Dr. Christine Horner, M.D., and author, “Radiant Health, Ageless Beauty” Natural health expert and award-winning author, Dr. Christine Horner says diseases like breast cancer, depression or a HPV diagnosis can carry a lot of stigma, which causes women to want to hide their diagnosis. But she says being secretive and in the dark about your health status will only hurt you in the end because the stress of not knowing what to do and having no support, will only cause the condition to escalate. Dr. Horner will share four disease conditions that modern medicine provides few answers to and the natural medicine game-changers that can help reverse the diagnosis for lupus, HPV, depression and breast cancer. Listen here. | |
April 6 – Episode 116: Self-care and it’s importance to your sex drought It is easy to feel overwhelmed by life. We have a never-ending stream of work deadlines, social obligations, and household responsibilities. In this episode, Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching shares how she came to learn about the importance of self-care, and encouraged you to establish your own self-care routine. She differentiates between self-care and self-love and encouraged you to give to yourself before to others. Martha goes into how to get out of the sex drought or rut, and talks about how opposites attract (morning/ night person; introvert/ extrovert; touch/ non-touch) and makes a case for establishing a sex routine with your partner. She highlights the difference between spontaneous vs responsive desire response. Do ignore the first 15mins as we experienced difficulties patching our intended guest in. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Mar 30 – Episode 115: Touch Me in Ways that Matter Martha welcomes Bianca Briggs to discuss her own experiences as a dementia practitioner and the importance of touch in supporting not only the person living with dementia, but their supportive partners and loved ones as well. Dementia is a degenerative brain disease that causes memory loss, with many of us thinking that if a person has dementia, they are not aware of life experiences, especially in the later stages of the disease. In this show, Bianca will share with Martha ideas around how to value the person with dementia and support the person who is caring for them in ways that really make a difference. Listen here. | |
Mar 23 – Episode 114: Hack your sex life with Sex Hacker Kenneth Play Kenneth Play’s private PlayLabs, which are hands-on sex coaching intensives, have recently received a lot of media attention around the world. He’s helped couples with everything from squirting to kink to communication. In this show, Kenneth will share why he thinks play-by-play sex coaching is the most effective way to help couples experience new pleasure, overcome challenges, and master new techniques. Listen here. | |
Mar 16 – Episode 113: Clean and Clear: Emotional Freedom Through Releasing Do you feel negative and heavy about life? Set off by little things? Do you want to be able to forgive someone in your life but not know how? Do you wish to have balance restored and room for love to flow back into your heart? There is no need to be in stuckness, worried, afraid of what tomorrow will bring and if you’d break down. There are many techniques to be a clean and clear emotionally so that love and balance can be restored. These powerful practices can restore your heart, mind, and soul. Listen and find out what they are. Also, join my free 30-days Clean and Clear campaign on Facebook where free videos, interviews and resources will be released. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Mar 9 – Episode 112: Unusual Urinary Tract Infections – UTI Surprise Health statistics estimate that nearly 50 percent of women will develop a UTI at some point in their lifetime, with | |
Mar 2 – Episode 111: Sacred Lovers: Feeling Into Deeper Connection with Matt Schwenteck and Robyn Dalzen Matt and Robyn are lovers and are passionate about sharing what they live and teach to create deep connection in relationship. They work with individuals and couples to help them identify what they want, communicate clear agreements and deepen their intimacy. Their work is based on the Wheel of Consent by Dr Betty Martin, which provides a simple framework for conscious relating. Listen here. | |
Feb 23 – Episode 110: Real Sex Education: What it is and how to do it with Karen Rayne, PhD Dr. Karen Rayne provides sexuality education to people of all ages, writes sex ed curriculum, and trains sexuality educators in the US and around the world. She believes that comprehensive sexuality education is a basic human right because knowing about the body you live in is the first step to personal autonomy. She will discuss how to make this large goal actionable, both in the home and in group environments. Listen here. | |
Feb 16 – Episode 109: Do you want to love your body…but really don’t? Learn the 5 phases of body-love and how to grow a powerful and positive relationship with your body so you can feel good in your own skin! And no, it’s not a diet! Join Nina Manolson, M.A. Health & Psychology of Eating Coach as she unpacks the painful pattern of self-criticism and body-hate and helps you find your way to body-love! Listen here. | |
Feb 9 – Episode 108: The Connection Between Traveling and Lovemaking Couples often travel together – whether traveling for business or pleasure. What they probably don’t realize is that traveling offers unique opportunities for them to experience spiritual transitions in their lives. There is a powerful link between traveling and lovemaking not to mention that a shaman from the Dagara tribe in Africa says that “having sex” is “going on a journey together”. During today’s show, raveling entrepreneurs and co-founders of Authors Talk About It, Drs. Rob + Janelle Alex, Ph.D. will teach you how you and your partner can enhance your sex life, your spiritual life and your travel journey. Listen here. | |
Feb 2 – Episode 107: Sex Coaching and Spirituality In this episode of Eros Evolution, guest hosts Myisha Battle and Sarah Martin will discuss how sex coaching ties in with spirituality, what types of spiritual sexual practices can be explored and the benefits of working with a sex coach. Listen here. | |
Jan 27 – Episode 106: Learn the secrets to getting your pre baby body back for good – with Emma Jory Pre & Post Natal Pilates, Health and Wellebing expert Discussing the importance doing the right exercises after giving birth and how it makes all the difference to flattening your tummy and getting your pre baby body back. Emma is passionate about helping women rediscover their core strength and empowering them to know how to keep it. She will discuss the do’s and don’ts of the pre and post natal period, as well as answer some other burning questions that many of us have relating to staying fit and healthy. Listen to it here. | |
Jan 19: Episode 105: The Tantric Escort – Sex Work that is Profoundly Healing EJ Love shares her experiences working in the sex industry and how she evolved her escort work into a sacred sexual healing practice, tantric rituals and practical sex coaching that is profoundly healing for her clients. She is passionate about sexual healing and how it can awaken and heal us on deep levels. You can read more about the work that she specifically does as a Sacred Sexual Priestess at www.soulpriestess.com. She has recently launched a movement and future book called Naked Woman Rising where women from all over the world are coming together to rise up and own all the parts of them that have been shamed www.nakedwomanrising.com. Listen here. | |
Jan 12 – Episode 104: How Your Iphone Can Actually Help You Boost Intimacy In Your Relationship Have you ever wondered about the impact that technology has on your relationship? Do you often find yourself looking at your screen rather than at your partner? Many couples report that technology interrupts couple time and intimacy, and that they rarely feel they truly get time alone. Today I am talking to Kate Moyle who is one of the Founding Partners of Pillow Play, the app which is trying to tackle this problem by using technology to help couples get creative and playful with intimacy, bringing them together rather than driving them apart. Interview here.
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Jan 5 – Episode 103: Seeding the Sexual Renaissance with Frank Mondeose The Sexual Renaissance is about creating a new script around sex, love and relating. It welcomes the rise of the Sacred Feminine, acknowledges and supports the New Awakening Masculine, and remembers the natural flow of love. Each one of us are here to radiate our song in the world, serving something bigger than our individual story; the collective call to remember the “Sacred”. Join Frank Mondeose for a discussion on the emerging traits of the Sexual Renaissance and how we can choose to harmonize our songs. Listen here. | |
Dec 29 – Episode 102: Sexuality and Spirituality – 7th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Dec 22 – Episode 101: Sexuality Trainings for 2017 As 2016 winds down, what resolutions might you have? Have you ever thought of going for some trainings when it comes to your sexuality? If yes, which ones should you be looking at? Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee talks about the trainings she had attended from: ISTA Level 1, Sexological Bodywork, Urban Tantra, Sex Coach U to Inner Voyage. This show was originally intended as an interview with EJ Love, The Tantra Escort, but due to poor sound quality, we decided to postpone her show to a later date. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Dec 15 – Episode 100: Beaten to Greatness: Turning Adversity into Success Dr. Tangie shares stories of rising above trauma and shame to unveil a magnificent destiny of one’s own design. Often times, we don’t see an end to turmoil and accept misery as a given. But hardship can be a stepping stone of success in even the most traumatic of experiences. Dr. Tangie is passionate about sharing her own story of survival and overcoming adversity to reemerge with more power and growth than we ever anticipated. Listen here. | |
Dec 8 – Replay of episode 89: My Best Sex Stories by Dr. Martha Tara Lee In this episode, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares her very best sex stories in her own radio show. Born and bred in Singapore, Martha experience culture shock when she embarked on her doctorate in human sexuality in San Francisco. She did not expect to explore grieving and reverse culture shock opening up her practice in Singapore. In this no-holds barred show, she shares how her attitudes around oral sex, masturbation, sexuality, spirituality, porn, relationships, aging and disability has shifted over the years. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Dec 1 – Episode 99: Getting to Bliss in Your Life with Laurie Handlers Laurie Handlers, MA, joins Dr. Martha Tara Lee to discuss how people can have more than ordinary sex. They cover how people can use sexual energy to make themselves happy and beyond. They even talk about using sexual energy to fuel their life’s intentions. Listen here. | |
Nov 24 – Episode 98:Revealing the Scarlet Queen: Sex, BDSM, Minions and Roleplay Averral stars in Scarlet Queen BDSM Roleplay YouTube with over two million views, and has released two thriller novels (Red Hourglass and Blue Orca). BDSM is a recurring theme in her creations. She shares how she stumbled upon BDSM and the story behind the Scarlet Queen YouTube Channel. She will invite viewers to roleplay as minions in a femdom (female domination) segment. Listen here. | |
Nov 17 – Episode 97: What Really Matters About Real Estate Martha welcomes Matt Parker, a Real Estate Broker who has studied the interpersonal and emotional affects your real estate has on your life. Our relationships with our real estate have changed and we need to be conscious of what decisions our homes make for us in our relationships with our loved ones, including our significant others. Listen here. | |
Nov 10 – Episode 96: How to start loving your body, even if you don’t like it Nina Manolson will be exploring the most important relationship in our life – the one with ourselves! If you can’t look in the mirror without criticizing yourself, then tune into Nina’s practical, unconventional and compassionate approach to feeling good in your own body! Listen here. | |
Nov 4 – Episode 95: The Ebb and Flow of Female and Male Ejaculation Learn ways to honor Female and Male Ejaculation. We will talk about how Women can learn ways to invite their Divine Nectar (Amrita). How to connect Trust, Orgastic states of being, Orgasm, Pleasure, Goddess Energy, Dreams, Desires, and Manifestations to this Sacred Invitation. How a Beloved, partner/friend, Daka/Dakini, or self can open these Sacred Water Pathways. Dispelling the myths and supporting the beauty. We will also talk about Men’s Ejaculatory Orgasms. Ways for men to have more choice and control…riding the waves of full body Orgasms, and/or increase ability to Ejaculate if that’s a challenge. Dispelling the myths about both Recirculating and Celebrating, bring more consciousness of connecting Dreams, Desires, and Intentions to both choices, and the importance of Balance between the two. Along with how women (or same sex partner) can give a man permission to choose and not take his choice personally. Listen here. | |
Oct 27 – Episode 94: Sex needs Comedy and Comedy needs Sex with Prescott Gaylord Martha welcomes improv comedian and host of “The 4-Play Sex and Comedy Show” Prescott Gaylord to talk about the intersection of humor and sex education. Prescott believes sex education is frequently delivered so seriously that we forget the fun in the pleasure. In this segment, he will discuss why comedians should get sex information correct and why sex educators should immediately enroll in an improv class. Listen here. | |
Oct 20 – Episode 93: Secrets of Female Sexual Arousal with Sheri Winston Inch for inch, pound for pound, women have as much erectile tissue as men. Learn about the parts that not even gynecologists know about, and how they can ramp up your pleasure to amazing new levels of arousal. Join celebrated sexuality teacher Sheri Winston as she integrates ancient wisdom, lost knowledge and modern sexuality information in a sexy, fun show that illuminates every woman’s secret paths to fabulous, orgasmically abundant sex. Listen here. | |
Oct 13 – Episode 92: How to flatten your lower tummy the right way – with Emma Jory Pilates & Health Specialist Discussing the importance of a strong centre and body awareness, Emma is passionate about helping people find and keep their core connection. She will discuss the importance of good posture not only to our looks by flattening our stomach but what how it helps to prevent injury and even stress. Listen here. | |
Oct 6 – Episode 91: Sex Coaching and Why We Need It with Myisha Battle Martha speaks with certified sex coach Myisha Battle about the field of sex coaching, what it is and isn’t and who it’s for. Myisha is a feminist who believes in the power of working directly with individuals and couples to address sexual concerns. She believes sex coaching to be a way for a wide spectrum of people to gain access to nonjudgmental help and support they need to be sexually fulfilled. Listen here. | |
Sept 29 – Episode 90: (Come Hither:) Calling Forth the Gush with Dr. Victoria Reuveni, DHS, CSB, ACSI “Female” ejaculation is all the rage these days. We see examples in adult film portraying squirting as the next frontier of sex. Victoria emphasizes fun, exploration, and anatomy rather than gender and orientation while giving specific techniques to encourage squirting in those with a vulva. All genders are welcome as we explore fact vs. fiction; specific suggestions and toy recommendations, all of which can help this type of play’s success! Listen here.
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Sept 22 – Episode 89: My Best Sex Stories by Dr. Martha Tara Lee. In this episode, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee shares her very best sex stories in her own radio show. Born and bred in Singapore, Martha experience culture shock when she embarked on her doctorate in human sexuality in San Francisco. She did not expect to explore grieving and reverse culture shock opening up her practice in Singapore. In this no-holds barred show, she shares how her attitudes around oral sex, masturbation, sexuality, spirituality, porn, relationships, aging and disability has shifted over the years. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Sept 15 – Episode 88: Sexuality and Spirituality – 6th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen here.
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Sept 8 – Episode 87: Getting In Touch With Yourself with Jon Gosling Martha welcomes Jon Gosling to discuss how we become disconnected from ourselves in modern society. This disconnection usually comes from external sources such as our parents, other close relationships and society in general. Jon has been on journey of self-discovery to learn what he truly wants and will be sharing his experience of his own journey to illustrate what is possible to achieve in anyone’s life. His journey has included overcoming the dark experiences of addiction, anger, avoidance, bereavement, denial, despair, divorce, disconnection from his body, depression, emotional anorexia, loneliness, low self-esteem, sexual repression and dysfunction, shame and touch isolation. Listen here. | |
Sept 1 – Episode 86: How to Worship the Goddess and Keep Your Balls with David Bruce Leonard, L.Ac. Author and Chinese Medicine practitioner David Bruce Leonard will discuss “Rivers of Love”, intimate therapeutic bodywork for lovers and “Shadows of Love”, maintaining emotional integrity in sexual relationships. He will also touch on his concept of “Sacred Yes – Sacred No”, the connections between sacred sexuality, self defense, and the human nervous system. Listen here. | |
Aug 24 – Episode 85 – How to Create a Positively Pleasurable Relationship with Carl Frankel Life is challenging, relationships more so. In this interview, author and sex and relationships expert Carl Frankel discusses how to manage the inevitable conflicts in your relationship and co-create a connection that’s built on a positive attitude and skillful communicating. Listen here. | |
Aug 18 – Episode 84: Love After War: Supporting Disabled Veterans with Dr. Mitchell Tepper Dr. Martha Tara Lee welcomes Dr. Mitchell Tepper to discuss his new documentary, Making Love after Making War: Supporting Intimate Relationships for Injured Veterans and Their Families. Too many soldiers are returning home with catastrophic physical and mental wounds that leave them feeling unable to have intimate relationships. Many wounded warriors and their families haven’t been told that a healthy, satisfying sex life and even having children are possible for them. LoveAfterWar will show case real life examples of disabled veterans reclaiming healthy, fulfilling relationships despite their injuries and will raise awareness of the intimacy issues that disabled veterans face. Listen here. | |
Aug 11 – Episode 83: Raising Sexual Energy with Paul Bagge Throughout history humans have sought to cultivate their sexual energy for a higher purpose. We will discuss how this has been done in the past, and some ways it is done today. We will talk about cultivating sexual energy for the purposes of healing, and then we can segway into what Paul is up to. He is about to start touring the country teaching and certifying practitioners in Sensual Reiki – a new form of Reiki that he developed. It is a modality that begins to tap into our sexual energy to amplify the healing effects of traditional Reiki. Listen here. | |
Aug 4 – Episode 82: Sex as a Sacred Journey from Womb to End of Life with Veronica Monet, ACS As the founder of The Shame Free Zone, Veronica Monet is passionate about healing all shame but especially sexual shame. As a Certified Sexologist she is on a mission to educate adults about their sacred sexual birthright. She will reveal the average age when most human children begin to masturbate and how our relationship with our sexuality changes over time, often in ways which are destructive to our well being. And she will provide clear steps for reclaiming our sacred sexual birthright, our shameless connection to our our sexual natures and the joy and passion which sexual energy infuses in every aspect of our lives. Listen here. | |
July 28 – Episode 81: How to improve all your relationships (and becoming an amazing social human being) Listen here. | |
July 21 – Episode 80: Masculinity and Femininity Explained In our modern-day society where men and women have equal rights and responsibilities in their workplace and relationship, what place is there for masculinity and femininity? Is it even relevant? If so, what does one need to know, and how can one apply the concepts and practices into their lives? Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee tells all in this episode of Eros Evolution. Don’t miss it! Listen here.Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
July 14 – Episode 79: How to Have Synchronicity, Manifestation and Sex Magic In Your Life Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching shares her personal manifestation stories and explains how the Law of Attraction works in her life. She maintains that we should all focus on being at our highest vibration at all times to have the best results in our lives. To change the world, we take responsibility to do what we can with what we have. Note: Show is choppy the first 10 minutes. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
July 7 – Episode 78: Blending your Pallet: Enlivening your Sex Life with Tantra and Kink by Dawn Beck and Gerald Gatz Incorporate both Kink and Tantra to create a container to safely, passionately, and adventurously explore. We’ll take you beyond sexual identities, roles, and into deepening erotic experience. We will dispel the mystery and inspire the confidence so that you can become your own erotic artist. We will encourage you to tap into your sexual psyche to learn where your turn-on’s and edges are and how to manifest your deepest desires. Give yourself permission and tools to fully play and expand your sexual palette. Learn ways to:
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June 30 – Episode 77: The Divinely Empowered Woman with Elise Carr, MA Martha welcomes Elise to explore the connection between the Yoni (female sexual organs), the heart and the mind of a woman. And how when these three parts are in sync; flowing and nourished you can become a Divinely Empowered Woman. Elise is passionate about the power women have within which often needs reawakening to reach its full potential. Elise will discuss practical ways to connect with your yoni, heart and mind to begin your personal journey of Empowerment. More here.
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June 23 – Episode 76: God’s Callgirl and Healing from Abuse God’s Callgirl is the name of Carla van Raay’s memoir that has now sold over half a million copies around the world. It is a colourful story of a Catholic girl born in the Netherlands, who became a nun after migrating to Australia, stayed for 12 years and then left…to become a sex worker at the age of 34. Why did she do this? And what is she doing now? Carla is here today to answer those questions. She will speak about the major wounds are that are created by abuse and how this affects our sexual expression and our relationships. She will speak about what she did to heal herself and how others can learn from her. Along the way, she will treat us to some excerpts from God’s Callgirl, and from her current book, Healing from Abuse. She says: “I am 77, I have been on the healing journey since 1992, and now feel I am in a position to help others who are a few steps behind me.” Her aim is to create a wave of healing around the world, one person at a time. Listen here. | |
June 16 – Episode 75: Missed my own radio show for the second time as I slept through two alarms!
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June 9 – Episode 74: Sexuality and Spirituality – 5th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen here.
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June 2 – Episode 73: Date Yourself with Tamra Mercieca from Getting Naked Are you ready to live happily right NOW? Today’s guest Tamra Mercieca specialises in helping people clear their negative mind-chatter so they can supremely fall in love with themselves. She says when a person loves and accepts themselves unconditionally, they no longer feel ‘less than’, giving them the freedom to pursue their purpose in life. We’ll look at how to overcome the childhood conditioning keeping people stuck in life, how the brain in our heart is more powerful than the brain in our head, and why dating yourself is one of the best remedies for living fully. Listen here.
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May 26 – Episode 72: Heads Up: Beyond the Blowjob with Dr Teesha Morgan An in-depth talk about how to increase your sexual confidence, expand your sexual repertoire, and get the real low down on oral sex with Dr Teesha Morgan, Sex Therapist and Couples Counsellor. This talk will discuss communication strategies surrounding oral sex and different myths and misconceptions about fellatio, as well as tips and techniques that aren’t well known but are sure fire ways to ignite new forms of pleasure for both the giver and receiver. Listen here.
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May 19 – Episode 71: Orgasmic Yoga: Where Masturbation Meet Meditation by Dr. Martha Tara Lee Orgasmic Yoga is an intimate way of stretching our capacity for pleasure. The premise is that an individual engages in solo sex or self-pleasuring for 30 minutes a day (with 30 days recommended as a suitable duration). Besides recommending 30 unique daily practices, this episode will introduce you to seven tools to have a more ecstatic life: pelvic floor exercises, breath, sound, movement, touch, intention and fantasy. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
May 12 – Episode 70: How Can I Love My Partner Back to Save My Marriage? by Nina Potter. Nina reveals ways to be more open hearted both toward ourselves and others in order to improve all of our relationships. We have a 24/7 relationship with ourselves so how we feel and interact with ourselves is reflected in our interactions with others. Add in our inherent need for growth and learning; or our soul’s evolution, and we have a potent formula for creating a new experience of love in our life. Listen here. | |
May 5 – Episode 69: The Science of Sex and Spirit with Caffyn Jesse Canadian Somatic Sex Education Caffyn Jesse claims that “Through the erotic we have a technology of profound joy. Sex is an art and craft through which we can apprehend and share a numinous reality, where we feel at one, at peace, and fully alive. This is not something that only happens in our minds; it is an embodied experience generated by touch, love, and neurochemistry.” In her interview with Martha Lee Caffyn will discuss aspects of her practice as a Somatic Sex Educator. She explains how simple practices and shifts in attitude can help us integrate sex and spirit, and live a commitment to joy in our lives and relationships. More here. | |
April 28 – Episode 68: Conscious Erotic Touch – Creating Connection and Flow for Couples with Yella Cremer Learning how to touch can be so much fun! From her rich background in Tantric massage Yella developed tools for couples how to touch and connect erotically through touch. More here. | |
April 21 – Episode 67: Five Secrets to Pleasure and Connectedness with Dr. Mitchell Tepper Dr. Martha Tara Lee welcomes Dr. Mitchell Tepper, Prophet of Pleasure, as they discuss pleasure, orgasm, trust, safety, connectedness, love, and desire to achieve ultimate satisfaction in your intimate relationships. Insights to the following secrets that emerged from Dr. Tepper’s research on pleasure and orgasm in people with spinal cord injuries will be revealed: Pleasure is not merely a physical sensation; Orgasm happens not just between your legs; Trust, Safety and Connectedness matter more than movement or sensations; Intimate connection fuels desire; Love is an action not a feeling. More here. | |
April 14 – Episode 66: The Ritual of Play with Cleo Dubois Cleo came out into SM play 30 years ago and found community, acceptance and healing in her relationships and erotic exchanges she had those who mentored her. She was blessed to be in the heart of the San Francisco burgeoning leather community with writers like Pat now Patrick Califia, Gayle Rubin and Cynthia Slater, creator of the Society of Janus – SM educational group. As an abuse survivor she found there a path to empowerment and self growth. In the mid to late 80s few women were visible and out o about kink, she was soon asked to teach at Leather conferences and community venues. She befriended gay men into leather – leathermen. When AIDS struck so many of them who survived used their SM and sexual practices as rituals to help deal with their grief. Loving and consensual BDSM became her practice. What she learned she taught and still doing it now that kink and fetishes are more accepted. She’s worked hard to make that happen and that work is not over. Shedding light on the common misconceptions about BDSM – offering a healing path and seeing BDSM as therapeutic but is not therapy. Cleo is passionate about body rituals. Many kink practices fill that need to connect, to be ourselves fully. More here. | |
April 7 – Episode 65: Orgasmic Running with Sarah Martin Dr Martha Tara Lee welcomes Sarah Martin to discuss the practice of Orgasmic Running. Sarah is passionate about finding creative ways to use sexual energy in service of our best possible health and well being. A key ingredient to that is to develop joyful practices full of fun and pleasure! With Dr Martha, she will discuss the potential for Orgasmic Running to radically transform the lives of women by releasing sexual shame and bringing mind and body together in a totally new way. Listen here. | |
Mar 31 – Episode 64: Talking Sex and Disordered Eating with August McLaughlin Martha welcomes August McLaughlin, host and creator of Girl Boner®, to explore disordered eating and its impact on sexuality. August overcame decades of poor body image and a severe eating disorder, which she was diagnosed with while working as an international model. With a back ground in nutritional science and recovery under her belt, August knows the complications of disordered eating and the bedroom, as well as ways to heal. Listen here.
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Mar 24 – Episode 63: Awesome Anal Play with Charlie Glickman Anal play is becoming more popular than ever. If you want to do it right, you need to know what to do and what to | |
Mar 17 – Episode 62: Sexual Empowerment with Dr. Martha Tara Lee What is sexual empowerment? How does one become sexually empowered? Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching, and host of Eros Evolution shares her sexual empowerment journey in this show, explains why it is important to be sexually empowered yourself, as well as gives suggestions of how you too can become more sexual empowered. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Mar 10 – Episode 61: Urban Tantra with Barbara Carrellas Urban Tantra as a modern Tantra practice—inclusive of and appropriate for everyone. We’ll talk about sex, gender, spirituality, the importance of ecstatic experiences, BDSM and why gender and sexual preferences are no longer limited to men and women. Listen here. | |
Mar 3 – Episode 60: Sexuality and Spirituality – 4th Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen here. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Feb 25 – Episode 59 – Sacred Sexuality and Conscious Loving for Singles and Couples. Find out from Dawn Beck and Gerard Gatz how to bring the Sacred of loving into either the relationship that you already have and/or how to invite a Beloved in. We would cover topics of how Tantric practices of breath, sound, touch, chakra awakening, letting go of past trauma and opening to more trust and love can increase passion, sensation, Orgasm, intimacy, and Love. In tantra, there are modalities of communication, touch, full body Orgasms for men and women, Ejaculatory Choice and Control for men, and also Sacred Sexual Healing and Awakening from the Sacred Spot Massage (Internal G-spot massage for women, Internal anal massage for men). Bringing this education into your consciousness can bring more pleasure, intimacy, health, vitality, healing, awakening, and love… and more…. More here. | |
Feb 18 – Episode 58 – Getting the Kinks Out! Erotic Explorations with Eve Minax Eve discusses the importance of recognizing and validating a plethora of sexual desires in order to become a more well rounded person. She feels that BDSM is a great place for personal growth and reclamation of self. Eve also believes that kink/bdsm can be considered more of an exploratory path than an oppositional one to normalized sexual practices. She also discusses her work in terms of (Sexual) Psychic Waste Management, helping people find ways of integrating more connection, play, and intimacy in their lives. Listen here. | |
Feb 11 – Episode 57 – Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex with author Joan Price Sex changes with age, but that doesn’t mean we can’t maintain (or regain) our sexual zest and enjoyment as our bodies age. You’ll want to hear Joan’s useful tips for enhancing your sexual arousal and satisfaction, whether you’re partnered or solo. We’ll talk about lack of desire, sex toys, safer sex, solo sex, erectile difficulties, dating at our age, and much more. Listen here. | |
Feb 4 – Episode 56 – Secret Intelligence of Relationships with Rob and Janelle Alex. Tired of the same old things in your relationship? Ready to break free from the routine of daily life? You can not only spice up your sex life, but you can consciously turn the mundane into interesting experiences. You can discover new things about yourself and your partner. Getting turned on isn’t just about physical excitement. It is about getting turned on mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically. You will laugh more, deepen the bond between the two of you, create lasting memories and, yes, you can create opportunities for fantastic lovemaking. Listen to it here. | |
Jan 28 – Episode 55 – No One Wants Sex: So What Do We Really Want? Through my own sexual journey and through my clinical practice, I have found that, although many complain about not having sex, having less than desirable sex or wanting to have more and better sex, that’s not really what people want. Dr. Tangie will discuss what we all want when it comes to sexual realtionships. Listen here. | |
Jan 21 – Episode 54 – Love the Skin You Are In by Peter Petersen and Monique Darling. How to love every aspect of yourself From your body, to your heart, mind, and spirit. Let Peter and Monique take you on a journey of our best tips, tricks, and insider secrets of living a life well lived. Listen to it here. | |
Jan 14 – Episode 53 – Building Your Sexual Solidarity Team with Dr. Liam ”captain” Snowdon. Frottage, Failure and Liberation. Where do we place our attention in 2016 if we are invested in our collective erotic liberation? How can we play and celebrate failure as a way of decolonizing spiritual, bodies and minds? What can we “rub up against” that will change the world? What is a Sexual Solidarity Team? Who can be on it? How does Sexological Bodywork tie into this exploration for you? How has your gender journey effected your erotic journey? Listen to him here. | |
Jan 7 – Episode 52 – Sacred Pause: Gratitude for 2015 and Planning for 2016 Now that our holiday preparations and merry-making is over, let us remember to take a sacred pause to honor the wisdom of the deep darkness. If you feel positively allergic to rah-rah resolutions and frenetic goal-setting, here’s an antidote. Join me where we take a breath and align with our sacred center. Guided meditation and gentle inquiry into the year that’s passed and what you’re magnetizing in for 2016 – especially when it comes to sex! Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Dec 31 – Episode 51 – How to Stay Passionately Connected with Your Partner for the LONG HAUL! with Relationship & Life Coaches, Luis Santiago and Janie Terrazas, owners of The Love Coaches Most couples find it difficult to keep an open, honest line of communication with their partner especially when it comes to sex. Over time this creates underlying tension and resentment, which directly impacts the intimacy and passion. We believe it’s possible for couples to avoid becoming disconnected emotionally and sexually if they’re willing to make one another feel R.A.D.(respected, appreciated, desired) on a consistent basis. Listen to them here. | |
Dec 24 – Episode 50 – Rising in love with Pyasa Neko Siff. Are you afraid of the very thing that will give you the love connection you really want? The secret to a fulfilling relationship and satisfying sex is one and the same. Intimacy Coach and certified Somatic Sexologist, Pyasa Neko Siff, wants to inspire you to cultivate the keys that will help keep your relationship fresh and growing. Join Dr. Martha Tara Lee in her discussion with Pyasa as they investigate the most common relationship obstacle that stands in the way of long lasting love. Learn how to navigate your love relationships with simple tools and approaches that will enrich your life and lead you on a path toward self-realization. Listen to her here. | |
Dec 17 – Episode 49 – Sexual Empowerment as Sexual Bliss with Ava Durga. Martha chats with Ava Durga about the importance of continuing to learn and explore our sexuality as adults, and ways to expand your knowledge without leaving home. Ava is the founder and director of Creative Sexuality Education Corp., a virtual “school” where independent sexologists and experts can teach classes and workshops online for adults anywhere in the world. Link here. | |
Dec 10 – Episode 48 – Bringing Sex Positivity to Poland by Dr Agata Loewe Agata Loewe is a founder of Sex Positive Institute in Poland, which is an international institution. Her goal is to create a safe space where sex can be learnt and experienced in a safe, consensual, responsible and conscious way. Agata tries to incorporate all kind of sex teachings under one big multidisciplinary umbrella of sexology. Space, where tantra practitioners can meet with BDSM and kink communities or LGBTQIA and polyamorous constellations. We exchange experiences between professionals and enthusiasts of sex who didn’t get the formal sex ed. This initiative is quite unusual for Europe and especially predominantly Christian Catholic Poland. Listen to her here! | |
Dec 3 – Episode 47: Getting the Sex You Want with Charlie Glickman PhD, Sex & Relationship Coach What would it be like if you could have the sex you really, really want? Can you imagine making that happen? Charlie Glickman PhD is an author, a somatic sex educator and a sex & relationship coach, and he wants to help you overcome shame and embarrassment, find new ways to talk with your partner(s), discover how new ways to experience pleasure, and enhance every aspect of your sex life! Listen to him here. | |
Nov 26 – Episode 46: Sexuality and Spirituality – 3rd Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Click here to listen. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Nov 19 – Episode 45: The World of Sexuality Education with Bill Taverner Join us for discussion with Bill Taverner, Executive Director of the Center for Sex Education, which hosts the National Sex Ed Conference held every year in New Jersey, USA in December. Bill will talk about this year’s conference, which features many of the world’s leading experts in sexuality education, addressing a spectrum of sexual topics for all ages. Listen here. | |
Nov 12 – Episode 44: Due to tech difficulties, there was no show this week! 🙁
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Nov 5 – Episode 43: How do we talk about sex? with Laura-Doe Intimate connection through love making can be one of the most pleasurable, fulfilling and sacred experiences in adult life. But due to taboos, shame and discomfort many of us find it hard to speak about our needs, desires and experience. Pleasure & embodiment coach and sexuality educator, Laura-Doe will talk about why it is so important to overcome any challenges and how and when to best talk about sex, both to our children and to our lovers and friends. Listen to her here. | |
Oct 29 – Episode 42: Sex with Timaree: Edu-tainment on the Most Important Topic of All. Dr Timaree brings a rational, sex-positive, intersectional, feminist, body-loving, empirically-based perspective on sexuality and cheerleads for everyone to feel as enthusiastic about the topic as she is. Listen to her here. | |
Oct 22 – Episode 41: Empowering Your Erection with Rebecca Lowrie, The Sexual Alchemist. Rebecca will talk about her new Empowering Your Erection Digital Program that you can do from home. Rebecca has worked with over 2000 men in the last 10 years and has now created a home program to help men with erection issues. Whether you’re experiencing erectile dysfunction or just want to gain confidence with your erection, this program is for you. Rebecca is passionate about helping men explore and expand who they are as sexual beings so they are fully empowered in all areas of their lives. Listen to her here. | |
Oct 15 – Episode 40: Sex as currency: How sex is used for unbalanced power and how we can fix it with DrTanginika Cuascud. Dr. Tangie explains how sex is the most powerful currency, used to gain and wield unbalanced power within relationships, culture, politics and religion. Dr. Tangie dissects the transactional aspect of sex in relationships, whether marital, professional or faith-based. She helps individuals understand this transactional manifestations in their sexuality and sexual relationships. Most importantly, how to restore that balance by empowering instead of powering through sex is her mission. Listen to her here. | |
Oct 8 – Episode 39: This One is for the Men with Dr. Martha Tara Lee Premature ejaculation, erectile difficulties, delayed ejaculation and low sex drive are some of the issues men come to Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee for. In this episode, she will be explaining the differences as well as share what she does in her work with the men who come in to seek her coaching services. Click here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Oct 1 – Episode 38: Vaginismus: A Virgin’s Curse? with Dr. Martha Tara Lee Vaginismus is a condition that happens when a woman’s vagina shuts down making sex difficult or impossible. This debilitating condition appears to happen to one in ten women, affecting their sexual lives, relationships and fertility. This show explains what vaginismus is, what Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee does in her work with more than 300 women with vaginismus, and her tips and suggestions for couples. Listen to her here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Sept 24 – Episode 37: Embodying Emotional Liberation with Joanne Ameya Joanne Ameya is most passionate about helping women remember the ways of the Feminine while making choices that are most resonant with their hearts. She invites women to move from their past wounds and hurts so that they may live a life of expressed heart desires. She will discuss how women get caught in a state of rupture and what practices and flower essences can help her live in rapture. Listen to her here. | |
Sept 17 – Episode 36: Finding Self Love with Lee Harrington In a world where we speak about our relationships and love for others, it is important to examine where our relationship with ourselves comes into play. This show will examine how we get to know ourselves, internal self-abusive dialogue, building success with others through self-affirmation, and taking ourselves out on dates as a way to live a more fulfilling life through deeper awareness of life and love alike. Listen to him here. | |
Sept 10 – Episode 35: Sexual Esteem with Jean Franzblau Martha welcomes Jean Franzblau to explore the elements that make up sexual esteem. Jean defines sexual esteem as “confidence in the worth of one’s sexuality.” Life events that can lower sexual esteem can include being the member of a sexual minority, religious influences, genital shaming during childhood and adolescence or traumatic sexual experiences. Luckily there are just as many interventions that can help claim, build and celebrate sexual esteem and Jean will share them with us. Listen to her here. | |
Sept 3 – Episode 34: Designer Relationships: Sharing Tools to Create and Nurture the Relationship You Desire with Michaels & Johnson Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson, multi-award winning authors of Partners in Passion and Great Sex Made Simple suggest that contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people, providing the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own circumstances, sexualities, understandings, and agreements. In Designer Relationships, Michaels and Johnson offer offer a new paradigm that emphasizes mutuality, a collaborative mindset, empathy, and transparency. They invite us to think outside the open-closed, monogamous-nonmongaoums box. Designer Relationships is also replete with how-to suggestions and exercises. According to Patricia and Mark, designer relationships can encompass: people who bond emotionally but not sexually; people who agree to be non-exclusive; happily single people who have occasional lovers or friends with benefits; multiple partner configurations where long-term bonds exist among all or some; partnerships in which people are kinky and that make room to explore kink, among many others. Designer Relationships provides you with the tools to recognize and then craft a way of loving that works for you. Listen here.
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Aug 26 – Episode 33: Holy Body: The Art of Self Loving with Rev. Goddess Charmaine The Sensuous Mystic.Self love and mystical masturbation plays a major role in our spiritual development. A daily meditative self-pleasuring ritual can bring healing and empowerment to our bodies, spirits and the world around us.
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Aug 20: Episode 32 – How to Be a Hot and Hypnotic Lover with Amy Marsh, Ed.D., DHS, CH, CI, ACS. Martha welcomes Amy Marsh for a second, very provocative discussion about the uses of hypnosis for sexual intimacy and pleasure. As a clinical sexologist and certified hypnotist, Amy is passionate about the value of hypnosis as a clinical tool, as well as a form of sexual and sensual enjoyment for lovers. In this show, Amy will focus on how you can use hypnosis to increase pleasure, sensation, and fantasy enjoyment in your own relationships. Listeners will even experience a brief sample of fantasy hypnosis. Listen here.
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Aug 13 – Episode 31: Sexuality and Spirituality – Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Aug 6 – Episode 30: Love Making Dances: Spirit, Dance, & Sex with Zahava Griss From age 2 to 22 dance teachers were the ones who taught Zahava to be in awe of the body. She joins us for a conversation about spirit, dance, and sex through the moving sensing body. Learn how intention, breath, and movement can transform emotions, presence us for meaningful intimacy, and connect us with a collective life force. Creating a felt sense of our power and self-knowledge can allow us to deconstruct the race, class, and gender messages directed at our bodies so we can embody self love independent of the ways society ranks us. Listen here. | |
July 30 – Episode 29: Make Love the Ecology of your Life! with SerenaGaia As a humanist, Serena believes that the arts and humanities are the sciences that help us invent the belief systems we need. The 20th century has been the century of anxiety, the most violent century when humanity has become too powerful for our own good. Now we clearly need a new belief system. Ecosexuality is a way to invent this new belief system as it teaches that love is the ecology of life. Love is what everyone wants and most people feel they are unable to produce. Listen here.
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July 23 – Episode 28: Gender and Trans Talk with Lee Harrington What are the differences between sex, gender, orientation, sexual behavior, romance and intimacy, relationship styles? This show will discuss Caitlyn Jenner who is being declared by some as a transgender leader, trans terminology and look at how gender and sexuality awareness (of self and others) is an opportunity for personal evolution and compassion practice. Listen here! | |
July 16 – Episode 27: Cyber Infidelity: The New Seduction with Dr Marlene Wasserman Dr Marlene Wasserman (or Dr Eve) has just released her latest book: ”Cyber Infidelity: The New Seduction”. Utilizing the database of www.ashleymadison.com, the world’s largest dating site for married people, Marlene brings to you cutting edge findings on what is cyber infidelity, why people commit it, how women behave online and discusses the future of #Sextech’s role in relationships. Come chat with her and consider your current use of technology and the impact it has on your significant relationship. Listen to her here.
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July 9 – Episode 26: The Emergence of a Modern Tantric Goddess in Therapeutic Practice – Exposing Sexuality Myths & Healing Shame with Taryn Harvey Taryn Harvey is passionate about bringing the topic of sex and intimacy out into the open, specifically around the area of sexual dysfunction & abuse; plus how to live a healthy fulfilling sexual life when single – or in a relationship with a partner who may be seriously ill. Her practice and coaching is all about empowerment for the individual. She highlights that body image issues create huge discrepancies in both men and women when it comes to confidence in mating, dating, relating and ageing. Self-esteem and communication skills are key in creating healthy sex lives full of passion and fun! More here. | |
July 2 – Episode 25: The Art & Science of Female Arousal with Laura-Doe Pleasure & embodiment coach and sexuality educator, Laura-Doe will discuss the physical, emotional and spiritual importance of pleasure, particularly for those in a female body. Laura-Doe is passionate about supporting people to understand and to cultivate the potent healing power of their sexual energy. She is in the final stages of production of a documentary seminar called The Art & Science of Female Arousal and hopes to make this much needed information available to singles and couples worldwide as well as to young people through schools and colleges. Listen to her here. | |
June 25 – Episode 24: How Entrepreneurs and Executives Can Thrive by Integrating Sexuality and Spirituality Into Their Lives with Sharon Hayes Martha welcomes Sharon Hayes to share the reasons why entrepreneurs and executives overlook integrating sexuality and spirituality into their every day lives and the toll this can take. With Martha, Sharon will look at the myths surrounding this and offer listeners some simple strategies to re-prioritize sexuality and spirituality to ultimately live a more balanced and happier life. Further discussion will go deeper into specifics for women who may find it challenging to get and keep the alpha and beta balance. Listen to it here. | |
June 18 – Episode 23: The Married Sex Solution: A Realistic Guide to Saving Your Sex Life with Dr Kat Van Kirk Dr Kat will discuss her book based on the sex therapy program she has developed over the past 14 years, working with hundreds of clients. There are 5 tenants of The Married Sex Solution: 10 minutes per day of body to body; Quantity over quality; No performing to get to the “Big O”; Focus on make out sex; 2 minute check in talks. Listen here. | |
June 11 – Episode 22: Balance the Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine with Robyn Vogel, Come Back To Love Coach and Psychotherapist One transformational part of Tantra practice is learning to align and re-balance the divine masculine and divine feminine inside ourselves. The benefits of this balancing are tremendous and include: more energy and less fatigue, releasing fear and coming back to love, improving relationships so there’s less conflict and more understanding, expanding sexual pleasure and, creating a viable business model that isn’t simply a healing practice but also lucrative business. Listen to her here! | |
June 4 – Episode 21: Self Pleasure your way to Self Love with Elise Savaresse Martha welcomes Elise Savaresse to discuss how women can use Self Pleasure as a spiritual practice to come back home to themselves. Elise believes that having a self-pleasure pratice is the fastest way to self-love. She is passionate about supporting women to stop looking outside of themselves for their sense of self-worth, safety and love. With Martha, she will reveal what is truly possible for women when they connect with themselves with full presence and love. Listen to her here. | |
May 28 – Episode 20: Repressed Sexuality In The 21 Century with Rev. Paul Bagge Paul discusses the causes and affects or Repressed Sexuality on today’s women. Where it came from and it’s hinderences on sexual growth and personal empowerment. Tips on opening up sexually and empowering that growth are given. Possible avenues of exploration and discovery are also discussed. Listen to it here. | |
May 21 – Episode 19: Reimagining Intimacy – How Hypnosis Helps Dysfunction, Increases Pleasure with Amy Marsh, Ed.D., DHS, CH, CI, ACS Martha welcomes Amy Marsh for a provocative discussion of sexological and erotic hypnosis. As a clinical sexologist and certified hypnotist, Amy is passionate about the value of hypnosis as a clinical tool, as well as a form of sexual and sensual enjoyment for lovers. Amy will discuss her work as the founder of a professional school offering rigorous training in sexological hypnosis. She’ll also share her experiences teaching erotic hypnosis to lovers. Further discussion will delve into the realm of erotic imagination and sexual energy and why this realm is easy to explore with hypnosis. Listen to her here. | |
May 14 – Episode 18: Let Nature Inspire the Arts of Love with Lindsay Hagamen Martha welcomes Lindsay Hagamen to share about the ways that we can look to Nature to enhance our relationship with our own sexuality, and, in the process, grow a more sustainable relationship with the planet. Lindsay is a lover of the Earth and is inspired by the ways that our most beloved ecosystems can help us reclaim the power and pleasure of our sexuality. With Martha, Lindsay will explore how Lover Earth can seduce us back into our bodies and help us create an erotic life that is more free, more abundant and more sustainable. Listen to it here. | |
May 7 – Episode 17: Sexuality and Spirituality with Felicia Hunt We are born Spiritual beings and we learn that we are having physical experiences. We also were born Sexual beings and we are that from the cradle to the grave. But the age we were born into hides our true purpose from us because of historical, social, religious and political purposes our authentic self was lost. We are all on our journey of completion. It takes connecting to our sexual and spiritual selves. Listen to it here. | |
April 30 – Episode 16: Sexuality and Spirituality – Recap with Dr. Martha Tara Lee This episode does a reflect-and-recap. Who have we had thus far? What have I learned about sexuality and spirituality? What would I suggest for listeners out there? Listen to it here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
April 23 – Episode 15: Exploring Your Direct Connection To The Divine with M’kali-Hashiki, Erotic Wellness Facilitator Why is sexuality a path to that connection, and why is that connection so important? Join us for an evocative conversation about our bodies, our pleasure, and our gods with M’kali-Hashiki, an Erotic Wellness Facilitator based in a Oakland, California, US. Listen to it here.
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April 16 – Episode 14: Your Sexuality is a gift- Unwrap it! with Diane Merpaw Sexuality is your natural birthright. Unfortunately , many are unable to fully embrace this natural and innate gift because of wounds such as shame, guilt, limited beliefs and/or trauma. Join us for a insightful conversation with Diane Merpaw, Professional Sex Coach and Spiritual Teacher who will share with you some tips, tools and strategies on how to unleash the sex goddess within you. Listen to it here! | |
April 9 – Episode 13: Exploring God as Eros with Rev Beverly Dale Christianity has emphasized the shame and guilt of our sexual needs and desires so much that even those who are religious or Christian are still wonder if a person of faith can legitimately celebrate sexual pleasure and sexual freedom? But the Rev. Beverly Dale challenges all sex negativity with a different view of the Christian message. She says it is time to celebrate the sexual body! Listen to it here. | |
April 2 – Episode 12: Sexuality in Hip Hop Music and Culture with Kitty Pride. Hip Hop is a cultural phenomenon that has inspired the entire world. Even with its inspiration, it has been controversial with sexually suggestive and misogynistic lyrics and imagery that has caused concerned for many people. However, at the same time, Hip Hop has been a culture that has been organized without further understanding of sexuality and how it affects, stimulates, and fits in. Kitty Pride will offer her synopsis of the history of sexuality in Hip Hop, where it is currently, and where she would like to see it go in the future. She will offer insight on how Hip Hop culture can be educated while influencing tolerance and responsibility. Listen to it here! | |
Mar 26 – Episode 11: Receptivity: Stop blocking yourself and finally get what you want, with Sally Reeves Conway Have you ever prayed, wished, asked, or worked for something–(whether with love, money, health, happiness, or spiritual connection)— and it’s gotten so close, but didn’t quite come to realization for you? Many people have a difficult time fully receiving, and you could be unknowingly blocking all the good that’s trying to come to you. Discover 3 easy tools you can use to increase your ability to receive more of what your heart desires. Listen to it here. | |
Mar 19 – Episode 10: Authentic Sexuality and Sacred Kink with Lee Harrington With the fictionalized story of 50 Shades having caught the public eye, let’s examine the rich and surprising crossover of authentic kinky sex with sacred journeys. How can we use these real-life tools for deep connection with self and others while following our own personal truths. Join us for a thoughtful and exciting discussion with spirituality and sexuality teacher and author Lee Harrington. Listen to it here! | |
Mar 12 – Episode 9: Transcendent Lovemaking™ with Drs. Rob + Janelle Alex, Ph.D. Your sex life can become a gateway to spirit and to guidance from beyond. Synchronistic events, serendipities, heightened confidence, enhanced creativity, improved problem-solving skills – all of these can begin to show up in your daily life when you experience Transcendent Lovemaking™ with intent. Join us as spiritualty and relationship experts, Drs. Rob + Janelle Alex, Ph.D., share with you how you can begin to experience this. Listen to it here! | |
Mar 5 – Episode 8: Feminine, Present & Spiritual with Rachael Jayne Groover Is it possible to be feminine, present and spiritual all at the time time? During this interview you will learn from Rachael Jayne Groover:• The link between feeling feminine, present, powerful and being spiritual | |
Feb 26 – Episode 7: The Five Keys to A Happy Sex Life with Dr. Patti Britton Dr. Patti will share her unique model for unblocking the stuck places in your sex life. She will share her approach using the “MEBES matrix” so that you can identify where you are stuck and move past those issues in your own life. She will also describe examples of people she has helped and reveal the magic she has brought into people’s lives as the pioneer of sex coaching in the world. Listen to it here. | |
Feb 19 – Episode 6: From Sex to Super Consciousnesses – Turning Ordinary Lovemaking into Sexual Meditation with Lorae Lauritch, CSB What is sexual meditation? How is Sexual meditation different than love making? And can sexual meditation really help us become enlightened beings?Join us for an inspiring conversation blending modern psychology, ancient wisdom and real life spirituality with Sacred Sexuality Coach Lorae Lauritch, CSB. Listen to it here. | |
Feb 12 – Episode 5: Replay of episode 4 as I missed my own radio show!
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Feb 5 – Episode 4: Owning Your Powerful Sexuality to Manifest Money with Diana Bonwick As woman we are biologically driven to create. Unfortunately most women are energetically disconnected from their creative force, their sexuality today. How can we utilise this powerful life force/sexual energy to create financial abundance in our life? How can we as woman feel sensual, alive and juicy and be a feminine leader in our field of expertise? Listen to it here. | |
Jan 29 – Episode 3: Tantra: Can Sex be a Spiritual Path? with Laurie Handlers What is tantra? Can tantra sex be a spiritual path? This show explores that with Laurie Handlers, film producer, sex educator and the author of Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy. Listen to it here. | |
Jan 22 – Episode 2: Exploring Sexuality and Spirituality with Dr. Martha Tara Lee Host of Eros Evolution and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee explains her intention for this show and shares her own stories and understanding around sexuality and spirituality. In this show, Dr. Lee introduces sexological bodywork, Medabation (coined by Annie Sprinkle) and Orgasmic Yoga (by Joseph Kramer). She invites listeners to explore their own attitudes, thoughts and beliefs around their sexuality, as well as the link between sexuality and spirituality for themselves. Listen here. Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). Martha holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as Certificates in Sex Therapy, Practical Counselling and Life Coaching. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World Singapore in July 2010 and ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women by CozyCot Singapore in March 2011. https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching | |
Jan 15 – Episode 1: Sex and Sexuality with Lawrence Lanoff What is it that makes us feel so badly in our bodies and minds when we consider our free flowing sexual energy? Why is it so difficult to get our deeper needs met and still feel spiritual? Join Dr. Martha Tara Lee as she discusses the answers to these questions with Lawrence Lanoff. Listen here. |
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and has most recently completed her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling. In practice for more than seven years, she is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.
Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network. She has published three books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga and From Princess to Queen.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.