In Lori Gottlieb’s new book, Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough, she says she hesitated before dating she hesitated before dating someone because he had the name of a “nerdy sidekick.”

There are two views: for and against settling for Mr Good Enough.

Single women often declare they’d “rather be alone” than settle for someone who doesn’t fill out their (usually unrealistic) checklist. Gottlieb’s advice is: think carefully, ladies. Because, with that mentality, alone is how you’re probably going to end up.

She also said, “If you think all men are commitment-phobes, then commitment-phobes are clearly the only kind of man you date.”

It seems there is a lot in there that runs parallel with the principles of Law Of Attraction: You are what you think; You manifest what you believe. You certainly deserve the best and not to ‘settle’ but do you genuinely believe you want get your ideal him?