Testimonials - Clients who Overcame Vaginismus

I have received many testimonials from clients who overcame Vaginismus (pronounced vaj-uh-niz-muhs) over the years. There are also many clients who chose not to write me one.

I decided to put all the testimonials on one page so you can see them at a glance.

Aug 2023 – “I had difficulties with intercourse since my wedding day.”
Nov 2022 – “I was in an unconsummated marriage for 8.5 years.”
March 2022 – “I trust you are well. It’s been a great year since we consulted you..”
February 2022 – “I could feel Martha was warm and compassionate during our meeting…”
Nov 2021 – “After just one session with you and the diligent practice from my partner, we have been having sex for quite a number of times…”
Sept 2021 – “I’m so happy to say that we’ve successfully had sex in less than a month…”
Oct 2020 – “After meeting you, our outlook on this totally changed.”
Sept 2020 – “I decided to relook your videos…”
March 2019 – “…best thing ever”
Dec 2018 – “Martha is akin to a miracle worker”
July 2017 –“And today, my husband and I have a healthy sex life.”
June 2017 –“… we managed to do it the full way, without pain, which I was very surprised.“
April 2016 – “… we couldn’t consummate our marriage even after 3 years”
Dec 2014 – “… we have been trying to conceive – hopefully we can share with you the good news really soon!“
April 2014 – “My wife felt pain and both of us were worry and a little frustrated.”
July 2013 – “We will keep your contact number, just in case we have sexual problem in the future, we will look for you for sure…”
June 2013 – “With Martha’s constant encouragement, and our progressive tryings, we finally had our first penetrative sex about 8 months after our first session with Martha…”
Feb 2013 – “Finally we had successful penetrative sex after two visits and within 2 months!”
July 2012 – “Dr Martha is very professional in her way of dealing which make me feel very comfortable about in sharing with her. At first…”
Feb 2012 – “Martha is someone whom you can share your darkest bedroom secrets with. She is always approachable, encouraging and positive…“
Aug 2011 – “Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex!”
Aug 2011 – “As long as I keep practicing those exercises, it will become better and I would be able to enjoy more for my sex life.”
2010 – “I thank Martha from the bottom of my heart, for giving me the self-esteem to be a healthy, sexual person and for being the force that managed to push me over one of the greatest hurdles of my life.”
2010 – “With her help I became a real women… she changed our lives… she strengthen my relationship with my husband.”

The above are the testimonials I received from clients who overcame Vaginismus, and yet there are many others who did not write me one. I respect their desire for privacy and to move on with their lives. Even asking for a testimonial, amid anonymous, is deemed as unethnical in some professional circles.

My clients wrote me their testimonial above knowing fully well that there are many others out there with this condition. They truly wanted to also encourage more people with vaginismus to seek support sooner than later.

Read this article published on Dec 18, 2014. For more about Vaginismus, click here.

A Better Option

I now offer an online program called Sex Possible.

Alternatively you can seek private sexuality coaching by asking for an appointment here info@eroscoaching.com.

Sign up to receive three FREE informational videos about Vaginismus I created here.

Why Sex Possible?

28 online training videos complete with transcripts + extra exercises
24 x 7 access – You can watch them anytime, anywhere, and with your partner/ spouse.
1 + 1 – Vaginimsus usually involves a couple. I will add your partner to the program for free.
Lifetime access (even after 28 days)
30-day money-back guarantee (I will return you your money if you feel this program is a waste of your time!)
Unlimited email support (This is how much I want to support you!)

I have worked with more than 250 women who have vaginismus over the last five years. I am confident that Sex Possible will answer most of, if not all, your questions around vaginismus and having sex.

If you have more questions, just drop me an email. (All correspondences are held always in the strictest confidence.)

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 12 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well as Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.